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Backing out of Gepik contract?

 
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jsouthal



Joined: 06 Jan 2012

PostPosted: Sun Jan 29, 2012 12:38 pm    Post subject: Backing out of Gepik contract? Reply with quote

Hi,

I recently had an interview with a public elementary school through my recruiter. The public school offered me the job, and I accepted it (I had to make a very quick decision as the starting date is March 1st). The next step was to send my signed contract and all my documents off to Gepik so they can officially accept me into the program. I didn't have all my documents ready to send in, so my recruiter sent most of them in with the Gepik application and signed contract. However, I am now really worried that teaching in a public school might be too lonely (they are not sending me to the orientation). I was initially attracted to the idea of teaching in a PS because of the vacation and the stability. But I have had the experience living and working as the only foreigner in a workplace in the past and found it to be a very lonely year, and would hate to have an experience like that again. Does anyone have any insight as to how they felt/feel working as the only foreigner in a PS, and how easy it is to meet and be part of a community of other expats outside of work?

Can I even back out now if I wanted to? They have most of my documents and a signed contract, but they are still missing a few things and Gepik hasn't officially accepted me into the program yet (even though the school wants me). I don't have a VIN yet, and everything was just sent off on Friday. Any thoughts?
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YTMND



Joined: 16 Jan 2012
Location: You're the man now dog!!

PostPosted: Sun Jan 29, 2012 2:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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However, I am now really worried that teaching in a public school might be too lonely (they are not sending me to the orientation).


Is this the only reason?

Loneliness is a man made concept. You can be in a group of 1,000 people who can't relate to you and vice versa. Is that better than being in a group of 3 who you can relate with?

I would strongly suggest you tackle this lonely disorder before considering working abroad.

After that, think it out. Every teacher has a schedule. When you teach, another teacher is also teaching. You are not able to be with that teacher because they are busy. Following so far? Ok.

So, where is the loneliness? The only time you could be with the other teacher/s is after school. Where? Why can't you work at a GEPIK school and then meet up with another teacher after school?

To repeat, if you work with 10 other teachers, you will be busy teaching. It won't matter that there are 10 or 2 teachers. You won't get a chance to do much with them during working hours. The only thing different between GEPIK jobs where you are the only teacher and a school with 10 teachers is that you work under one roof with one name by yourself or you all work under the same roof with the same name.

This isn't like a sport where you play together. Your job is to work in a classroom by yourself. You will be too tired in the middle of the week (Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday). On Monday, you will be preparing for that week's classes. This leaves you with Friday.

Even if you got a crappy GEPIK location, you could easily go into Seoul on Friday evening, spend the weekend and come back. The only thing you lose is a little bit of time. Personally, I find it better. It isn't crowded outside of the city.

Added to all this, let's say you get a dream job with 10 other teachers you connect with. Hanging out with them will take its toll. It will be like a family trip where you are all stuck together in a car. You will be working and hanging out after school. Eventually, you are going to want to network and meet other people anyway.
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jsouthal



Joined: 06 Jan 2012

PostPosted: Sun Jan 29, 2012 5:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks for your post. All very good points. I am an experienced traveller and have done a lot of work abroad, and absolutely do not have a "loneliness" problem haha.
So no need for a personal attack, just looking for some insight. I am not worried about being AT work, I understand what teaching is and how it works, I'm an independent worker and am excited about teaching. I'm also really looking forward to working with Koreans. I am worried about the fact that they're not sending me to orientation and I don't know anyone who's there... so how will life be after work and on the weekend when I don't work with anyone my age and don't know anyone? This is what I'm wondering about. I'm not sure how easy it will be to network when I don't know a soul to begin with. Even if I did work for a Hagwon where I really didn't connect with my co-workers, at least there would be a starting point for which to meet other people.
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plchron



Joined: 26 Feb 2011
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think they have training sessions and lectures sometimes where you met people in your area.
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sallymonster



Joined: 06 Feb 2010
Location: Seattle area

PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2012 5:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

OP, if you ever seek English-speaking companionship, just come on up to Seoul on the weekends and join us for our latest adventure:

http://www.meetup.com/lostinseoul/
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3DR



Joined: 24 May 2009

PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2012 10:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Trust me you won't get lonely. With facebook, meetup, etc, there is no excuse. Whatever city you're in, find the group on facebook and start networking.

I worked in public school my first year and a hagwon my second year. I felt more lonely at the hagwon because the schedule was 3-10, and the foreign teachers that worked there weren't very social. So I only had two days to socialize.

If you're at a public school, you can meet people after work and have your time during the weekend.
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Cacille



Joined: 05 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm also a newb going into a public school in a rural town!
Lonely? Sure, but I'm ok with that. I know i can come to this site and or do meetups with others here. I doubt you'll be as lonely as you think you will be. I'm definitely gonna stay with the public school I joined, assuming I like it well enough. No sense giving up a job to go to a possibly horrible hagwon, just to maybe have more people around.
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