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J Rock

Joined: 17 Jan 2009 Location: The center of the Earth, Suji
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 9:26 am Post subject: IN-LAWS AWFUL FOOD |
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I just had Dinner at my in-laws house and my wife's mom makes the WORST home made kimchi in the world. Before I explain what it tasted like I should point out that I�m not really a picky eater at all and I eat kimchi everyday.
Now on to my Mother in laws Kimchi, it has an orange color to, which by itself wouldn�t put me off if it still tasted good. I ate a piece of it and it was so sour I cringed and my face puckered up. It was rubbery and had no heat or sweet taste to it, just an overpowering sour taste. I couldn�t even taste anything just sourness. I didn�t eat any more by itself but did move on to the kimchi chiggae.
I should also note that every time we go over to their house, the grandma gives me history lessons about old time Korea. I don�t really mind because she�s a nice old lady (nice old lady that wanted to kill me when she found out her granddaughter was pregnant, but has since gotten over it) and she gets really excited when she talks about when she used to be young. Well I had mentioned that my favorite Korean food of all time was Kimchi Chiggae. She told me that Kimchi Chiggae was originally invented because they always had leftover Kimchi and right before it got to the rotten point they made it into soup. Being in the soup it hid the flavor just enough so that you couldn�t tell it was about to go bad.
So as I took my first spoonful of soup I was hoping it would taste different than the kimchi alone. Nope it tasted just like the awful kimchi, awful isn�t even the right word it was just disgusting. The broth even tasted sour and just had no flavor. I have never ever had Kimchi Chiggae that bad in my life, and they were all chowing it down like it was the best soup in history and kept saying, �OOOHHH, AAAAHHHH, DELICIOUS!!!!!!.�
The one person I was looking to appeal to was my sister in laws boyfriend, he was a cook while he was in the army and has made me Kimchi Chiggae because I was curious if the �army version� was different than the restaurant version, they were both equally awesome. I�m looking at him like are you really eating this crap?
After we left I said to my wife, �your moms Kimchi tastes a little different than other Kimchi.� She�s like �how so?� I didn�t want to be a jerk and say it sucked so I let it go.
Anyone else have in laws who cook like crap? I guess maybe it wasn�t the cooking of it but the flavor was god awful. Who knows, I wonder if it�s gonna look bad if I bring my own kimchi next time I go over there? |
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sml7285
Joined: 26 Apr 2012
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 9:38 am Post subject: Re: IN-LAWS AWFUL FOOD |
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J Rock wrote: |
... my wife's mom makes the WORST home made kimchi in the world. |
My parents have lived in the US for close to 30 years now and my mom has been homemaking kimchi for that long. When I speak with my aunts who are still in Korea though, they tell me that they buy their own kimchi for the most part and only make it for when my grandmother comes over. Needless to say, their kimchi isn't as good (well at least to me) as my mom's or even as good as the store bought kind. Your mother-in-law may just be out of practice.
Is her other cooking as bad? |
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giraffe
Joined: 07 Apr 2009
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 9:49 am Post subject: |
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I must be lucky ... My mother in laws cooking is awesome ! She cooks everything. And beats any Korean restaurant out of the water :p. at least I think so ! All the different kimchi she makes is wonderful. Not quite sure how I would handle your situation though :/. Maybe Suggest going to restaurant. Ext time instead of them cooking |
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Zulethe

Joined: 04 Jul 2008
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 11:17 am Post subject: |
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The Kimchee you ate was "old" kimchee as you probably already know. I personally prefer old kimchee for kimchee chigae but new kimchee for everyday eating.
The older generation generally prefer old kimchee.
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Jonephant
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 2:52 pm Post subject: |
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my mother in-laws cooking is really bad but she knows i think its bad and we all have a laugh about it. I might say at the dinner table that "this kimchee tastes suspiciously good" and my mother in-law will say "i bought it cause i knew you were coming to dinner" and we all laugh. |
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soomin
Joined: 18 Jun 2009 Location: Daegu
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 9:23 pm Post subject: |
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Zulethe wrote: |
The Kimchee you ate was "old" kimchee as you probably already know. I personally prefer old kimchee for kimchee chigae but new kimchee for everyday eating.
The older generation generally prefer old kimchee.
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Exactly what I was thinking... Even really good kimchi can become overpoweringly sour if it's old, especially if it's not kept in a special kimchi refrigerator or in good containers... Is there anything she cooks that you like? Usually my future mother-in-law (who is the best cook, ever <3) makes new things every time i come over... Just try little bits of everything and once you find a couple things you like, make a BIG DEAL over them and she'll probably start making them all the time~ She might have some newer kimchi, as well, but I heard kimchi-making-season was at the end of summer/fall so... maybe in a few months there will be some fresh and spicy kimchi coming your way? You can also hint that you *love* "생김치" (saeng kimchi/ fresh kimchi) and see if she has any...
Good luck!!! |
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Modernist
Joined: 23 Mar 2011 Location: The 90s
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 11:52 pm Post subject: |
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Of all the Korean foods I dislike, I dislike kimchi the absolute most. Hate it, would be a more accurate description. When I first got here I tried at least a dozen different kinds and wanted to vomit each time. Going past the kimchi stalls in my local market still stimulates the same reaction. I have not touched kimchi in almost a year and I don't intend to do it again, ever.
That said, has ANYONE in a serious relationship with a Korean, male or female, been able to handle just saying, 'I don't like kimchi. I don't want to eat it, ever, not even a little, no matter who makes it. Any kimchi, ever'? Is it posible to do this, or is it REQUIRED that you pretend to like it? Are Koreans capable of grasping that people can just not like kimchi, and that fact does not bear on anything else necessarily [e.g., hating Korea itself, or being closed-minded, or whatever]? I just HATE the stuff. I REALLY do. It's like the perfect creation to generate absolute revulsion in me. |
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Jonephant
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 1:11 am Post subject: |
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Modernist wrote: |
Of all the Korean foods I dislike, I dislike kimchi the absolute most. Hate it, would be a more accurate description. When I first got here I tried at least a dozen different kinds and wanted to vomit each time. Going past the kimchi stalls in my local market still stimulates the same reaction. I have not touched kimchi in almost a year and I don't intend to do it again, ever.
That said, has ANYONE in a serious relationship with a Korean, male or female, been able to handle just saying, 'I don't like kimchi. I don't want to eat it, ever, not even a little, no matter who makes it. Any kimchi, ever'? Is it posible to do this, or is it REQUIRED that you pretend to like it? Are Koreans capable of grasping that people can just not like kimchi, and that fact does not bear on anything else necessarily [e.g., hating Korea itself, or being closed-minded, or whatever]? I just HATE the stuff. I REALLY do. It's like the perfect creation to generate absolute revulsion in me. |
I have the same thing with Thai green curry. I know a few Koreans who dont like kimchee either. |
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yodanole
Joined: 02 Mar 2003 Location: La Florida
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 8:21 am Post subject: |
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Some guy with mother-in-law problems. Now I've heard everything! Old, sour kimchi is more delicious to me than fresh. Fresh kimchi is basically only a Korean cabbage salad. |
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soomin
Joined: 18 Jun 2009 Location: Daegu
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 8:42 am Post subject: |
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Modernist wrote: |
That said, has ANYONE in a serious relationship with a Korean, male or female, been able to handle just saying, 'I don't like kimchi. I don't want to eat it, ever, not even a little, no matter who makes it. Any kimchi, ever'? Is it posible to do this, or is it REQUIRED that you pretend to like it? Are Koreans capable of grasping that people can just not like kimchi, and that fact does not bear on anything else necessarily [e.g., hating Korea itself, or being closed-minded, or whatever]? I just HATE the stuff. I REALLY do. It's like the perfect creation to generate absolute revulsion in me. |
I've always really loved kimchi, so it's never been a problem for me... I do tell my future-mother-in-law about foods I don't like, (for example, curry. I really don't like yellow curry or many foods with Indian spices...)... My fiance will also tell his mother "she doesn't like such-and-such." I think it's important to be honest, but at the same time, if someone made something, it's rude not to try it at least once. If you're rarely sitting down to dinner with them, it's not too big of a deal, especially in Korea where everything is family-style so you can pick and choose and don't have to "clean your plate" that is full of kimchi. If you visit often, you should politely say you don't prefer to eat something...
Like I said before, find things you *do* like, and focus on those rather than making a big deal out of the little bowl of take-as-you-like kimchi... |
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Hugo85
Joined: 27 Aug 2010
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 2:52 pm Post subject: |
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I love old kimchi. Your in-laws food is not terrible, your sense of taste just hasn't gotten used to it. It's like people who can't eat raw oyster, blue cheese or any other number of things people learn to like (and love). |
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fermentation
Joined: 22 Jun 2009
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 3:40 pm Post subject: |
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lol at people who are chiding the TS for not getting the taste of old kimchi. It's possible that it is too old. I prefer sour kimchi myself but sometimes people mess up the containing process or their kimchi fridge malfunctions it just gets too sour to the point it is hard to eat with a straight face. |
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tiger fancini

Joined: 21 Mar 2006 Location: Testicles for Eyes
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 7:38 pm Post subject: |
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Modernist wrote: |
Are Koreans capable of grasping that people can just not like kimchi, and that fact does not bear on anything else necessarily [e.g., hating Korea itself, or being closed-minded, or whatever]? |
In my experience, most Koreans expect foreigners not to like Kimchi. Hence the amazement when I eat, enjoy and ask for more of it. |
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Daantaat
Joined: 07 Oct 2010 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 8:16 pm Post subject: |
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Modernist wrote: |
Of all the Korean foods I dislike, I dislike kimchi the absolute most. Hate it, would be a more accurate description. When I first got here I tried at least a dozen different kinds and wanted to vomit each time. Going past the kimchi stalls in my local market still stimulates the same reaction. I have not touched kimchi in almost a year and I don't intend to do it again, ever.
That said, has ANYONE in a serious relationship with a Korean, male or female, been able to handle just saying, 'I don't like kimchi. I don't want to eat it, ever, not even a little, no matter who makes it. Any kimchi, ever'? Is it posible to do this, or is it REQUIRED that you pretend to like it? Are Koreans capable of grasping that people can just not like kimchi, and that fact does not bear on anything else necessarily [e.g., hating Korea itself, or being closed-minded, or whatever]? I just HATE the stuff. I REALLY do. It's like the perfect creation to generate absolute revulsion in me. |
My MIL makes the spiciest kimchi ever, but I just told her that the spice burns my stomach, so she makes me a milder kind that doesn't have the red pepper spice in it. Some Korean people expect that foreigners can't eat spicy food, so you could use that as an excuse if someone asks why you're not eating the kimchi. It doesn't reflect badly on you or on the country. |
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soomin
Joined: 18 Jun 2009 Location: Daegu
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 11:01 pm Post subject: |
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fermentation wrote: |
lol at people who are chiding the TS for not getting the taste of old kimchi. It's possible that it is too old. I prefer sour kimchi myself but sometimes people mess up the containing process or their kimchi fridge malfunctions it just gets too sour to the point it is hard to eat with a straight face. |
LOL~ that happened to me... I kept a giant container full of kimchi for a long time and while it was amazing to begin with, by the end it was like eating lemons  |
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