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World Traveler
Joined: 29 May 2009
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 Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 11:46 am Post subject: What Women Find Attractive |
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From the Discovery Channel:
Science of Sex Appeal: What Women Find Attractive
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoKA-a5vEEc
What do you think of this? True? |
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Michael_75
Joined: 13 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 1:07 pm Post subject: |
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| Women like money. You don't need scientific experiments to prove that. You just need a picture of Bernie Ecclestone. |
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2i2dk1ny2i3
Joined: 26 Jun 2011
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 1:48 pm Post subject: |
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| Michael_75 wrote: |
| Women like money. You don't need scientific experiments to prove that. You just need a picture of Bernie Ecclestone. |
thats a very quick to judge and either uninformed about the opposite sex or jaded answer
Women are Not attracted just to money...there are so many different factors that goes into it
as mentioned in the video one of them being Provider for her and their future offspring
while cars, bling, and other materialistic stuff fade for the vast majority of women past their teenage years, some do still maintain this or confuse this as "Love" when they settle down with a mate
girls turn into women and most women base their choice on a lot of underlying factors where one will have priority over the other
love, looks, status over money, money over status, power, finding one's counter-point or opposite as in opposites does attract, some setttle down w/someone just like them, etc.
you also have to look at other things like symmetry...this is a VERY important word that the video kinda touches on but doesn't really discuss...basically if you were to split anyone's face in half, the closer it lines up to the other half, the more attractive one is perceived even though they might not have ALL the features that are attractive...often Symmetry matters A LOT, they did a study of the most famous people in Hollywood and the top stars Jolie, Pitt, etc. had an almost perfect facial symmetry
beyond just famous people, those perceived as more attractive had a greater percentage of symmetry of the face
so what one women might see as less attractive, another women might fall in love with even though he has big/small eyes, tall/short frame, large/average build. etc...there's a lot more factors but i think this should be enough to show...its not just all about the Benjaminss |
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ajosshi
Joined: 17 Jan 2011
Location: ajosshi.com
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 2:43 pm Post subject: |
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| whatever is going to make their life better/easier |
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Greyjoy
Joined: 12 Jun 2011
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 3:34 pm Post subject: |
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Aspie ESL teachers have to compensate for their shortcomings with material goods.
Alert the internet. |
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Zackback
Joined: 05 Nov 2010
Location: Kyungbuk
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 3:36 pm Post subject: |
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| An older man. |
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ajosshi
Joined: 17 Jan 2011
Location: ajosshi.com
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 5:29 pm Post subject: |
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| Zackback wrote: |
| An older man. |
Zack, Are you still with the one? |
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Zackback
Joined: 05 Nov 2010
Location: Kyungbuk
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 5:57 pm Post subject: |
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Yes.
She is on her first summer break from her university.
I wish these summer nights with her would be endless.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z9rT2hZwk2k
Thing is my contract is finishing soon and I'd like to teach where she goes to school but it would be difficult to keep things on the sly all the time.
I will say this as well....I am so relieved that it is summer vacation because that means less work for me. To be honest she is (I'll be blunt) a total airhead and I have had to "help" her with so much of her homework. But...I really dig chicks like that so it's worth it. |
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marsavalanche
Joined: 27 Aug 2010
Location: where pretty lies perish
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 6:13 pm Post subject: |
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you could tell this thread is full of dudes who never had an attractive girlfriend back home. its not about looks, money, cars or any one that stuff.
its about giving women something they have to work for. making her gain your approval. my beautiful kgirl could choose from tons of foreign dudes. but at the end of the day she snuggles next to me because Im not desperately seeking her approval like you are. hell it explains why you see so many foreign dudes with mediocre asian girls, and none of the hot ones in korea.
stop letting hollywood distort your reality. |
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Ruby Thursday
Joined: 29 Jun 2011
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 6:35 pm Post subject: |
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| marsavalanche wrote: |
you could tell this thread is full of dudes who never had an attractive girlfriend back home. its not about looks, money, cars or any one that stuff.
its about giving women something they have to work for. making her gain your approval. my beautiful kgirl could choose from tons of foreign dudes. but at the end of the day she snuggles next to me because Im not desperately seeking her approval like you are. hell it explains why you see so many foreign dudes with mediocre asian girls, and none of the hot ones in korea. |
Pot, Kettle, how ya doin'?
If YOU were the type who was able to score an attractive girl back home you wouldn't feel the need to post about your "K gf" or feel compelled to slag western females. You are charisma man 101. You're a natural beta who has convinced himself he's an alpha. You're textbook buddy. As transparent as your gf's t-panties (yes, i've seen them, as has half of the guys living in Seoul). |
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marsavalanche
Joined: 27 Aug 2010
Location: where pretty lies perish
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 7:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Ruby Thursday wrote: |
| marsavalanche wrote: |
you could tell this thread is full of dudes who never had an attractive girlfriend back home. its not about looks, money, cars or any one that stuff.
its about giving women something they have to work for. making her gain your approval. my beautiful kgirl could choose from tons of foreign dudes. but at the end of the day she snuggles next to me because Im not desperately seeking her approval like you are. hell it explains why you see so many foreign dudes with mediocre asian girls, and none of the hot ones in korea. |
Pot, Kettle, how ya doin'?
If YOU were the type who was able to score an attractive girl back home you wouldn't feel the need to post about your "K gf" or feel compelled to slag western females. You are charisma man 101. You're a natural beta who has convinced himself he's an alpha. You're textbook buddy. As transparent as your gf's t-panties (yes, i've seen them, as has half of the guys living in Seoul). |
lol and yet another one of my stalkers here nerdraging every time I make a post.
I should make a facebook page so you kids won't be nail biting all day anticipating where I pop up next.
would you like that sport?
lol |
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Ruby Thursday
Joined: 29 Jun 2011
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 7:23 pm Post subject: |
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| marsavalanche wrote: |
| Ruby Thursday wrote: |
| marsavalanche wrote: |
you could tell this thread is full of dudes who never had an attractive girlfriend back home. its not about looks, money, cars or any one that stuff.
its about giving women something they have to work for. making her gain your approval. my beautiful kgirl could choose from tons of foreign dudes. but at the end of the day she snuggles next to me because Im not desperately seeking her approval like you are. hell it explains why you see so many foreign dudes with mediocre asian girls, and none of the hot ones in korea. |
Pot, Kettle, how ya doin'?
If YOU were the type who was able to score an attractive girl back home you wouldn't feel the need to post about your "K gf" or feel compelled to slag western females. You are charisma man 101. You're a natural beta who has convinced himself he's an alpha. You're textbook buddy. As transparent as your gf's t-panties (yes, i've seen them, as has half of the guys living in Seoul). |
lol and yet another one of my stalkers here nerdraging every time I make a post.
I should make a facebook page so you kids won't be nail biting all day anticipating where I pop up next.
would you like that sport?
lol |
Please do, chief. And include the obligatory pics of you posing all doochy with your "hot 'k' gf". It'll be the nail in the coffin for us all, driving us into a month long depression. A clear illustration of your awesomeness will solidify your place as king of all the internets.
Get on it. |
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MoneyMike
Joined: 03 Dec 2008
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 8:01 pm Post subject: |
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The video had some decent enough points. Women are attracted to men that display dominance in one way or another. Money is one way to show this, as are things like social dominance. (which includes sense of humor, popularity, ability to be the center of attention of a group of people)
The point they made about girls marrying someone they find less attractive because of their provider traits is also true enough. Girls are attracted to dominant men, but when they want to have kids will sometimes settle for someone who has lots of provider traits. (but are less attracted to)
This makes sense too, since you obviously look for different things in a father than you would in a fling/short term boyfriend.
Also, hate on mars all you want, but dudes right. Feelings are to women what sex is to men. You give that up as soon as you meet someone, and there's no way you'll be respected or desired. Telling a girl how beautiful, smart, and wonderful she is before getting anywhere sexually with her is just asking to be put in the friend zone. (trust me on this one, I know the friend zone well from my high school/uni days)
What mars was talking about is called 'disqualifying' by people who actively work on their dating skills. Just means to flip to script of an interaction: instead of you trying to show the girl that you're a funny, cool guy, you tell her that you only date girls who are interesting (or something similar), then watch as she tries to show you how interesting she is. A lot of girls I know seem to like a bit of a chase. |
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Savant
Joined: 25 May 2007
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 8:15 pm Post subject: |
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| marsavalanche wrote: |
you could tell this thread is full of dudes who never had an attractive girlfriend back home. its not about looks, money, cars or any one that stuff.
its about giving women something they have to work for. making her gain your approval. my beautiful kgirl could choose from tons of foreign dudes. but at the end of the day she snuggles next to me because Im not desperately seeking her approval like you are. hell it explains why you see so many foreign dudes with mediocre asian girls, and none of the hot ones in korea.
stop letting hollywood distort your reality. |
Please post pics of your girlfriend so us lesser foreign dudes can look at her in wondrous awe, followed by giving you a big pat on your back for hooking such a hottie. |
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Savant
Joined: 25 May 2007
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| Posted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 8:15 pm Post subject: |
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| marsavalanche wrote: |
you could tell this thread is full of dudes who never had an attractive girlfriend back home. its not about looks, money, cars or any one that stuff.
its about giving women something they have to work for. making her gain your approval. my beautiful kgirl could choose from tons of foreign dudes. but at the end of the day she snuggles next to me because Im not desperately seeking her approval like you are. hell it explains why you see so many foreign dudes with mediocre asian girls, and none of the hot ones in korea.
stop letting hollywood distort your reality. |
Please post pics of your girlfriend so us lesser foreign dudes can look at her in wondrous awe, followed by giving you a big pat on your back for hooking such a hottie. |
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