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People taking my picture on the subway
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asdfghjkl



Joined: 21 Jun 2011

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:56 pm    Post subject: People taking my picture on the subway Reply with quote

I was visiting Seoul this weekend, and some Korean woman kept taking my picture on the subway. I think she was trying to be covert, but she forgot to turn the sound off on her phone, and I heard the shutter sound effect. I said "haji ma" and put my arm out, and she started yelling at me in Korean. It was something about foreigners in Korea, but I couldn't understand everything she said. I thought that the people around me would come to my defense since she was being obnoxious, but the girl sitting next to me just got up and moved when the scene started!

I have lived in Korea for a while, and this has never happened to me before. I thought that I could at least expect to be treated normally in Seoul.
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thatkidpercy



Joined: 05 Sep 2010

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 5:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Are you 100% sure she was taking a picture of you? A lot of people have no shame taking pictures of themselves in public places using the front-facing camera on their phone and there's a chance that's what she was doing. I see people of all ages doing this every day.

If she was taking your picture, it's certainly strange and not representative of people in Seoul in general. I've been here 2 years and haven't experienced this (to my knowledge) - I'm 6'5 and so get some funny looks but in general people don't pay foreigners on the train much attention. You probably just had the misfortune to sit near a nut.

For future reference "그러지 마세요" (keu-reo-ji-ma-se-yo / Please don't do that) is a more appropriate way to ask a stranger to stop doing something. "haji-ma" sounds like you're talking to a kid.
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blm



Joined: 11 Nov 2010

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 5:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

thatkidpercy wrote:
Are you 100% sure she was taking a picture of you? A lot of people have no shame taking pictures of themselves in public places using the front-facing camera on their phone and there's a chance that's what she was doing. I see people of all ages doing this every day.



This is very very common and is what I would have assumed.

I have had Koreans take photos of me before though. The funniest incidence was a tiny little girl who was way too young to own a smart phone.

I could see the photo she took of me on her screen..... I wonder what her parent would think when they see a random photo of a foreigner on their phone.
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seoulsucker



Joined: 05 Mar 2006
Location: The Land of the Hesitant Cutoff

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 7:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Out of curiosity, were you sitting in a seat reserved for elderly/pregnant/handicapped?
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asdfghjkl



Joined: 21 Jun 2011

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 8:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

seoulsucker wrote:
Out of curiosity, were you sitting in a seat reserved for elderly/pregnant/handicapped?


No, I was just sitting in one of the normal seats. I think the only thing I was doing that could have provoked contempt was drinking a beer, but it was only a 12 oz can and on the line that goes through Itaewon, so I don't see what the big deal is.
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NYC_Gal 2.0



Joined: 10 Dec 2010

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 8:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, there's your answer. You were drinking a beer on the subway.
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Chalmers



Joined: 20 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 8:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

asdfghjkl wrote:
seoulsucker wrote:
Out of curiosity, were you sitting in a seat reserved for elderly/pregnant/handicapped?


No, I was just sitting in one of the normal seats. I think the only thing I was doing that could have provoked contempt was drinking a beer, but it was only a 12 oz can and on the line that goes through Itaewon, so I don't see what the big deal is.


This is a joke right?
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bindairdundat



Joined: 20 Jun 2012

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 8:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

asdfghjkl wrote:
seoulsucker wrote:
Out of curiosity, were you sitting in a seat reserved for elderly/pregnant/handicapped?


No, I was just sitting in one of the normal seats. I think the only thing I was doing that could have provoked contempt was drinking a beer, but it was only a 12 oz can and on the line that goes through Itaewon, so I don't see what the big deal is.


LOL! Waegookin-gate. You'll soon be famous.
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Weigookin74



Joined: 26 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 8:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

asdfghjkl wrote:
seoulsucker wrote:
Out of curiosity, were you sitting in a seat reserved for elderly/pregnant/handicapped?


No, I was just sitting in one of the normal seats. I think the only thing I was doing that could have provoked contempt was drinking a beer, but it was only a 12 oz can and on the line that goes through Itaewon, so I don't see what the big deal is.


Thanks for giving foreigners a bad reputation in Korea. Generally, Koreans don't drink a can of beer on the subway or walking up the street. Only those "evil waygooks" do that. Again, thanks. Much obliged!
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asdfghjkl



Joined: 21 Jun 2011

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 8:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've seen other foreigners drinking beer on the subway. It's hardly a photoworthy event. I still think she was being rude and intrusive. In America, somebody would probably slap the phone out of her hands.
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tiger fancini



Joined: 21 Mar 2006
Location: Testicles for Eyes

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 9:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

asdfghjkl wrote:
In America, somebody would probably slap the phone out of her hands.


In America, somebody probably wouldn't say "haji ma" to try and prevent this kind of thing. Point being, you're not in America and it seems that you know it, based on your decision to use this expression. Korean media, well Chosun Ilbo anyway, has been campaigning recently against public drinking so that's probably why you got negativity. Anybody who drinks alcohol on the subway looks extremely un-classy in my opinion.
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 9:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The last cell phone I had in Korea had a camera and there was no way to disable the shutter sound. Even if you had the phone on silent mode, the shutter would still sound.

And to the poster drinking an open container of alcohol on the subway: the subway's not a frat party. It doesn't matter that you've seen "other foreigners" doing that, it's still not a frat party. Do you care to guess the legality of the act? Try it sometime in front of a police officer on the train.
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asdfghjkl



Joined: 21 Jun 2011

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 9:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Whatever, CentralCali. I don't know why you're being so condescending. You're allowed to drink pretty much anywhere in Korea, and it's not like I was drunk, so I don't see what the big deal is. I was by myself and not whooping it up fratboy style, which you seem to know so much about.
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 9:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

asdfghjkl wrote:
Whatever, CentralCali. I don't know why you're being so condescending. You're allowed to drink pretty much anywhere in Korea, and it's not like I was drunk, so I don't see what the big deal is. I was by myself and not whooping it up fratboy style, which you seem to know so much about.


You were drinking a beer in a place where it's not allowed. Next time you hop on that subway, assuming you're sober at the time, check out those nifty prohibitory signs on the subway car.

FTR: "pretty much anywhere" does not equal "wherever I darn well feel like."
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fermentation



Joined: 22 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 9:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

CentralCali wrote:
Do you care to guess the legality of the act? Try it sometime in front of a police officer on the train.


Is drinking in the subway illegal? I couldn't find anything on it.
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