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ghostrider
Joined: 27 Jun 2011
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 Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2012 3:31 am Post subject: Is it hell to be a middle aged woman looking for love? |
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| But men have no idea of just how sad it is to be a single, middle-aged woman looking for love. I had no idea either until it happened to me. |
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| Men no longer look at me. They look through me. |
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To my horror, I've discovered even men in their 50s and 60s like John aren't interested in me. I was talking to a silver-haired guy at a party a few weeks ago when I noticed his eyes swivel past me to the leggy blonde sauntering past, who was young enough to be his granddaughter.
It's cruel and unfair, and there are examples of it everywhere. Look at Ronnie Wood, the wrinkly Rolling Stones rocker, who's just got engaged to a beautiful woman aged 34. |
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Looking good has become a full-time job: I run two hours a day to try to keep my thighs toned and my tummy flat. I'm so petrified of putting on weight, I starve myself for hours on end. My bathroom cabinet is stuffed with expensive moisturisers and, if I could afford it, I would be Botoxed up to the elbows.
The truth is that when you're middle-aged, it's not good enough to just look good. You have to look young. |
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One of the men I was with hissed: 'You look like mutton dressed as lamb.'
I was devastated.
A girlfriend was even more blunt. 'Kate, you've got to face it. Your face doesn't match your body,' she said. |
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2247192/My-mortifying-moment-Christmas-party-hell-48-desperate.html
Must be rough.... |
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highstreet
Joined: 13 Nov 2010
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2012 6:57 am Post subject: |
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| Men age better than women, so I can see why she would feel that way. |
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comm
Joined: 22 Jun 2010
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2012 7:07 am Post subject: |
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| When I was in my 30s, I had a brilliant social life. A partner would have cramped my style. Now I don't want to be out dating. All I want is to snuggle up on the sofa with someone. And that someone is impossible to find. |
"When I was in my 30s, men in their 50s and 60s paid attention to me and not women their age... now I'm almost 50 and inexplicably men my age are paying attention to women in their 30s"
Something's Gotta Give is one of my favorite movies, but it's about as realistic as The Avengers. |
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ricochet
Joined: 04 Sep 2011
Location: carpetbagging...
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2012 7:48 am Post subject: |
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i totally crush on and dig women in their 40s, 50s...but coz of my handsome boyish good looks, they dont buy that im actually 45 and think im way younger...too young for their sexy asses...they think they wud be robbing the crib dating my handsome ass!  |
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Dodge7
Joined: 21 Oct 2011
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2012 8:00 am Post subject: |
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| i totally crush on and dig women in their 40s, 50s...but coz of my handsome boyish good looks, they dont buy that im actually 45 and think im way younger...too young for their sexy asses...they think they wud be robbing the crib dating my handsome ass! |
Your 45 but write like a twink? |
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Titus
Joined: 19 May 2012
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Women are misled by the media. Many women think they can delay marriage and childbirth indefinately. They can't.
Women think they can divorce their husband and have a sexy romance like that woman who went to India in that film. Here's the reality:
http://assets.aarp.org/rgcenter/general/divorce.pdf
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Almost 9 in 10 men (87%) dated after their divorce, compared to 8 in 10 women (79%)� Among those who dated after the divorce, more than half of men (54%) but fewer women remarried (39%).
Many women, especially those who have not remarried (69%), do not touch or hug at all sexually. An even larger majority of women who have not remarried do not engage in sexual intercourse (77% saying not at all), in comparison with about half of men (49%) who have not remarried. |
Women need to be very careful regarding life timing and how they plan for the future.
Then again, screw'em. The selfish women who rips families apart can enjoy "Many women, especially those who have not remarried (69%), do not touch or hug at all sexually". |
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ricochet
Joined: 04 Sep 2011
Location: carpetbagging...
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2012 8:08 am Post subject: |
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| i totally crush on and dig women in their 40s, 50s...but coz of my handsome boyish good looks, they dont buy that im actually 45 and think im way younger...too young for their sexy asses...they think they wud be robbing the crib dating my handsome ass! |
Your 45 but write like a twink? |
yeah but i have a nice personality.  |
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Privateer
Joined: 31 Aug 2005
Location: Easy Street.
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Died By Bear
Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee
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They're best between 23-28 yrs. old. No kids and can NOT be from Canada.
 kidding of course. |
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