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MiXX
Joined: 30 Aug 2012
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Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 1:39 am Post subject: Difference between Korean and Japanese people? |
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Looks? Personality characteristics? Societal perceptions etc? |
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Squire

Joined: 26 Sep 2010 Location: Jeollanam-do
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Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 1:55 am Post subject: |
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I was on the lookout for differences when I visited Japan, but all I really came away with was that Japanese people seemed quieter, more polite (by western standards anyway) and youth culture was far more visible. A week and a half is nothing though. I'd be interested to hear from somebody who has lived in both countries |
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Died By Bear

Joined: 13 Jul 2010 Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee
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Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 2:05 am Post subject: |
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Japanese parents teach their children well. It's true. Citizenship skills are important. |
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IPayInCash
Joined: 27 Jul 2013 Location: Away from all my board stalkers :)
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Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 2:16 am Post subject: |
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I've lived in both countries. The biggest thing that stands out is their clothes. Japanese fashion is like what would happen if you walked into your closet, it exploded, and you walked out (this is called an expression, please don't come here and argue thermodynamics Steelrails). Koreans actually dress very boring in comparision. Baseball caps, high heels, "couple tees", and the women all seem to wear the same one piece only in different skin tone colors.
Koreans have better teeth. A lot of Japanese have bad teeth.
And the Japanese are much more polite and have more class. All of that bumping in public, spitting, hogging the left side of the escalator so no one else can move up, putting bags on the chair beside you so no one can sit there, rude noise levels on the train or bus, taxis ignoring you, adjosshis giving you dirty looks when you're with one of "their" women, barging into the train and not letting the people going out exit first, doesn't happen in Japan.
The Japanese also have so many different cultures and subcultures within those cultures. If you're ever in Tokyo go to Yoyogi park near Harajuku station. You'll see more culture in that one area than you will a lifetime in Korea. Korea's youth culture, Hongdae, is a complete joke compared to Japan. Everyone with big framed glasses, fumbling around on a tiny skateboard, with a tattoo on their wrist to show how rebellious they are. Yawn. |
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cabeza
Joined: 29 Sep 2012
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Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 2:38 am Post subject: |
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Squire wrote: |
I was on the lookout for differences when I visited Japan, but all I really came away with was that Japanese people seemed quieter, more polite (by western standards anyway) and youth culture was far more visible. A week and a half is nothing though. I'd be interested to hear from somebody who has lived in both countries |
You are pretty much on the money.
There seems to be more individuality (at least on the superficial level) in Japan. More sub-cultures.
I found them to be more polite, going out of their way not to offend.
Don't get me wrong, there were things in Japan that drove me up the wall, but overall I think the people were pretty nice, in general.
People say they can be very two faced and I did find that to be true in some situations. Honne and tatemae is a social concept (can't remember which is which) that accepts that you need two faces so as to avoid offending people or climbing the social ladder. They have a lot more tact than Koreans, but at times it can be hard to know where you truly stand with a Japanese person. After living there two years I got more adept at understanding, when yes means no, no means yes etc.
I also found them to be more comfortable within their own culture. There was none of the trying to convince themselves that Japan was more important or popular than it really is. Maybe that's because it is truly popular.....
You still get the "Oh you can use chop sticks" "Can you eat Japanese food?" and "Does your country have 4 seasons?", but you don't get "Do you know Ayumi Hamasaki? She is a global star. Do you know she played in America and is very popular" stuff. |
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Died By Bear

Joined: 13 Jul 2010 Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee
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Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 7:19 am Post subject: |
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Noise pollution almost non-existant in Japan. No diesel sounds whatsoever (city). |
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joelove
Joined: 12 May 2011
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Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:41 am Post subject: |
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I believe even Japanese people will tell you it is impressed upon them from an early age to not bother other people and to be unobtrusive in public. They don't seem to have as much of the bumping into people problem that many say is due to how crowded a city is. Seems to be a much more 'mind your own business and leave others alone' society. |
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Mix1
Joined: 08 May 2007
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Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 4:37 pm Post subject: |
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joelove wrote: |
I believe even Japanese people will tell you it is impressed upon them from an early age to not bother other people and to be unobtrusive in public. They don't seem to have as much of the bumping into people problem that many say is due to how crowded a city is. Seems to be a much more 'mind your own business and leave others alone' society. |
These things alone account for a pretty big difference.
I remember walking through Narita airport in Japan and all was fairly quiet until I got to the boarding gate for Seoul, which was noisy chaos by comparison. I could instantly feel the mood change.
Kids and teens were running around chasing each other and yelling, the adults were in big groups right in the middle of the hall, not minding that people were trying to get by, my bag got slammed a couple times and I got the mandatory shoulder bump. It was just as crowded in other areas of the airport, but nobody had slammed into me.
Then I sat down in an empty area, where some lady soon came over and asked me to move my bag so she could put all her stuff there, to which I pointed at some other empty seats and she got all miffed (there was plenty of space around, but for some reason she wanted that space I was already in).
I instantly thought: WHAT A CONTRAST. |
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Scorpion
Joined: 15 Apr 2012
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Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 5:55 pm Post subject: |
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Japan is a mature society that is comfortable in its own skin. It has a unique culture (which is easily distinguished from other Asian nations) and a polite, civilized populace. It's streets are clean and there is the absense of the 'urban peasantry' factor that is so evident everywhere in Korea. No spitting, no traffic lawlessness, no bumping into people, cutting in line, or emptying one's nostrils onto the sidewalk. Japan is a country that in 1941 was industrialized enough and confident enough to go to war with the United States. Korea at that point was a rice patty. Japan is miles ahead in the 'civilized society' category. Essentially, Japan is what Koreans like to think Korea is, and want foreigners to think Korea is. But it be not so. Korea has a very long way to travel before it can be compared in any way with Japan.
Japan = First World
Korea = still on the bus with many miles yet to travel. |
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Scorpion
Joined: 15 Apr 2012
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Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 5:57 pm Post subject: |
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IPayInCash wrote: |
I've lived in both countries. The biggest thing that stands out is their clothes. Japanese fashion is like what would happen if you walked into your closet, it exploded, and you walked out (this is called an expression, please don't come here and argue thermodynamics Steelrails). |
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IPayInCash
Joined: 27 Jul 2013 Location: Away from all my board stalkers :)
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Posted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 7:27 pm Post subject: |
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I encountered ONE rude person the entire time I was in Japan.
In Korea, I dont think Ive gone one day without some kind of rude person affecting me. Today it was the ajumma that sat next to me onthe train. She had a backpack on, pushed it to her side (my side) before she sat down, and of course I get rammed with a backpack the second she sat down. I immediately shoved the packback into her and she did the common sense thing to do and took it off and put it on her lap.
Oh yea... Japanese women are easier. Girls will literally go up to you and make out with you in the club. I can speak from personal experience.  |
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Nolos
Joined: 23 Oct 2011
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Posted: Wed Aug 28, 2013 1:15 am Post subject: |
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Japanese are ten times better,thats all you need to know. |
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IPayInCash
Joined: 27 Jul 2013 Location: Away from all my board stalkers :)
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Posted: Wed Aug 28, 2013 1:55 am Post subject: |
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Nolos wrote: |
Japanese are ten times better,thats all you need to know. |
I don't think your wife would approve of that Dodge7. |
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joelove
Joined: 12 May 2011
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Posted: Wed Aug 28, 2013 5:04 am Post subject: |
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Mix1 wrote: |
joelove wrote: |
I believe even Japanese people will tell you it is impressed upon them from an early age to not bother other people and to be unobtrusive in public. They don't seem to have as much of the bumping into people problem that many say is due to how crowded a city is. Seems to be a much more 'mind your own business and leave others alone' society. |
These things alone account for a pretty big difference.
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I believe I saw a show or documentary where some Japanese people spoke of the culture, and this was mentioned. It's kind of drilled into their heads from childhood, I suppose, that you leave others alone and do not stand out in public places, do not make a scene. There seems to be a lot less public emotional display than you'd witness in Korea, where it's common enough to see somebody really angry or otherwise emotional for some reason. |
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I'm With You
Joined: 01 Sep 2011
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Posted: Wed Aug 28, 2013 5:48 am Post subject: |
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Let's be honest here, Japan is a very insular and inward looking nation. They don't care what is going on in the outside world and look down on other countries in Asia. The Japanese government has become increasingly more right-wing and nationalistic and they simply don't like foreigners.
Also, the people in charge of the country haven't been very honest with what is really happening with the Fukushima nuclear plants, either.
Finally, the Japanese are known for their intransigence and are probably the least accommodating towards foreigners - e.g., TEFL teachers - working there. I don't think people seem to understand how tough it can really be working with Japanese people. You never know where you stand with them, either, while they smile at you but secretly wish to cut your head off aha!!
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