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cat12345
Joined: 28 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 3:29 pm Post subject: In general, do you regret coming here? |
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As in, is your quality of life good/worse than what you left behind? Do you feel like you're having a good life experience or kind of in a suspended state of animation, in limbo?
I've heard both but only from people who've come back, no one that is actually there, and I'm curious to get opinions from people still over there. |
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robbie_davies
Joined: 16 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 3:49 pm Post subject: |
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My life improved leaps and bounds since graduating and teaching - but then previous to that I spent half my time on the dole and the other half on night shift in various factories in the English Midlands.
I don't have that sense of entitlement a lot on here seem to have. If I am an EFL loser now then it is a massive improvement to what it was before.
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busanSK2012
Joined: 20 Feb 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 3:49 pm Post subject: |
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OK, I'll bite on this one.
No regrets at all. Life experience far outweighs any hiccups on the journey. Do you want to know if everything will be easy and fun and great? That won't be the case. There are difficulties everywhere, and they can be magnified when you can't speak the language or don't understand all the cultural differences.
I have met amazing people, seen a far different landscape than I had ever seen before, taught super cute and funny students, my CT's (they hated me at first-I am not going to lie) but after all the ups and downs in the beginning I am leaving and they are beside themselves, and I have been to Japan 4x, thailand once, and will swing through Singapore on my way back to the US.
Next year I will be working in Taiwan. So all is good living the ESL life...if you don't take things seriously, realize there will be work involved, and that everyday isn't a party or a wonderful experience. But most of the days are pretty good to awesome.
The food sucks in Korea though...in my very picky opinion. If you like meat and want to eat it all day everyday with subpar produce...you have one up on me..
Come..experience..love it or hate it..something good will invariably happen as well. |
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young_clinton
Joined: 09 Sep 2009
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 3:55 pm Post subject: |
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For those who regret coming to Korea, the grass is always greener on the other side. However go if you must and leave a job opening for me when I come back to Korea. |
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No_hite_pls
Joined: 05 Mar 2007 Location: Don't hate me because I'm right
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 3:57 pm Post subject: |
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Oh, god no. My net worth has increased 500% since coming here. Although, I do miss my family a lot and office banter of the west. |
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Who's Your Daddy?
Joined: 30 May 2010 Location: Victoria, Canada.
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 3:59 pm Post subject: |
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I don't regret it. It will be nice to look back on and I have a lot of money in the bank, but I couldn't stay the rest of my life here.
I'd regret it if I hadn't saved a lot of money. When I return I'll have a higher net worth than I'd of had if I'd stayed in Canada. |
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lowpo
Joined: 01 Mar 2007
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 4:00 pm Post subject: |
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I have been lucky living in Korea. I can teach English and my wife can teach Chinese. It is one of the reasons that we stay in Korea. Because
we can save enough for our future. |
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robbie_davies
Joined: 16 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 4:08 pm Post subject: |
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lowpo wrote: |
I have been lucky living in Korea. I can teach English and my wife can teach Chinese. It is one of the reasons that we stay in Korea. Because
we can save enough for our future. |
My wife is Chinese and she is about to do a masters degree in Great Britain, is there a lot of opportunity to teach Mandarin in Korea? |
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Neozenha
Joined: 08 Mar 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 4:31 pm Post subject: |
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So do you guys actually enjoy living there or is it just all about teh moneiz |
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ttompatz

Joined: 05 Sep 2005 Location: Kwangju, South Korea
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 4:38 pm Post subject: |
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Neozenha wrote: |
So do you guys actually enjoy living there or is it just all about teh moneiz |
You have to live somewhere.
The money is nice too.
It is better than the States but not as nice as Finland.
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le-paul

Joined: 07 Apr 2009 Location: dans la chambre
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 5:22 pm Post subject: |
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i don't regret the experience but...
i regret what its done to my career. All I have to aspire to now, is working in some crappy, glorified, esl position dressed up as the title of 'university professor'. And having a family - woppdee doo.
The thought of teaching english forever, makes me want to set myself on fire in protest. I feel like Ive given into my own tardiness and young mans whims.
So, yes. |
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robbie_davies
Joined: 16 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 5:25 pm Post subject: |
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le-paul wrote: |
i don't regret the experience but...
i regret what its done to my career. All I have to aspire to now, is working in some crappy, glorified, esl position dressed up as the title of 'university professor'. And having a family - woppdee doo.
The thought of teaching english forever, makes me want to set myself on fire in protest. I feel like Ive given into my own tardiness and young mans whims.
So, yes. |
Oh, dry your eyes poppet.
What would you rather be doing instead, if you had the chance? |
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War Eagle
Joined: 15 Feb 2009
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 5:31 pm Post subject: |
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I am trading the beautiful weather and delicious restaurants back home in the US for a job I like that has access to easy, plentiful dough.
That's kinda the way I think about it.
*Don't get me wrong, I love my friends and family back home, but modern technology makes it extremely easy to keep in touch. And they will all still be there when I return.
le-paul wrote: |
i don't regret the experience but...
i regret what its done to my career. All I have to aspire to now, is working in some crappy, glorified, esl position dressed up as the title of 'university professor'. And having a family - woppdee doo.
The thought of teaching english forever, makes me want to set myself on fire in protest. I feel like Ive given into my own tardiness and young mans whims.
So, yes. |
Learn a skill. There are many things you can do for freelance work or in the way of starting your own business that pay well. |
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robbie_davies
Joined: 16 Jun 2013
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 5:36 pm Post subject: |
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War Eagle wrote: |
le-paul wrote: |
i don't regret the experience but...
i regret what its done to my career. All I have to aspire to now, is working in some crappy, glorified, esl position dressed up as the title of 'university professor'. And having a family - woppdee doo.
The thought of teaching english forever, makes me want to set myself on fire in protest. I feel like Ive given into my own tardiness and young mans whims.
So, yes. |
Learn a skill. There are many things you can do for freelance work or in the way of starting your own business that pay well. |
One thing though when I have thought about getting a new trade is that though some of them might be on better money than myself, do they a lot more hours and a lot more work. This job - like you have alluded to WE - has a nice combination of being enjoyable and reasonably paid, it is also a growth industry too - especially in Asia! |
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newb
Joined: 27 Aug 2012 Location: Korea
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Posted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 5:45 pm Post subject: |
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5 years in Korea teaching at same school. I have no regrets.
I have had wonderful time during my first 2 or 3 years, but things went down south as I approached my 5th and final year this August. The money is okay as I been on the top of PS pay level for several years with lots of OT, etc. I actually ended up saving a boat load of money and my investment had performed well over the years.
As things in Korea has turned south, I'm going sailing in my boat load of money to a place where it's always warm. I'll be sipping on a glass of margarita on the beach and reminiscing the good and bad times I've experienced in Korea.  |
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