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optik404



Joined: 24 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 3:05 am    Post subject: Has anyone encountered this? Reply with quote

http://chronicle.com/blogs/linguafranca/2013/09/17/keep-your-multilingualism-to-yourself/

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I talked to an English-speaking American, fluent in German, who is raising his children as English/German bilinguals. He is currently resident in Germany, attached to a university in Hamburg. The main point of this visiting position is to allow him to immerse himself and his family in a German-speaking community, so naturally he wants to speak German with his German university colleagues. But to his astonishment he finds they don’t want that. They want him to use English with them. Their attitude toward his germanophone tendencies is distinctly disapproving.

At the same table was the applied linguist Robert Phillipson, who told me about a native speaker of English he knows who is living in Korea and is experiencing the same thing even more sharply. The man in question has learned Korean really well, and uses it to talk to students and colleagues, but he reports encountering real hostility over it. Colleagues and students alike seem to think it is distasteful that he should do such a thing. Some almost seem to regard his speaking Korean well as almost racist—as if by speaking Korean to them he is stereotyping them as gooks, or even mocking them.

I talked to an English-speaking American, fluent in German, who is raising his children as English/German bilinguals. He is currently resident in Germany, attached to a university in Hamburg. The main point of this visiting position is to allow him to immerse himself and his family in a German-speaking community, so naturally he wants to speak German with his German university colleagues. But to his astonishment he finds they don’t want that. They want him to use English with them. Their attitude toward his germanophone tendencies is distinctly disapproving.

At the same table was the applied linguist Robert Phillipson, who told me about a native speaker of English he knows who is living in Korea and is experiencing the same thing even more sharply. The man in question has learned Korean really well, and uses it to talk to students and colleagues, but he reports encountering real hostility over it. Colleagues and students alike seem to think it is distasteful that he should do such a thing. Some almost seem to regard his speaking Korean well as almost racist—as if by speaking Korean to them he is stereotyping them as gooks, or even mocking them.
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waynehead



Joined: 18 Apr 2006
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 3:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lord no, but then my Korean level is at the "cutely poor" stage, as in, aw, at least he's trying. As the author mentions, these are just two isolated anecdotes...it's hard for me to imagine a cultural trend of "don't-speak-to-me-in-my-language" folks.
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World Traveler



Joined: 29 May 2009

PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 3:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some good tips on this page:
http://koreanchamp.com/2010/10/13/mission-impossible-getting-koreans-to-speak-korean/
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faeriehazel



Joined: 04 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 5:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think the attitude definitely exists, but I don't think it's THAT common. I have noticed Koreans ignoring foreigners attempting to speaking Korean, although usually that's because the foreigners have a heavy accent and many Koreans can't be bothered to make the effort to try and understand, especially if said foreigner is accompanied by a Korean.

I don't think most Koreans would feel mocked by a foreigner speaking fluent Korean. I do agree that there might be a sense of being trespassed - this is OUR language, you have no business trying to speak it when you're not even Korean. Again, not a prevalent attitude, but I wouldn't be too surprised to encounter it, especially in older Korean men.
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yodanole



Joined: 02 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 7:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Only speak Korean outside of work. Your Korean will come along fine, so will work.

You're here for your English ability, not for your charming personality or your devastating good looks.
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -

PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 8:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Westerners speaking Korean (or trying to) may encounter different reactions in different settings.

1- At work if working as an English Teacher.

Trying to speak Korean to Korean colleagues may be met with English responses because most schools have (or had) an "English only" policy while at work. Some colleagues may not be in the mood to try and understand the garbled Korean many of us use when we first start.

2- Out and about

This can vary again. Some store clerks or service industry workers may see an attempt to practice their English or may feel you will prefer to speak in English (as a courtesy) thus may respond to you in English even if you speak in Korean. Again, some Koreans cannot be bothered to try and understand the garbled Korean we westerners sometimes use because they may be busy or have no interest (this reminds me of downtown Montreal where store clerks will often switch to English when someone speaks to them in accented French).

In many other cases you will get a response in Korean. However, if you then freeze like a deer caught in the headlights, well, the conversation may switch to English.

My experience was that I got responses in Korean the vast majority of the time after my level reached intermediate. Before that it was largely hit and miss.

As for the "older Korean men may feel defensive if a foreigner speaks Korean" thing. It may happen but the guys at the park near my old apt in Busan were more than happy to speak in Korean with me when I went to play Korean chess with them on Sundays. Even when my Korean was at best on the level of a babbling toddler.
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Ginormousaurus



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 8:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

PatrickGHBusan wrote:
My experience was that I got responses in Korean the vast majority of the time after my level reached intermediate.


This was my experience for the most part. I found that (young) people were more likely to speak to me in Korean if I was with my gf. I suspect this was because they were self-conscious about their English abilities and didn't want to embarrass themselves in front of my Korean gf whom they may have assumed was fluent in English.

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This thread is just begging for Tomato to come out of retirement. Man, there was no convincing him that Koreans will speak Korean to foreigners at least some of the time.
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12ax7



Joined: 07 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 9:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Robert Phillipson is controversial, to say the least.

His book, Linguistic Imperialism, is a bit conspiracy theory-ish.

In it, he argues that "the dominance of English is asserted and maintained by the establishment and continuous reconstruction of structural and cultural inequalities between English and other languages".

Now do you understand his story?
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Janny



Joined: 02 Jul 2008
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 3:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

In Korea, I mostly used basic phrases and got what I needed. Sometimes I would try a little more and we would hit that wall: the Korean would either be a) unable / unwilling to understand my Korean, b) so startled that I was actually speaking that they would not reply and just laugh, thereby making my own ego bruise and the conversation would end, or c) they would start speaking rapid-fire Korean, whereas I would have to either backtrack or abort.

Anyway, quite a few times a Korean would say to me "oh, so you know how to speak Korean!" because she / he would discover I had been there for 8 years. That was awkward, because...no.

In Shanghai, it seems most foreigners I'm meeting know basic Mandarin. Like they can have short conversations and the interactions switch back and forth from Eng-Mandarin quite easily. Personally, I am scared about how difficult the Chinese characters appear to learn. That will be my first hurdle.
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nate1983



Joined: 30 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 3:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

PatrickGHBusan wrote:
Westerners speaking Korean (or trying to) may encounter different reactions in different settings.

1- At work if working as an English Teacher.

Trying to speak Korean to Korean colleagues may be met with English responses because most schools have (or had) an "English only" policy while at work. Some colleagues may not be in the mood to try and understand the garbled Korean many of us use when we first start.

2- Out and about

This can vary again. Some store clerks or service industry workers may see an attempt to practice their English or may feel you will prefer to speak in English (as a courtesy) thus may respond to you in English even if you speak in Korean. Again, some Koreans cannot be bothered to try and understand the garbled Korean we westerners sometimes use because they may be busy or have no interest (this reminds me of downtown Montreal where store clerks will often switch to English when someone speaks to them in accented French).

In many other cases you will get a response in Korean. However, if you then freeze like a deer caught in the headlights, well, the conversation may switch to English.

My experience was that I got responses in Korean the vast majority of the time after my level reached intermediate. Before that it was largely hit and miss.

As for the "older Korean men may feel defensive if a foreigner speaks Korean" thing. It may happen but the guys at the park near my old apt in Busan were more than happy to speak in Korean with me when I went to play Korean chess with them on Sundays. Even when my Korean was at best on the level of a babbling toddler.


I pretty much agree with this. Also, once I got to and beyond an intermediate level (and developed a better accent), I was much less prone to have people reply to me in English/ask me to repeat myself/start laughing uncontrollably (jk..sort of).

My feeling is that the conversation should generally be conducted in the language that is the "greatest common denominator" between the interlocutors - but obviously there are exceptions, such as giving one speaker language practice or for the benefit of third parties.

The only time it really annoys me is when someone whose English is noticeably inferior to my Korean just refuses to speak Korean...my pronunciation/accent isn't bad, and my ability to handle a conversation should be apparent pretty early on, so I can't understand why they'd just be making things more difficult. If I accost someone in Korea, and their reply in English indicates that they're a high-level speaker, I'm more than happy to keep going in English.

I would say in general most Koreans have been pretty accommodating - there have been a number whose English to me seemed very fluent (better than my Korean) and they only spoke Korean to me, as well as some with whom I'd switch back and forth. This one girl who used to sit next to me at work would be on the phone all the time speaking English with people from overseas, and she had a really, really good North American accent and spoke very good English. It would kind of freak me out a bit when she'd turn to me and say something in Korean, especially since her whole demeanor and mannerisms changed then too.


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byrddogs



Joined: 19 Jun 2009
Location: Shanghai

PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 4:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Janny wrote:
In Shanghai, it seems most foreigners I'm meeting know basic Mandarin. Like they can have short conversations and the interactions switch back and forth from Eng-Mandarin quite easily. Personally, I am scared about how difficult the Chinese characters appear to learn. That will be my first hurdle.


This is a big difference in the expats here in Shanghai as opposed to the crowd in Korea. Everyone, and I mean everyone, I know here makes some effort at learning Mandarin even though one can get by easily in the city without doing so.

Good luck with the characters. Some of my Korean co-workers have a handle on it. They had also studied Chinese characters in school in Korea, however. Of the other people that I've known here from western backgrounds, I've only known one that could read and write (this includes several that are near fluent in speaking).
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Janny



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 4:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So it's opposite of my Korean experience then? Because there, I learned to read and write in a few days. Speak, no. Should I just try to focus on speaking at first?

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It would kind of freak me out a bit when she'd turn to me and say something in Korean, especially since her whole demeanor and mannerisms changed then too.


I find that fascinating, and not surprising. And...cool..in a way. I think my demeanor changes when I'm speaking to Europeans, because I can't help but let my own English-accent twinge (a pathetic Canadian one, but anyway lol) come out. And I just feel more...proper...somehow. My posture improves. Smile
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byrddogs



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 4:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Janny wrote:
So it's opposite of my Korean experience then? Because there, I learned to read and write in a few days. Speak, no. Should I just try to focus on speaking at first?


It might just be that people here focus more on learning speaking/listening mostly perhaps. Hangul characters are easier to learn I think, but that isn't to say that you wouldn't be successful learning Chinese characters given your ability to learn writing fairly easily. I was just giving my account on what I've experienced.
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nate1983



Joined: 30 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 5:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Janny wrote:
So it's opposite of my Korean experience then? Because there, I learned to read and write in a few days. Speak, no. Should I just try to focus on speaking at first?

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It would kind of freak me out a bit when she'd turn to me and say something in Korean, especially since her whole demeanor and mannerisms changed then too.


I find that fascinating, and not surprising. And...cool..in a way. I think my demeanor changes when I'm speaking to Europeans, because I can't help but let my own English-accent twinge (a pathetic Canadian one, but anyway lol) come out. And I just feel more...proper...somehow. My posture improves. Smile


Chinese, better to learn on speaking I think. Korean, it's hard to learn to speak without some formal studying, which necessitates knowing how to read/write.

What I meant is that on the phone with foreigners, she sounded like a Korean in the US who had been there a while...more assertive and commanding in her demeanor; then she'd hang up, and have a much higher, typical deferential voice when speaking Korean.

I've also noticed that Koreans who have spent a significant amount of time abroad, or even very fluent gyoopos, seem to "sound" different when speaking Korean, as I think a lot of "true" Koreans (especially women) are used to putting on a sort of "fake" voice and the accompanying mannerisms.
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faeriehazel



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 11:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nate1983 wrote:

I've also noticed that Koreans who have spent a significant amount of time abroad, or even very fluent gyoopos, seem to "sound" different when speaking Korean, as I think a lot of "true" Koreans (especially women) are used to putting on a sort of "fake" voice and the accompanying mannerisms.

I am guilty of this. I sound much more "feminine" when I speak Korean. It probably helps that I would never dream of swearing in Korean. I have no problem saying swear words in English, but for some reason cursing in Korean strikes me as incredibly vulgar.

I also feel more confident when I speak English, but that might just be because I'm better at it.
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