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Threequalseven
Joined: 08 May 2012
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Posted: Wed Sep 25, 2013 10:08 am Post subject: Tipping and Classism |
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I recently read that tipping started as a practice the upper-class engaged in as an acknowledgement of the failures of capitalism to provide for lower-class service workers.
What are your opinions on the morality of tipped labor? On one hand, it degrades the server from being an equal to someone whose subservience is constantly being measured. (It also usually saves the business owner a lot of money.) On the other hand, as someone who's worked various positions at a number of restaurants, it's always worse to be the employee who isn't getting the tips than the one who is.
After the Spanish Revolution in the 1930s, workers collectivized businesses, farms, and other property, and the tip was immediately abolished as it was seen as being incompatible with the dignity of those receiving it. Waiters and shop workers looked at customers in the face and were seen as equals, while servile and even ceremonial forms of speech disappeared. Instead of "Señor" and "Buenos días", people said "Thou" and "Salud." (I guess in Korea, the equivalent would be like saying 안녕 instead of 안녕하십니까.)
In today's post-Reagan free market society, you should certainly tip where it's customary to do so. That said, if you could imagine what a decent society would look like, would workers in that society be expected to earn tips? Is it a grim byproduct of economic disparity or a simple token of one's appreciation? Finally, how does this all relate to the ideas of tipping, workers, and seniority in Korea? |
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Underwaterbob

Joined: 08 Jan 2005 Location: In Cognito
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Posted: Wed Sep 25, 2013 3:23 pm Post subject: |
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Bah! I worked my ass off at a lousy, split-shift gas pumping job making barely enough to get by and knew waiters and waitresses who made $300 a night in tips for less work than I was doing. Why does one shit job get special treatment over all others?
Just raise the bloody minimum wage already. |
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Julius

Joined: 27 Jul 2006
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 3:08 am Post subject: Re: Tipping and Classism |
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Threequalseven wrote: |
imagine what a decent society would look like, would workers in that society be expected to earn tips? |
A decent society would have a minimum wage that is sufficient to live on.
Tipping may seem normal to North Americans but in fact its not usual in most countries. The cost of the service should be covered by the cost of the food.
Nobody who does an honest job should be reduced to relying on charity to get by.
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Finally, how does this all relate to the ideas of tipping, workers, and seniority in Korea? |
Tipping corrupts.
It corrupts the giver, who learns to buy fake respect, human warmth or conversation, who learns that he can control others with money.
It corrupts the server, who is turned into a beggar for doing a necessary and honest job, who is taught to treat people unequally according to their percieved monetary potential.
And in any case it is simply unfair. Even if she does almost no work, a pretty waitress or barmaid will make ten times the tippage that someone less physically attractive will make. |
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young_clinton
Joined: 09 Sep 2009
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 7:38 am Post subject: |
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Tipping is done in the USA. I've never heard of it being done in another country. Tips are primarily given to individuals performing services in jobs that used to be considered long term professional service jobs, i.e waiters, barbers, hair stylists, doormen, bellboys, taxi drivers. A tip is supposed to allow people with low salaries achieve a lower middle class income and the individual who receives the tip is usually well trained in providing service to the customer. People in service jobs usually get some kind of a tip even if there are minor botches in the job because it's understood that it is a part of their income.
The OP is either a tool or one of the plants that you find on the internet coming from outside organizations. That's pretty obvious. |
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radcon
Joined: 23 May 2011
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 3:04 pm Post subject: |
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young_clinton wrote: |
it's understood that it is a part of their income.
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Understood by who? Believe it or not, tipping is completely optional in the US. Last time I was at SFO I checked my bags curbside. The United Airlines worker had the nerve to give me some spiel " We work for tips." I was appalled. I'm guessing that United put them up to this. She was an old lady so I reluctantly threw her a few bucks. Begging for tips is just wrong. The tipping culture is out of control and nasty. |
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Fox

Joined: 04 Mar 2009
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 3:43 pm Post subject: |
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radcon wrote: |
young_clinton wrote: |
it's understood that it is a part of their income.
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Understood by who? Believe it or not, tipping is completely optional in the US. Last time I was at SFO I checked my bags curbside. The United Airlines worker had the nerve to give me some spiel " We work for tips." I was appalled. I'm guessing that United put them up to this. She was an old lady so I reluctantly threw her a few bucks. Begging for tips is just wrong. The tipping culture is out of control and nasty. |
Agreed. Julius' characterization of tips as a corrupting element was actually quite correct. It's also worth noting that Young Clinton has it precisely reversed: a tip does not allow people with low salaries to achieve a lower middle class income, tips force people who would otherwise naturally achieve a lower middle class income through their base salary to instead rely upon the whims of individual customers to receive their full income. It's as if the manager hands every customer a bit of the waiter's salary (in the form of a discounted restaurant bill) and says, "Hey, you decide if the fellow earned it or not." |
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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: Retired
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 3:53 pm Post subject: |
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young_clinton wrote: |
Tipping is done in the USA. I've never heard of it being done in another country. |
You are joking right?
Ever hear of Canada...or England or Germany? Or some Middle East countries such as Israel or Jordan?
Plus a number of other countries have a tipping practice although it is not as wide-spread or as customary as the U.S. |
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jvalmer

Joined: 06 Jun 2003
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 5:13 pm Post subject: |
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TheUrbanMyth wrote: |
young_clinton wrote: |
Tipping is done in the USA. I've never heard of it being done in another country. |
You are joking right?
Ever hear of Canada...or England or Germany? Or some Middle East countries such as Israel or Jordan?
Plus a number of other countries have a tipping practice although it is not as wide-spread or as customary as the U.S. |
I would say tipping in Canada is pretty much similar, if not the same, as in the US. However, I think one major difference is that waiters in Canada actually get the legal minimum wage, or something close to it really close to it. So they may not be as aggressive in expecting tips. |
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Leslie Cheswyck

Joined: 31 May 2003 Location: University of Western Chile
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 7:12 pm Post subject: |
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People wanna tip, they tip.
They don't wanna, they don't.
Can't force 'em.
Can't stop 'em.
At least not forever.
Let's move on.
Let's enjoy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-qV9wVGb38 |
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Steelrails

Joined: 12 Mar 2009 Location: Earth, Solar System
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 8:15 pm Post subject: |
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It corrupts the giver, who learns to buy fake respect, human warmth or conversation, who learns that he can control others with money.
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You call it corrupting. I call it making sure I get my money's worth and get special treatment. I'm paying for stiffer drinks, to drink past last call, to get to cut in front of the line, to get my no-ID people waved through. I'm tipping to make sure my drinks get brought out first. That custom orders are made properly and made promptly and for the staff to spend extra care. I'm tipping so that the guy who is delivering a pizza won't mind stopping for a pack of smokes or bring some beer. I'm tipping so that if they have an extra breadsticks lying around they throw it in with my order. I'm tipping so that if something goes down, the bouncers and the house will back me. That they'll say the right things to the cops. It's about establishing a relationship and demonstrating a commitment.
This is reality. Believing that people will treat all people the same is a fantasy. If not for tips, then hot people will get treated special (they already do), or physically intimidating people, or based on race, or whatever. Tipping enables someone who lacks those qualities to overcome them.
It also adds a direct coercive element to ensure proper service. Complaint to the manager? The guy making 10 bucks an hour for some franchise? Yeah, like he'll truly care. The owner who has been besieged by 5 scammers for every legit complaint? Corporate? Sure you'll get some vouchers or something, but that doesn't really solve the problem. Having it understood that serving someone poorly will result in a direct loss of income is a powerful incentive. Money talks.
And tipping is not class warfare, as even people who work minimum wage jobs still order pizza, go to the bar, eat out, and get haircuts. They tip too. |
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Fox

Joined: 04 Mar 2009
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Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 8:23 pm Post subject: |
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Steelrails wrote: |
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It corrupts the giver, who learns to buy fake respect, human warmth or conversation, who learns that he can control others with money.
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You call it corrupting. I call it making sure I get my money's worth and get special treatment. |
Getting "special" treatment is by definition not part of the standardized tipping system, so the presence of the standardized tipping system is not required for you to tip your way to special status. Most people will never get these benefits, so the general system cannot be defended in terms of them. |
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catman

Joined: 18 Jul 2004
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Posted: Fri Sep 27, 2013 2:10 am Post subject: |
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Are we supposed to tip the barber for a haircut? I never have. |
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Leon
Joined: 31 May 2010
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Posted: Fri Sep 27, 2013 3:33 am Post subject: |
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Does anyone else prefer waiters in other countries to America because they don't like how often American waiters check on them, try to act overly friendly and personal? I just want you to take my order and bring it to me. |
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young_clinton
Joined: 09 Sep 2009
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Posted: Fri Sep 27, 2013 4:27 am Post subject: |
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catman wrote: |
Are we supposed to tip the barber for a haircut? I never have. |
In the USA that is a profession that you tip. |
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Julius

Joined: 27 Jul 2006
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Posted: Sat Sep 28, 2013 12:48 am Post subject: |
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Leon wrote: |
Does anyone else prefer waiters in other countries to America because they don't like how often American waiters check on them, try to act overly friendly and personal? I just want you to take my order and bring it to me. |
Exactly.
A minimum wage for a service worker is to do the job properly and with a modicum of politeness, nothing more.
Extra (and fake) "special treatment" should not be forced by sytemic financial necessity but be entirely up to the server and customer involved.
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You call it corrupting. I call it making sure I get my money's worth and get special treatment. I'm paying for stiffer drinks, to drink past last call, to get to cut in front of the line, to get my no-ID people waved through. |
Ugh. You are exactly the sort of person who is a complete pain in the rear to serve.
You've just listed illegal and antisocial activities as your "expectations".
a) Stiffer drinks.
Do you really think that paying a couple of dollars should get the bar staff to facilitate your alcaholism? They have enough drunken, violent and rude behavior to deal with without being bribed to fuel it out of control.
When you've had enough, you've had enough. Time to go home before it becomes my job to pick you up off the floor and call a taxi for you.
b) To drink past last call.
Last call is there for a reason. See above.
Otherwise if you want to drink around the clock, go to a night club.
c) "To get to cut in front of line."
I'm not going to alienate my good, polite and regular customers by letting some demanding american with an entitlement complex leap in front of them.
Money does not entitle you to behave obnoxiously.
d) "To get my no-ID people waved through".
Now that is just dangerous if nothing else.
Do we need any more evidence that tipping (bribery) is a corrupting force?
UrbanMyth wrote: |
You are joking right?
Ever hear of Canada...or England or Germany? |
Canada perhaps. I've never been there so I don't know.
England I've lived many years, Germany I've visited on three occasions. Tipping is not normal in either of them.
I suspect your impression is based on brief visits to tourist areas conditioned into expecting tips from american tourists.
Sure if you're on a layover and walk over to a restaurant in an airport spouting an american drawl then yes, the waiter is probably going to try and get a tip out of you because he know's you're american and he serves many americans every day. In short he's taking advantage of your cultural feeling of obligation to tip. Thats not the case away from tourist-frequented areas.
UK does not tip, they regard throwing money at someone as an insult. If someone likes your service, they will offer to buy you a drink (ie you add the cost of a drink of your choice to the bill, which depending on the rules of your employer you can either drink later or recieve the money in lieu of). |
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