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What do you do if you witness strange behaviour?

 
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itiswhatitis



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 12:22 pm    Post subject: What do you do if you witness strange behaviour? Reply with quote

The incident of this former expat/"celebrity" makes me wonder about what to do if one has witnessed strange behaviour from expat teachers.

During my time here I have never seen any strange/suspicious behaviour from any native teachers......BUT what can one actually do if one does? I mean if there is a weirdo teacher who seems overly affectionate with the kids it seems to me that there really isn't much you can do. You could gossip to co-workers if you wanted but as far as taking action it seems that there is virtually no possible action that can be taken.

As an aside I do not think that expats are any more likely than anyone else to be a pedophile (except for maybe the fact that being a teacher puts them in contact with children).
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 2:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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makes me wonder about what to do if one has witnessed strange behaviour from expat teacher


I guess it depends what each person defines as "strange behavior" but I saw plenty of expat teachers behaving strangely in Korea. However expats do not have the monopoly on strange behavior in Korea!


What to do depends on the behavior in question and on what each person is willing to do in response I guess.
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archaeologist5



Joined: 25 Dec 2013

PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 4:04 pm    Post subject: Re: What do you do if you witness strange behaviour? Reply with quote

itiswhatitis wrote:
The incident of this former expat/"celebrity" makes me wonder about what to do if one has witnessed strange behaviour from expat teachers.

During my time here I have never seen any strange/suspicious behaviour from any native teachers......BUT what can one actually do if one does? I mean if there is a weirdo teacher who seems overly affectionate with the kids it seems to me that there really isn't much you can do. You could gossip to co-workers if you wanted but as far as taking action it seems that there is virtually no possible action that can be taken.

As an aside I do not think that expats are any more likely than anyone else to be a pedophile (except for maybe the fact that being a teacher puts them in contact with children).


You are not here to be the police. There is little you can do until they commit an actual crime and not a perceived crime based upon your ideological perception.

Everyone can be seen acting weird to someone else. You need a lot more than private observation to do anything about someone's weird behavior.
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Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 09, 2014 4:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There's a line between "strange" and "illegal/immoral". Strange is such a huge category too.

When I did teach kids, there was a lot of interaction with them. We'd play tons of games, arm wrestle, and at one point, all went to a summer camp with a pool.

To me, none of that was odd, but I do recall working with one guy who didn't like the interaction with the children. He was a good guy, but just didn't like to play. I suppose that was strange in a way, but in the opposite sense of the OP.

What I'm getting at is - if I ever saw something that I thought was over the line, I'd step in and confront them immediately. None of this telling the owner about it. See a guy with a hand up a kid's shirt, walk, up, pull it out, ask the kid to head to another room… and sort things with that "teacher".

But the thing is, I've never seen anything like that. Nothing even close. Nothing that ever tweaked my radar in that way. I've worked with morons and drunks, but never anyone that set off the pedo-radar.
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PatrickGHBusan



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 11, 2014 4:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had doubts about one foreign co-worker years ago. Only worked with him for a few months but he was kind of "touchy" with the kids. This does not mean he was a pedo but a few of us on staff had doubts.


As for strange, well the list of strange foreigners I encountered in my time in Korea is damn long, much like that of any long term foreign resident I assume!
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yodanole



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 13, 2014 10:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

When faced with strange or questionable behavior, I usually log off of Dave's and go do something else....
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kengreen



Joined: 19 Jan 2011

PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 7:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I mind my own business unless I have proof. That seems like the best policy.
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duhweecher



Joined: 06 Nov 2013

PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 7:43 pm    Post subject: Re: What do you do if you witness strange behaviour? Reply with quote

itiswhatitis wrote:
The incident of this former expat/"celebrity" makes me wonder about what to do if one has witnessed strange behaviour from expat teachers.

During my time here I have never seen any strange/suspicious behaviour from any native teachers......BUT what can one actually do if one does? I mean if there is a weirdo teacher who seems overly affectionate with the kids it seems to me that there really isn't much you can do. You could gossip to co-workers if you wanted but as far as taking action it seems that there is virtually no possible action that can be taken.

As an aside I do not think that expats are any more likely than anyone else to be a pedophile (except for maybe the fact that being a teacher puts them in contact with children).


While one focuses his mind on something as important as the strange behaviour of an expat....(or reading silliness on Dave's...in my case) people are working on Nobel Prize winning ideas. Yeah...I feel like a loser. Thanks for reminding me.
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