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marktoronto



Joined: 02 Jun 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2003 9:41 am    Post subject: Hostess Bars/Room Salons Reply with quote

I have a friend (good looking, tall, blonde girl) who has expressed interest in going to Seoul and working at an upscale Hostess Bar (ones that you would find at a nice hotel, I guess?). I've looked on the internet and most of the information I'm getting on hostess bars are in Japan. Does anyone know about these in Seoul? How much can the girls make? I've read that there are a few seedy ones on "Hooker Hill", but are there any at nice hotels or restaurants? She told me that all she has to do is entertain men, but I'm somehow doubtful that it's just that.
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2003 9:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here is yet more information on another one in Japan if you are a guy..

http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=8758&highlight=hostess+bars

I don't think they are that common in Seoul, I've never heard of anyone doing it, or heard of anyone who know someone who was doing that.

If it does happen, I'm thinking its probably moreso Russian women (if they are white), and its more prostitution-oriented then just general entertaining. But I could be entirely wrong about that.
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TECO



Joined: 20 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2003 12:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

http://www.edenclub-bkk.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=forum&f=2

Here's a link to think about when you bring up clubs like that.
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Seoultrader



Joined: 18 Jun 2003
Location: Ali's Insurgent Inn, Fallujah

PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2003 1:58 pm    Post subject: Re: Hostess Bars/Room Salons Reply with quote

As the board's self-appointed connosoir of fine male entertainment, here's the 411 (Tiger Beer also has a good grasp of the sit.):

Tell her to forget it, unless she's willing to put her ass up for sale on a freelance basis to loaded Koreans, for example, some of my business associates who are into exotic ass (and sick of the Russkies). If she's "hot-hot" (like, Catherine Zeta Jones or Babewatch hot), I'm pretty sure that they'd fork out up to 1 million won/night. You get the point. It wouldn't be hard for her to establish a client base IF design & performance is satisfactory.

As far as establishments such as room salons, she can forget it. No one will hire her as long as there is a steady supply of hot Korean 19-21 year-old credit defaulters ready to give it up for a measly 300,000. It's also too much of an operational risk to take. Korean gals working in room salons are easily controlled. A piece of white ass, as unique and appealing as it might be in such a place, is not worth the effort and legal risk for operators (especially seeing as that they already have to be very careful walking that legality/corruption tightrope).

Although many Russian/Uzbek gals still work in Korean nightclubs as dancers, they generally are expected to perform other services as well. this is really the only organized whitey prostitution here. The Korean govt. has stopped issuing new "Entertainer visas" for such establishments, and the exodus to greener pastures (Dubai, Riyadh, etc.) has begun. The 150-200 or so stinky Itaewon Russkies that you see pissdrunk at 9 a.m. stumbling out of Rio or Club International are no accurate measure of the business, as many of them cater to "lower" fiscally-challenged demographics such as GIs, teachers, etc. etc. Some of them just go there to have fun, of course.

Summary: if she's willing to peddle her ass, she's good to go here. If not, I strongly advise Japan, where she could get away with just "hosting" and still make a good bundle -BUT- there's always the risk of getting stuck with a club with direct Yakuza ties (which they all have, though the degree of connection varies widely) in which case it could turn ugly.

The above info/opinion is based on years of experience as both a customer as well as a former 'operator' of sorts in the business and pretty much the uncensored truth.

Flame away, lovely maidens of the board. I know you're just itching to now... Laughing

(*Seoultrader moons ya*)
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jaderedux



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Lurking outside Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2003 2:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

why would the women flame you? Hey, you spoke about your experiences and honestly. The guy asked a loaded question. I thought your answer was blunt, if true, informative.

As a feminist what a woman chooses to do with her life and body is up to her. Whether it be a stay at home mom or a stripper. That's what it is all about. Each path has a consequence...some paths have more dangerous consquences.

Personally selling your body or trading on your looks seems sad but who the hell am I to judge any of these women.

So no flames here......you may have given the original poster a reality check. Too many people read memiors of a geisha and think the world is really still like that.

Jade
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mokpochica



Joined: 21 Jan 2003
Location: Ann Arbor, MI

PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2003 2:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jaderedux wrote:
Too many people read memiors of a geisha and think the world is really still like that.


Did those people really read it? I thought that book was very specific to Japan and detailed an often sad existence. Sure---it showed that geisha weren't common prostitutes, but it didn't show them having total control over who they would sleep with either. Having someone bid to take your virginity is not my idea of a romantic theme.
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Seoultrader



Joined: 18 Jun 2003
Location: Ali's Insurgent Inn, Fallujah

PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2003 5:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jaderedux wrote:
why would the women flame you? Hey, you spoke about your experiences and honestly. The guy asked a loaded question. I thought your answer was blunt, if true, informative.

As a feminist what a woman chooses to do with her life and body is up to her. Whether it be a stay at home mom or a stripper. That's what it is all about. Each path has a consequence...some paths have more dangerous consquences.

Personally selling your body or trading on your looks seems sad but who the hell am I to judge any of these women.

So no flames here......you may have given the original poster a reality check. Too many people read memiors of a geisha and think the world is really still like that.

Jade


Awww...kudos for understanding the reason I purposely didn't hold back on language in my post. As shocking (or not) as it may sound, this is how the vast majorityof customers and operators talk about the gals. It's meat for rent and no one should have any illusions about the lifestyle.

(hehe, and just so I don't get lynched by the mob - I of course realize that the vast majority of the honeys here are perfectly swell individuals with no gender issues... Wink ... Wink ...thought I could lure some of my "fans" out but I guess the rain is dampening combative moods today)
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The Great Wall of Whiner



Joined: 24 Jan 2003
Location: Middle Land

PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2003 6:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Seoultrader wrote:

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No one will hire her as long as there is a steady supply of hot Korean 19-21 year-old credit defaulters ready to give it up for a measly 300,000.


There are 19-21 year-old credit card defaulters ready to give it up for a measly 50,000, never mind 300,000!

I say to tell your friend not to waste her time. Sure, there are some places she could easily get work in. Pushing 10-20,000 won drinks onto unsuspecting men until all hours of the night.

I just don't see her making tons of money.
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Seoultrader



Joined: 18 Jun 2003
Location: Ali's Insurgent Inn, Fallujah

PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2003 7:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Great Wall of Whiner wrote:
Seoultrader wrote:

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No one will hire her as long as there is a steady supply of hot Korean 19-21 year-old credit defaulters ready to give it up for a measly 300,000.


There are 19-21 year-old credit card defaulters ready to give it up for a measly 50,000, never mind 300,000!

I say to tell your friend not to waste her time. Sure, there are some places she could easily get work in. Pushing 10-20,000 won drinks onto unsuspecting men until all hours of the night.

I just don't see her making tons of money.



1. Hot 19-21-year-olds that go for 50K, huh? Puh-lease. Perhaps the odd 40+-year-old hag on the hill in Itaewon. The absolute cheapest sex with a young Korean woman of acceptable physical standard is currently around 80,000 for a single pop in RLDs such as Miari, 588, etc. And this is a (max.) 10 minute robotic affair. Waste of time, not to mention that your pasty white butt wouldn't make it past 95% of the doors anyway.

Room salon girls tend to be of higher quality and will also give a decent (if not super) performance most of the time. Overpriced? Not really. It's more a question of affordability. Corporate expense accounts are great Wink (an escort in the US will charge that much for an hour)

2. "Pushing 10-20,000 won drinks...bla bla bla" - this 'hosting' system is only known in Itaewon and around USFK 'villes.' A Western non-Russkie being employed in such a place? Errr...NO. Never. For 1000 obvious reasons.

Frankly, it sounds like you're basing your info on Itaewon experiences (ewwww). Crying or Very sad
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2003 9:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Uhh, slowtreader, for all your grandiose language, polished and polite presentation, to me you are little more than a suited whoremonger who exploits the sexuality of the more vulnerable sections of society, because you can.
How about foregoing your self indulgent excursions every so often and donating the cash you would have spent to a charity protecting disadvantaged Asian women, for example. I think you'd feel better about yourself.
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Seoultrader



Joined: 18 Jun 2003
Location: Ali's Insurgent Inn, Fallujah

PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2003 10:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

rapier wrote:
Uhh, slowtreader, for all your grandiose language, polished and polite presentation, to me you are little more than a suited whoremonger who exploits the sexuality of the more vulnerable sections of society, because you can.
How about foregoing your self indulgent excursions every so often and donating the cash you would have spent to a charity protecting disadvantaged Asian women, for example. I think you'd feel better about yourself.


Lol..."suited whoremonger"...guilty as charged I suppose.

Sexual services are like any other service, such as food service for example. Sometimes I eat at home (girlfriend/wife/one night stand/ whatever), sometimes I go out. When I go out, I'm in the fortunate position to be able to enjoy the finer restaurants (room salons) instead of being stuck with fast food (Miari, 588, dodgy Itaewon holes, etc.).

That's me and I don't need to make any excuses for it. And since you're so eager to dish out advice, here's mine: I strongly suggest you save up a month's salary (based on the assumption you make that standard 2 mil. teaching) and treat yourself to an upscale room salon sometime. I will take your advice into consideration as well and make sure to give that cute little "disadvantaged Asian" who will be my room salon hostess tonight a big tip, ok?

Wink

(Oops, sorry dude. I just realized that, according to your avatar info, you're either unemployed or about to be. Better not follow my advice then... Wink )
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inexhile



Joined: 18 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2003 12:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

interesting pie throwing competition in the works here......... I have a pertinent question for both of you Seoul trader and Rapier
Do you differciate between 1st world and 3rd world sex workers and where does Korea fit in?
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2003 12:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Seoultrader: Like a typical punter, you prefer to remain ignorant to the reality of the cynical sex trade you are helping to fuel. Your hint that the hostess girls you "patronise" (both meanings of the word) are doing fine thank you on the easy, generous handouts of their customers. This makes you feel easier.
Let me provide some links for you, just so you know the backround of the business you're paying for. If you don't find these applicable to your situation, i will happilly provide more:

http://picis.jinbo.net/english/women/sextrade.htm

http://www.manilatimes.net/national/2002/jan/03/top_stories/20020103tops.html

(I hope these connect up)
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Seoultrader



Joined: 18 Jun 2003
Location: Ali's Insurgent Inn, Fallujah

PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2003 1:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

inexhile wrote:
interesting pie throwing competition in the works here......... I have a pertinent question for both of you Seoul trader and Rapier
Do you differciate between 1st world and 3rd world sex workers and where does Korea fit in?


Interesting question.

Do I differentiate between 1st/3rd world sex workers? The direct answer would be no, because I really do treat these women the same as I treat anyone I am getting a service from - with respect and professionalism when the service is satifactory (and I'm by no means a "special needs customer") and with contempt if it isn't. I have no tolerance for incompetency.

Where does Korea fit in? In order to compare, we first need to set a standard for comparison, so let's use upscale alternatives that I've experienced as an example.

In NA/Europe, 'escorts' are pretty much the cream of the crop. They tend to be educated, beautiful women in their mid to late 20s. Usually excellent conversationalists, very presentable in a social setting and overall quite pleasant. Costs: $300-500/hour is about standard. If the client just wants sex, same price. I can't speak for the sexual performance since I have never chosen that option but I imagine it's decent.

In Korea, room salons are pretty much the classiest way to go. Girls ("hotstesses") tend to be quite young and pretty, well trained in the art of hosting (from peeling fruit to making sure your glass is full) and quite good at err...other things Wink . Costs inclusive "takeout" at the end of the night: $2000-$5000 for a party of 3 guys depending on what is ordered. (the actual act of taking the girl back to your place/hotel is only about $300; the spirits is where the establishment makes it's money).

I know this doesn't really answer your question, but I hope it gives you a better idea on where I and many Western corporate expats in Korea stand - The general consensus being that Korea takes the cake in terms of service.
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2003 1:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

seoultrader: its a shame you obviously chose to ignore the first link I posted up.
Its a sad, sad world.......
Do you know, the amount of money you shell out for a night of selfish eroticism could probably enable just one of these girls, if they were from one of the poorer countries, to get good healthcare for herself and her family, and perhaps even set up her own, self-sustaining, legitimate business in her home country- (a fruit market stall perhaps).
But no. 90% of what you shell out goes to line the pockets of the rich, gangster - type exploitative bosses that run these joints..
Personally i prefer to spend a seductive night with a woman who is truly empowered, and in charge of her own life, but thats just me.
Ahh well, i can see i'm falling on deaf ears here....
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