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Ash2es1987
Joined: 01 Aug 2015 Location: USA
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Posted: Fri Aug 07, 2015 6:28 pm Post subject: Teaching in Korea with a family |
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I'd always planned on teaching overseas, south Korea to be exact, but after college I got engaged, had a baby, you know, life got ahold of me. My baby is now 6 months and I work part-time in a field that has nothing to do with my English degree, and I still desperately want to go over there and teach English. So, my question is, is it too late? Will it be difficult obtaining a job because I now have a small family? Have any of you gone out there with a family? What are your experiences? What steps did you take?
All information is welcomed. Thanks everyone! |
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edwardcatflap
Joined: 22 Mar 2009
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Posted: Fri Aug 07, 2015 11:45 pm Post subject: |
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When you say family, do you mean just you and a kid or is there a partner involved? if so can you both work etc...You need to give more details. If you apply for a job with accommodation thrown in the chances are it will be too small for 2 parent family. That's the main drawback. If you come over as a single mum, you'll obviously need to get childcare arranged. There are probably Filippinas that'll do it for less than you can make in a hagwan. People over here doing Ok with families are usually in better paying jobs than your average hagwan and can afford to rent their own place. |
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Fox

Joined: 04 Mar 2009
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 1:07 am Post subject: |
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I have known a number of teachers here who had families, and overall they all seemed to do fine. The real question is what you're planning on doing with your infant while you're at work. If your spouse will stay at home full time to watch them, then it should not be a problem. If you both plan to work, on the other hand, Korea has some great child care options, but you may have difficulty getting one set up in the relatively small window between acquiring a job and your first day of work, especially if you don't speak Korean. You would probably want to seek a rural position rather than one in one of the big cities: the lower housing costs make it more likely you'll end up with an apartment of decent size, and the quieter, slower pace of life is probably a bit more suitable to a family. |
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Ash2es1987
Joined: 01 Aug 2015 Location: USA
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 1:42 am Post subject: |
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Thanks for the replies. Yes, it would be me and baby and fiancé as well. My spouse would stay and take care of baby full time, and thanks for the tip about sticking to rural areas. |
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candy bar
Joined: 03 Dec 2012
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 3:05 am Post subject: |
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Ash2es1987 wrote: |
Thanks for the replies. Yes, it would be me and baby and fiancé as well. My spouse would stay and take care of baby full time, and thanks for the tip about sticking to rural areas. |
Your fiancé will need a VISA. |
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outbound_22
Joined: 05 Feb 2015
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 3:19 am Post subject: Re: Teaching in Korea with a family |
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Ash2es1987 wrote: |
but after college I got engaged, had a baby, you know |
Whoops! |
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CentralCali
Joined: 17 May 2007
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 4:43 am Post subject: |
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Ash2es1987 wrote: |
Thanks for the replies. Yes, it would be me and baby and fiancé as well. My spouse would stay and take care of baby full time, and thanks for the tip about sticking to rural areas. |
A fiancé is not a spouse. If you wish to sponsor him to accompany you, you need to be married to him. And you need to do that before you apply for a visa. |
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Kwangjuchicken

Joined: 01 Sep 2003 Location: I was abducted by aliens on my way to Korea and forced to be an EFL teacher on this crazy planet.
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 5:26 am Post subject: |
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Never put all your chickens in the same basket before you count them, or else when you lead your horse to water he will not drink it and you will never be able to cross that bridge when you get to it. |
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DaeguNL
Joined: 08 Sep 2009
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 1:00 am Post subject: Re: Teaching in Korea with a family |
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Ash2es1987 wrote: |
I'd always planned on teaching overseas, south Korea to be exact, but after college I got engaged, had a baby, you know, life got ahold of me. My baby is now 6 months and I work part-time in a field that has nothing to do with my English degree, and I still desperately want to go over there and teach English. So, my question is, is it too late? Will it be difficult obtaining a job because I now have a small family? Have any of you gone out there with a family? What are your experiences? What steps did you take?
All information is welcomed. Thanks everyone! |
If you have a bit of savings ($5,000) It might be better off to get your own place. The school will probably give you a shoebox, or 400 a month.
you can get a 2 bedroom apartment here ranging from 400-700 easily enough (not in rich/trendy areas like gangnam, hongdae etc) |
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isitts
Joined: 25 Dec 2008 Location: Korea
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 1:53 am Post subject: |
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Ash2es1987 wrote: |
Thanks for the replies. Yes, it would be me and baby and fiancé as well. My spouse would stay and take care of baby full time, and thanks for the tip about sticking to rural areas. |
If you're looking for entry level work (like a hagwon or G/EPIK), I don't think your salary is going to be enough for two depends. And if your spouse is a dependent, he won't be able to acquire legitimate work.
If he was working, too, you might be able to work something out...like if you both get jobs and opt for a housing allowance. But only one of you working...
Also, I think starting a new family in rural Korea is a terrible idea.
I would wait until ttompatz chimes in or pm him before making a decision on this. He's pretty straight forward about logistics. |
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Fox

Joined: 04 Mar 2009
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 3:33 am Post subject: |
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isitts wrote: |
Ash2es1987 wrote: |
Thanks for the replies. Yes, it would be me and baby and fiancé as well. My spouse would stay and take care of baby full time, and thanks for the tip about sticking to rural areas. |
If you're looking for entry level work (like a hagwon or G/EPIK), I don't think your salary is going to be enough for two depends. |
I know a fellow who supported a non-working wife and two children on an EPIK salary without much problem. |
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radcon
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 3:42 am Post subject: |
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In Korea you can bring your baby to bars with you. So there's that. |
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SeoulNate

Joined: 04 Jun 2010 Location: Hyehwa
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 3:40 pm Post subject: Re: Teaching in Korea with a family |
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DaeguNL wrote: |
you can get a 2 bedroom apartment here ranging from 400-700 easily enough (not in rich/trendy areas like gangnam, hongdae etc) |
If you have 15-20 grand for a deposit. GL without that, unless you want to spend half of your paycheck on your house. |
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wooden nickels
Joined: 23 May 2010
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 7:40 pm Post subject: Re: Teaching in Korea with a family |
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DaeguNL wrote: |
Ash2es1987 wrote: |
I'd always planned on teaching overseas, south Korea to be exact, but after college I got engaged, had a baby, you know, life got ahold of me. My baby is now 6 months and I work part-time in a field that has nothing to do with my English degree, and I still desperately want to go over there and teach English. So, my question is, is it too late? Will it be difficult obtaining a job because I now have a small family? Have any of you gone out there with a family? What are your experiences? What steps did you take?
All information is welcomed. Thanks everyone! |
If you have a bit of savings ($5,000) It might be better off to get your own place. The school will probably give you a shoebox, or 400 a month.
you can get a 2 bedroom apartment here ranging from 400-700 easily enough (not in rich/trendy areas like gangnam, hongdae etc) |
5 mil won deposit + 400-700 thousand won a month. That's ghetto.
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Paddycakes
Joined: 05 May 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 11:07 am Post subject: |
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Go for it... you only live once.
Just make sure you have an exit plan if things go South. |
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