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Ash2es1987



Joined: 01 Aug 2015
Location: USA

PostPosted: Fri Aug 07, 2015 6:28 pm    Post subject: Teaching in Korea with a family Reply with quote

I'd always planned on teaching overseas, south Korea to be exact, but after college I got engaged, had a baby, you know, life got ahold of me. My baby is now 6 months and I work part-time in a field that has nothing to do with my English degree, and I still desperately want to go over there and teach English. So, my question is, is it too late? Will it be difficult obtaining a job because I now have a small family? Have any of you gone out there with a family? What are your experiences? What steps did you take?
All information is welcomed. Thanks everyone!
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edwardcatflap



Joined: 22 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Fri Aug 07, 2015 11:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

When you say family, do you mean just you and a kid or is there a partner involved? if so can you both work etc...You need to give more details. If you apply for a job with accommodation thrown in the chances are it will be too small for 2 parent family. That's the main drawback. If you come over as a single mum, you'll obviously need to get childcare arranged. There are probably Filippinas that'll do it for less than you can make in a hagwan. People over here doing Ok with families are usually in better paying jobs than your average hagwan and can afford to rent their own place.
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Fox



Joined: 04 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 1:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have known a number of teachers here who had families, and overall they all seemed to do fine. The real question is what you're planning on doing with your infant while you're at work. If your spouse will stay at home full time to watch them, then it should not be a problem. If you both plan to work, on the other hand, Korea has some great child care options, but you may have difficulty getting one set up in the relatively small window between acquiring a job and your first day of work, especially if you don't speak Korean. You would probably want to seek a rural position rather than one in one of the big cities: the lower housing costs make it more likely you'll end up with an apartment of decent size, and the quieter, slower pace of life is probably a bit more suitable to a family.
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Ash2es1987



Joined: 01 Aug 2015
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PostPosted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 1:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks for the replies. Yes, it would be me and baby and fiancé as well. My spouse would stay and take care of baby full time, and thanks for the tip about sticking to rural areas.
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Joined: 03 Dec 2012

PostPosted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 3:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ash2es1987 wrote:
Thanks for the replies. Yes, it would be me and baby and fiancé as well. My spouse would stay and take care of baby full time, and thanks for the tip about sticking to rural areas.


Your fiancé will need a VISA.
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outbound_22



Joined: 05 Feb 2015

PostPosted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 3:19 am    Post subject: Re: Teaching in Korea with a family Reply with quote

Ash2es1987 wrote:
but after college I got engaged, had a baby, you know


Whoops!
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 4:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ash2es1987 wrote:
Thanks for the replies. Yes, it would be me and baby and fiancé as well. My spouse would stay and take care of baby full time, and thanks for the tip about sticking to rural areas.


A fiancé is not a spouse. If you wish to sponsor him to accompany you, you need to be married to him. And you need to do that before you apply for a visa.
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Kwangjuchicken



Joined: 01 Sep 2003
Location: I was abducted by aliens on my way to Korea and forced to be an EFL teacher on this crazy planet.

PostPosted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 5:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Never put all your chickens in the same basket before you count them, or else when you lead your horse to water he will not drink it and you will never be able to cross that bridge when you get to it.
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DaeguNL



Joined: 08 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 1:00 am    Post subject: Re: Teaching in Korea with a family Reply with quote

Ash2es1987 wrote:
I'd always planned on teaching overseas, south Korea to be exact, but after college I got engaged, had a baby, you know, life got ahold of me. My baby is now 6 months and I work part-time in a field that has nothing to do with my English degree, and I still desperately want to go over there and teach English. So, my question is, is it too late? Will it be difficult obtaining a job because I now have a small family? Have any of you gone out there with a family? What are your experiences? What steps did you take?
All information is welcomed. Thanks everyone!


If you have a bit of savings ($5,000) It might be better off to get your own place. The school will probably give you a shoebox, or 400 a month.
you can get a 2 bedroom apartment here ranging from 400-700 easily enough (not in rich/trendy areas like gangnam, hongdae etc)
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isitts



Joined: 25 Dec 2008
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 1:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ash2es1987 wrote:
Thanks for the replies. Yes, it would be me and baby and fiancé as well. My spouse would stay and take care of baby full time, and thanks for the tip about sticking to rural areas.

If you're looking for entry level work (like a hagwon or G/EPIK), I don't think your salary is going to be enough for two depends. And if your spouse is a dependent, he won't be able to acquire legitimate work.

If he was working, too, you might be able to work something out...like if you both get jobs and opt for a housing allowance. But only one of you working...

Also, I think starting a new family in rural Korea is a terrible idea.

I would wait until ttompatz chimes in or pm him before making a decision on this. He's pretty straight forward about logistics.
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Fox



Joined: 04 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 3:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

isitts wrote:
Ash2es1987 wrote:
Thanks for the replies. Yes, it would be me and baby and fiancé as well. My spouse would stay and take care of baby full time, and thanks for the tip about sticking to rural areas.

If you're looking for entry level work (like a hagwon or G/EPIK), I don't think your salary is going to be enough for two depends.


I know a fellow who supported a non-working wife and two children on an EPIK salary without much problem.
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radcon



Joined: 23 May 2011

PostPosted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 3:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

In Korea you can bring your baby to bars with you. So there's that.
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SeoulNate



Joined: 04 Jun 2010
Location: Hyehwa

PostPosted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 3:40 pm    Post subject: Re: Teaching in Korea with a family Reply with quote

DaeguNL wrote:


you can get a 2 bedroom apartment here ranging from 400-700 easily enough (not in rich/trendy areas like gangnam, hongdae etc)


If you have 15-20 grand for a deposit. GL without that, unless you want to spend half of your paycheck on your house.
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wooden nickels



Joined: 23 May 2010

PostPosted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 7:40 pm    Post subject: Re: Teaching in Korea with a family Reply with quote

DaeguNL wrote:
Ash2es1987 wrote:
I'd always planned on teaching overseas, south Korea to be exact, but after college I got engaged, had a baby, you know, life got ahold of me. My baby is now 6 months and I work part-time in a field that has nothing to do with my English degree, and I still desperately want to go over there and teach English. So, my question is, is it too late? Will it be difficult obtaining a job because I now have a small family? Have any of you gone out there with a family? What are your experiences? What steps did you take?
All information is welcomed. Thanks everyone!


If you have a bit of savings ($5,000) It might be better off to get your own place. The school will probably give you a shoebox, or 400 a month.
you can get a 2 bedroom apartment here ranging from 400-700 easily enough (not in rich/trendy areas like gangnam, hongdae etc)



5 mil won deposit + 400-700 thousand won a month. That's ghetto.


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Paddycakes



Joined: 05 May 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 11:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Go for it... you only live once.

Just make sure you have an exit plan if things go South.
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