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Mpls_Korean



Joined: 15 Feb 2005
Location: Seoul, Korea

PostPosted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 7:14 pm    Post subject: Korean-American to marry a Korean Reply with quote

I'm a Korean-American male marrying a Korean woman and I am wondering if anyone knows the specifics about what needs to happen before and after a marriage to make it legal for my fiance to get a US Visa. I have heard many rumors about immigration visas taking more than a year to receive. Is this true? Please help, I am getting married in 2 weeks!
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Derrek



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 12:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, I almost married a filipina 5 years ago, and I think it's the same or harder than it was then... I know people from other countries, like Korea, followed the same rules back then.

To go through all of the paperwork for her to get a "fiance visa" so you can get married in the USA used to take 4 to 5 months. Not sure if it will be longer, faster, or same now.

BUT

If you married anywhere else but the USA, you had to wait in entire year to get the full visa... sometimes 1 1/2. There are various reason why it takes so much longer, but I"ve heard it is a sort of "penalty" to keep people from just marrying someone and bringing them over to the USA (somewhat eliminating snap-judgements and advantageous outsiders trying to marry to get in).

There are a number of great websites where discussions about this very situation are held, complete with timelines and other stuff from people who went through both processes. Do a Google search and find out. Either route involves a lot of mailing back and forth, etc.

If I were you, I'd go down to the US Embassy and ask. But don't tell them you are planning to marry right now.

You konw, in Korea, you can also marry, but not list it with the government. That is the current trick many couples do these days -- Korean to Korean -- for various reasons. Then, if they want to divorce in a few years, they don't have to bother with the endless gov't details. If you go that route, then you can do the "fiance visa" thing and get there quicker, I'd bet. But technically, it would be illegal, I think. But who would know?

Since 9/11, the game has changed a bit, so check out those other sites and start reading!
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chiaa



Joined: 23 Aug 2003

PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 12:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

A guy I know got hitched to a Korean and they got her visa in five weeks from start to finish. This was less than one year ago. Check out the embassy's website for the most up to date info.
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mercury



Joined: 05 Dec 2004
Location: Pusan

PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 2:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Are you an idiot? YOU are getting married in TWO WEEKS? And you have not even researched this? Now I hate to be telling you this, but something looks mighty fishy here. Marriage is the most important decision you can make, I wonder if the the big head is thinking or the little one. Well, anyways, remember this, after you are married the chemicals wear off real fast! Take your time, make sure she is the right one dude.
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Konundrum



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Location: Boston

PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 4:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was married in Korea and went through the immigration process last year. (I am Canadian)
It ended up taking almost 10 months, but most of it was our own fault or the RCMP's fault.

1) First off, once we filed the initial petition, we had to wait for then embassy to get back to us with an approval. They said it may take from 3 to 6 months...so three months later we called and inquired as to what was going on. They said we had been approved for an interview about 2 and a half months previous and asked if we didn't get the reply in the mail. We hadn't. So, we waited an extra 2 and a half months there.

2)Next, fulfilling all the requirements for paperwork- your American spouse's last 3 years tax returns (if they haven't been done, might as well do them now.. I know Americans don't have to pay taxes, but they're still supposed to file every year).
- I had to get a police background check from every country I've lived in (this took for-effing-ever thanks to the RCMP and their website, which tells you the exact opposite of the best way to do it)...The Korean one was easy though.
-getting a physical and all your vaccinations
-if you or your spouse don't have a job waiting for you in America,or don't have $80 000 in the bank right now, you will need a sponsor in the US (someone who earns 10% over the poverty line for their household INCLUDING you and your spouse)


Bottom line is, if you have all your ducks in a row, and the lines at the Embassy are short, it could probably be done in 2 or 3 months....if not it could take a year or more. Ours didn't exactly go smoothly and it took about 10 months, but granted, almost none of it was the embassy's fault.
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poddubny



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 10:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mercury wrote:
Marriage is the most important decision you can make


not quite. a much more important decision would be whether to supersize your fries and coke.
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jaykimf



Joined: 24 Apr 2004

PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 7:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mercury wrote:
Are you an idiot? YOU are getting married in TWO WEEKS? And you have not even researched this? Now I hate to be telling you this, but something looks mighty fishy here. Marriage is the most important decision you can make, I wonder if the the big head is thinking or the little one. Well, anyways, remember this, after you are married the chemicals wear off real fast! Take your time, make sure she is the right one dude.


Why do you think it is appropiate to be rude? Are you an Idiot?
Are you assuming that because he is only now researching the immigration process , he must be rushing into a marriage unprepared? Non sequitor. It is common knowledge that an American citizen can sponsor their spouse for immigration. As to the exact details of how to go about that, there really is no need to do that before the wedding because nothing can be done before the wedding. (Unless you want to go the Fiance route and have the wedding in the U.S.) In my case I knew my wife 5 years before we got married. We were married more than 4 years before we got around to filing the immigration petition and it will be another year before we file the immigrant visa application.
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jaykimf



Joined: 24 Apr 2004

PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 7:36 pm    Post subject: Re: Korean-American to marry a Korean Reply with quote

Mpls_Korean wrote:
I'm a Korean-American male marrying a Korean woman and I am wondering if anyone knows the specifics about what needs to happen before and after a marriage to make it legal for my fiance to get a US Visa. I have heard many rumors about immigration visas taking more than a year to receive. Is this true? Please help, I am getting married in 2 weeks!


There is nothing to do before the wedding. The first step is to have your wedding properly recorded at the U.S. Embassy in Seoul. For information see: http://usembassy.state.gov/seoul/wwwh3540.html
After the wedding you can file the Immigrant petition at the embassy. After the Department of Homeland security has approved that, you can file the Immigrant Visa application with the State Dept. at the Embassy. For information see: http://usembassy.state.gov/seoul/wwwh2110.html
How long it takes for an immigrant visa depends on where you file the immigrant Petition. If you reside in the U.S. you have to file it at the appropiate office in the U.S. Depending on where you live in the U.S. it can take anywhere from 6 months to more than 2 years for the petition to be approved. Some service centers are faster than others. If you reside in Korea , you can file at the Embassy in Seoul, which is much faster. Our petition was approved in about a week but we still haven't filed the visa application. The whole process is suppossed to take a minimum of 4 months, but if you're lucky it could be less. The Embassy site has a very good explanation of the process. Another good source of information are the discussuion forums at: http://www.visajourney.com/
Congratulations !
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 9:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mercury wrote:
Are you an idiot? YOU are getting married in TWO WEEKS? And you have not even researched this? Now I hate to be telling you this, but something looks mighty fishy here. Marriage is the most important decision you can make, I wonder if the the big head is thinking or the little one. Well, anyways, remember this, after you are married the chemicals wear off real fast! Take your time, make sure she is the right one dude.


Traditionally, Koreans would marry quite quickly like that - when its getting near their time to be married.

Things have changed a lot in Seoul, but when I lived in Busan in 1996-1997, it was quite common to have these 'agreements of marriage' after they met only a few times.

I also knew a Korean girl a few years ago who met a korean-american man and married quite suddenly in just the same way.

In short, its not something I would do, but many Koreans (from Korean or abroad) do think in these terms - of course I don't know the posters individual case however.
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hellofaniceguy



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 10:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jaykimf wrote:
mercury wrote:
Are you an idiot? YOU are getting married in TWO WEEKS? And you have not even researched this? Now I hate to be telling you this, but something looks mighty fishy here. Marriage is the most important decision you can make, I wonder if the the big head is thinking or the little one. Well, anyways, remember this, after you are married the chemicals wear off real fast! Take your time, make sure she is the right one dude.


Why do you think it is appropiate to be rude? Are you an Idiot?
Are you assuming that because he is only now researching the immigration process , he must be rushing into a marriage unprepared? Non sequitor. It is common knowledge that an American citizen can sponsor their spouse for immigration. As to the exact details of how to go about that, there really is no need to do that before the wedding because nothing can be done before the wedding. (Unless you want to go the Fiance route and have the wedding in the U.S.) In my case I knew my wife 5 years before we got married. We were married more than 4 years before we got around to filing the immigration petition and it will be another year before we file the immigrant visa application.


I can understand the both of you....still...getting married in two weeks and now needs help! Gesh...you'd think that common sense would play an important factor here...seven P's: Prior Planning and
Preparation Prevents a Piss Poor Performance.
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mercury



Joined: 05 Dec 2004
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 10:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why do you think it is appropiate to be rude? Are you an Idiot?
Are you assuming that because he is only now researching the immigration process , he must be rushing into a marriage unprepared? Non sequitor. It is common knowledge that an American citizen can sponsor their spouse for immigration. As to the exact details of how to go about that, there really is no need to do that before the wedding because nothing can be done before the wedding. (Unless you want to go the Fiance route and have the wedding in the U.S.) In my case I knew my wife 5 years before we got married. We were married more than 4 years before we got around to filing the immigration petition and it will be another year before we file the immigrant visa application.


Wow, Mr. Kim....are you guys twin "idiot" brothers. Must be. Idiots, idiots, idiots. Maybe you guys are related, long lost relatives with genetic traits of indolence.
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jaykimf



Joined: 24 Apr 2004

PostPosted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 5:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mercury wrote:


Wow, Mr. Kim....are you guys twin "idiot" brothers. Must be. Idiots, idiots, idiots. Maybe you guys are related, long lost relatives with genetic traits of indolence.


Indolence has nothing to do with it. The fact is that the Immigrant visa is only valid for 6 months. If you don't use it within that period you have to go through the whole application procedure all over again. It would be idiotic to apply until you are ready to use it.
Anyway, our genetic traits are involuntary and beyond our control. Your decision to be an asshole is your personal choice.
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