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rapier
Joined: 16 Feb 2003
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:36 am Post subject: What do you admire in the Korean character? |
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We admire what we lack, I suppose...anyhow, I've come to appreciate certain facets of general Korean character that strike me as good:..do you have any to add?
1) Unselfconscious Be it selling stupid things on the subway, ramming to the front of the queue or other things westerners regard as embarrassing or rude, they have no shame.
They act as if nobody is watching, and don't care: they do what they want without much regard to what others think. A good quality, I think.
2)Ambition, drive "You must have a dream" say 9 out of 10 Koreans. Most of them have set goals (however unrealistic) and work towards them without regard to obstacles and possible pitfalls. They go for what they want, even though its usually along the lines of "making more money" and working even longer hours than usual. You want to open a business? Sure, lets open it tomorrow.."don't worry, we'll borrow the money." Not qualified or experienced to do it properly? Who cares? Just blagg it.
Nothing stops them (except reality sometimes). At least they have clear direction, usually.
3)Composure In certain situations, they have an enviable poker face, an outward calmness and controlled demeanour. They hold their cards tight.. can be hard to guess their intentions. Must be a useful trait in life. |
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zappadelta

Joined: 31 Aug 2004
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:42 am Post subject: |
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I really admire your avatar!! |
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chronicpride

Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:50 am Post subject: |
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I admire their ability to tolerate inconvenience (or at least what we would perceive as inconvenience), which is a stark contract to myself and the avg westerner. |
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Alias

Joined: 24 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 5:10 am Post subject: |
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Hard work ethic. |
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Universalis

Joined: 17 Nov 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 5:41 am Post subject: |
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They give a shit about their appearance. Even the poor guys selling crap on the subways are dressed in slacks with a belt and their button-down shirt tucked in.
I admire that...
Brian |
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VanIslander

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 5:46 am Post subject: |
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loyalty to friends
cleanliness
respect for other people's pens and pencils (they always return them!)
finger dexterity (at least for counting money) |
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matthewwoodford

Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Location: Location, location, location.
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 5:53 am Post subject: |
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Stubbornness - can be a good thing.
"Sharingness" - generally willing to share things with others if they live or work together, not drawing lines about what is and isn't theirs the way westerners often do.
Thrift - live on a little and save a lot, a virtue to admire more than emulate as far as I'm concerned.[/b]
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Len8
Joined: 12 Feb 2003 Location: Kyungju
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 6:14 am Post subject: |
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They love to sing, and are not in the least self concisious about it. Doesn't matter wether the voice is good or bad all singers are given a rousing support.
They have a lot of patience when things are inconvieniant. Especially when traffic is backed up and they happen to be passengers in a bus. They grit their teeth and bear it, both as a passengers and as a drivers
Their finger dexterity with pens and pencils is excellent too.
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adventureman
Joined: 18 Feb 2003
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 6:49 am Post subject: |
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Lack of excessiveness and overindulgence.
An appreciation for astheticly pleasing things, like buddhism, calligraphy and classical music. |
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Guri Guy

Joined: 07 Sep 2003 Location: Bamboo Island
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 7:00 am Post subject: |
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Lack of excessiveness and overindulgence.
An appreciation for astheticly pleasing things, like buddhism, calligraphy and classical music. |
I see evidence of excessiveness and overindulgence by the subway stop everyday in the form of puke pizzas
I think Korean character can be summed up as extreme. Nothing is done half @ssed here. Koreans have a passion for what they do. That can have positive and negative results. I do admire them for that though.
I agree though that they do appreciate some of the finer things in life. That is nice.
I do think though that you have described the Japanese much better with your statement. |
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adventureman
Joined: 18 Feb 2003
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 7:14 am Post subject: |
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Guri Guy wrote: |
I see evidence of excessiveness and overindulgence by the subway stop everyday in the form of puke pizzas  |
But the average Korean household still seems like NOTHING when compared to that whole mentality of "get into your SUV, drive to walmart, buy some steaks and another three dvd players, cook the steaks in ten sticks of butter, then go polish your gun rack and study the bible" mentality that a lot of people have in that place across the pond. |
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kangnam mafioso
Joined: 27 Jan 2003 Location: Teheranno
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 8:07 am Post subject: |
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i like their attitude about food and drink. sharing everything together, over-indulging, pouring each other drinks, etc. food really is enjoyed and dinner can take all night -- kind of like the italians in that respect. the food is very eccentric as well. who would think of eating cow blood soup or squid stir fried with a bunch of red pepper paste?? |
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kangnam mafioso
Joined: 27 Jan 2003 Location: Teheranno
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 8:07 am Post subject: |
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i like their attitude about food and drink. sharing everything together, over-indulging, pouring each other drinks, etc. food really is enjoyed and dinner can take all night -- kind of like the italians in that respect. the food is very eccentric as well. who would think of eating cow blood soup or squid stir fried with a bunch of red pepper paste?? western food is so tame and a bit boring in that regard. |
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Tiberious aka Sparkles

Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Location: I'm one cool cat!
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 8:17 am Post subject: Re: What do you admire in the Korean character? |
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rapier wrote: |
3)Composure In certain situations, they have an enviable poker face, an outward calmness and controlled demeanour. |
About a month ago I and my co-worker were taking the elevator downstairs for lunch. There was a problem, and the elevator plunged 4 or 5 floors before righting itself. Then, it dropped another 3 floors. My co-worker didn't even break a sweat. He pressed the intercom and explained what was going on. I, meanwhile, was doing something I'd rather not devulge -- no, not that! -- because it's a little embarrassing to admit, given the outcome of the situation (I lived! Yay!).
Sparkles*_* |
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captain kirk
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 10:05 am Post subject: |
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Preserving tradition, respect for elders, ancestors, history. For example, heading off the highway and a tilled valley among little moutains with pines. In the 'middle' is an old house. Maybe 1700's. The courtyard yangban style. Hasn't moved. Old timbers, wattle and mud. And the way the architecture blends in with the fields and seems to sit in a geomantic 'power spot'.
And the way people 'don't blink much'. Don't give a damn much what others think and hurtle about their business.
And the 'communal', 'bee mind' group think thing. Like the neighbourhood is an extended family. |
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