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don't lend money to k.girls

 
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Gorgias



Joined: 27 Aug 2005

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 6:14 am    Post subject: don't lend money to k.girls Reply with quote

In the last few months, several guys I have known in Korea, have made the mistake of lending money to k.girls; only to have the girl disappear off the map right after. Lucky for me, I am too much of a cold-hearted penny-pincher to go for that, but just a heads up to the guys who are a bit suckerish; maybe this is a funny trend in the k.girl community right now, as I have heard a few stories about it.

"Ha, ha, ha! Yah, two-million! How much did you ask him for?"
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tacon101



Joined: 31 Oct 2005
Location: seoul

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 6:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

wow nice guys...maybe a little naive, but nice
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 6:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Seems to me when it comes to lending money to people the old saying always applies

'never lend more than you are willing to part with'
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 8:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not just K-girls. Don't lend money to anyone unless they are a long standing, trusted friend.

I never lend money... but i have leant it to friends previously- large amounts.
i had this one maye at uni. we bagan lending eachother like 20 bucks to begin with. After 3 years we were quite comforatable handing over $1000 or so if the other needed it. And got it back. of course the only problem being you may not get it back precisely when you want it.

k-girls have a tradition of recieving money from Boyfriends as gifts. Its not seen as something they have to return, in a country where men are the breadwinners.
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SuperHero



Joined: 10 Dec 2003
Location: Superhero Hideout

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 1:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

crazylemongirl wrote:
'never lend more than you are willing to part
with'

My thoughts exactly
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peemil



Joined: 09 Feb 2003
Location: Koowoompa

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 2:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Only lend money to your enemies.
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joe_doufu



Joined: 09 May 2005
Location: Elsewhere

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 4:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe that's why my (K-female) boss hasn't been paying my salary... she feels comfortable owing me?
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EFLtrainer



Joined: 04 May 2005

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 8:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

joe_doufu wrote:
Maybe that's why my (K-female) boss hasn't been paying my salary... she feels comfortable owing me?


Nah, you're just getting screwed. Been there, done that.
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djsmnc



Joined: 20 Jan 2003
Location: Dave's ESL Cafe

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 11:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wouldn't give a K-girl money unless:
***(Working= AT work at that exact time)

1. She is working in a store

2. She is working in an eatery or drinking hole of some type.

3. She is working under a red light

If there is no service being rendered, the money is not changing hands.
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