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Wishmaster
Joined: 06 Feb 2003
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 12:05 am Post subject: Going back and getting a REAL job.... |
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Yeah, I'm right now dealing with one of my co-workers who is finishing up his year in Korea. He now is trashing everything about the place and saying that he is going to go back home and get a real job, a real apartment, a real life...ad nauseum. Granted, esl teaching isn't the most professional thing going but it is still a lot preferable to some of the things that you have to deal with at home. This guy keeps bragging about how he's going to be making 80k a year and buying a nice house...I hear it every single day. I've had some of those "real" jobs back home and I can't figure the attraction. Longer hours, more stress involved, having to have a car to get around, dealing with higher taxes, etc. Korea does have major flaws but I find that there are plenty of flaws back home as well. He doesn't take into account that he is now working less than 30 hours a week doing a job that requires hardly any brain activity and doesn't produce any stress. He lives close by...doesn't need a car. Rent is paid...back home, he'll get killed by the cost of housing. He'll probably end up going back home and realize how good he had it in Korea..... |
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spidey112233
Joined: 21 Jul 2005
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 12:26 am Post subject: |
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not everyone loves korea! even if it does mean working more back home. there are many things back home that you cant find here. thats why its called "HOME".
he isnt the first OR last to have said this. thousands of people come here for the quick 1-yr contract and split. sick of the place or just not for them. |
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sheba
Joined: 16 May 2005 Location: Here there and everywhere!
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 12:29 am Post subject: |
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So now you can sit back and smile! he'll be doing his best to make himself feel better about going back home. If he was so sure and excited about his decision, he wouldnt need to keep justifying it. Wait for the reverse culture shock to set in...
I told people how much I earn after tax back home and they were like "oh ok, not bad considering you have a free apartment"... then I worked out how much I would need to be earning back home with the high tax rate to get the same amount after tax.... they were very impressed considering all the benefits! |
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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 1:44 am Post subject: |
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80k a year, what was he doing here??
I smell BS. |
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Alias

Joined: 24 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 1:49 am Post subject: |
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Do you consider working at a kiddie hagwon to be a "real job"? The benefits are great but thats about it. It requires about as much skill as telemarketing. (no disrespect to telemarketers). |
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captain kirk
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 2:03 am Post subject: |
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You sound envious. And annoyed. Probably more annoyed because he's trashing the place and you're sticking around. Notice that he's spewing negativity. Do you wonder if he'll get his wheels stuck in Canada, start spitting about it and glowing on about Korea?
What has changed for him? He came over to Korea to get out of debt and now he's going back? Is there some opportunity for him back in Canada now? That wasn't there when he left? Have his parents lured him back with the promise of money? For a business, more school?
It's not very considerate of him to be blabbering on dissing the place around you. He must know you're staying on. He sounds unfinished. Are his parents going to send him to charm school? |
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livinginkorea

Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Location: Korea, South of the border
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 2:12 am Post subject: |
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I say that he is only trying to make you jealous and reassure himself. You is he trying to convince - you or himself?
I say that he'll be back in a year!!  |
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Homer Guest
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 3:41 am Post subject: |
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Thats a common one!
"Yeah man, I can get a big time job just like that back home (snap of the fingers here)".
Ask what job and you get mumbles.
It is also called the grass is greener syndrome or the I always live in the then disorder.
I agree with one of the posters here: if this guy was so happy about going home and so sure about his future he would not need to brag about it. He is simply blowing smoke to make himself feel bigger.
This is not to say here (Korea) is better then there (your home country). That conclusion depends on the person. For some who do not want to be teachers career-wise then home might be better as far as employment is concerner. For those who wish to be teachers it would also depend but Korea and other ESL markets offer a fulfilling career option. |
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Gopher

Joined: 04 Jun 2005
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 6:45 am Post subject: |
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Homer wrote: |
Korea and other ESL markets offer a fulfilling career option. |
Negative.
Korea pays more than any EFL job I've had in any Latin American country, but the work (at least at a hogwon) is absolutely unfulfilling. It's not a "real job," not even a "real EFL job." It's crap (chanting, "telephone teaching," and a million other hogwon issues that detract from the actual work of being a teacher -- we're babysitters, maybe even part "clowns," but I have taught before, and I do not call what I am doing now "teaching."). Hogwons are hopelessly corrupt and inept.
And Korean Immigration refers to our employer as our "master." See:
http://efl-law.org/forums/viewtopic.php?t=738
Amost any job back home would be better than this, professionally speaking. If you feel that you can not make the money at home that you make here, then that is clearly part of the equation and you can't be faulted for it, because peoples' lives are complex and everyone makes decisions for different reasons, and that is fine.
But let's not call EFL teaching in Korea "fulfilling" as a career choice. |
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Zyzyfer

Joined: 29 Jan 2003 Location: who, what, where, when, why, how?
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 7:12 am Post subject: |
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With just a year here and the right qualifications, he might be able to do something, but if he's here in the first place, he was either dissatisfied with work there before or didn't have a real job/wasn't on the track to one. |
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Hanson

Joined: 20 Oct 2004
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 8:00 am Post subject: |
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But let's not call EFL teaching in Korea "fulfilling" as a career choice. |
Gotta disagree strongly here. Not everyone works at a $hitty hagwon in Korea. There are fulfilling jobs, you just have to know where to look. |
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ajuma

Joined: 18 Feb 2003 Location: Anywere but Seoul!!
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 8:15 am Post subject: |
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Hanson wrote: |
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But let's not call EFL teaching in Korea "fulfilling" as a career choice. |
Gotta disagree strongly here. Not everyone works at a $hitty hagwon in Korea. There are fulfilling jobs, you just have to know where to look. |
I totally agree with Hanson!! My job IS fulfilling...AND "professional"...and FUN! I can't think of a job that I could get back in the "home country" that would be as much fun, and give me as much satisfaction (and, BTW PAY as well!) as my job here in Korea. Knowing that I've made English interesting and understandable for my students gives me a "high" that I only got from one other job...and THAT one paid little more than minimum wage!
If hagwons would only give their teachers SOME training, and if the teachers who come here were as committed to their jobs as they would be in their "home country", I think that there would be FAR fewer $hitty hagwons...and far fewer complaints...but that's for another thread! |
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Gopher

Joined: 04 Jun 2005
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 9:02 am Post subject: |
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I will amend what I said so that maybe there are some non-hogwon jobs that might be fulfilling in Korea. (But have you taught EFL in other countries? Do you really have a good basis for comparison?)
On the other hand, I would classify myself as a highly educated and trained EFL professional, and, from what I've seen, given what the Koreans have set up for themselves, people like me are not needed here, we are underemployed (not financially, but professionally).
I have about, say, roughly 40-60 "students" altogether at my hogwon. (They're just children and less than five adults). And none of them can tell you how they are, except to say "I'm fine, thanks," or "I'm happy" or "I'm angry." They will answer "yes" or "no" to most questions, and will rarely understand what they are answering: "What do you wear in the rain?" "Yes."
So they have very, very little English abilty. I've spent over six months now, forced to comply with the franchise books (90% of my time), but squeezing a little bit of real vocabularly teaching here and there (10% of my time), to teach them to tell me their names and how to spell them.
You could replace me with a monkey, a guy in a Ronald McDonald clown suit, or better yet, a video cassette with singing chants, and no one would know the difference.
And this has nothing to do with my quality as a foreign language instructor. It has everything to do with being forced to comply to a cookie-cutter, hierarchical system, driven, ultimately, by ignorance and corruption -- these things being outside of my ability to influence.
Why do I consider this significant? I do not believe my situation is in any way unique. |
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buddy bradley

Joined: 24 Aug 2003 Location: The Beyond
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 9:10 am Post subject: |
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Is selling smack a real job? I mean, I know it's tax-free and all, but what do you guys think? I need your opinion in order to form my own opinion.
Thanks! |
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Homer Guest
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 5:26 pm Post subject: |
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Gotta disagree strongly here. Not everyone works at a $hitty hagwon in Korea. There are fulfilling jobs, you just have to know where to look. |
Bingo.
Also, there are some excellent hakwon jobs out there. You just ahve to look for them and be qualified for them.
Finally, you are only under employed if you let it happen. You can and should find a job here that takes full advantage of your self-professed qualifications. These jobs exists and are open to those people with qualifications and a sense of dedication. |
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