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18 yr old High school student commits suicide after uni exam
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KoreanLifer



Joined: 30 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2003 11:06 pm    Post subject: 18 yr old High school student commits suicide after uni exam Reply with quote

just saw on KBS news about a high school student who jumped through the window of her Apt. building and killed herself.from what i can gather she only completed the 1st part of the exam and then got up and left the exam room.

nobody knows how many more will do the same in the days to follow! Crying or Very sad
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lush72



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2003 11:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I hope not many..


I remember this time last year- same thing happened to a boy and 2 girls. Terrible.
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shawner88



Joined: 01 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2003 11:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

lush72 wrote:
I hope not many..


I remember this time last year- same thing happened to a boy and 2 girls. Terrible.


I predicted this to happen when talking to my adult students last night. One of the guys really pressures his son. He studies until 2AM every night for these exams.
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helly



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2003 11:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I despise that test and the whole culture that has been built up around it (that is not Korean culture, that is test culture)

I honestly and sincerely hope that no more will follow suit.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2003 12:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What amazes me here is the national obssession with getting your kid into an Ivy league school in the US. The wealthier the parent, the deeper the psychosis.
It's sad when the whole point of your kid's life is "to go to Harvard." The industry that's sprung up around name-brand schools with the promise of getting a kid into them is phenomenal bucks here. Huge selling point that everyone uses on parents.
Whatever happened to educating a kid to be a well-rounded, balanced individual who's happy?
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katydid



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2003 1:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The sad thing is this happens every single year. I can well imagine it happens in America and other countries as well, but kids here from day one it seems are put into this pressure cooker environment. I wish the kids could see it doesn't matter what school you get into.
Of course some schools are at fault as well....they ONLY look at a person's test scores, ignoring GPA, and whether they worked or held any club activities. Too too sad.
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Mr. Pink



Joined: 21 Oct 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2003 1:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

IMO the sad part is the pressure put on what I consider "kids"

I teach at a highschool and participated in the "soo nung" cheering you see on TV. The pressure on these kids is immense. I can't think of much in my life that had that kind of pressure...marriage comes close, but I was ready for that after popping the question.

Not all parents drive their kids to "ivy league" type institutions, but the "system" in Korea drives students to compete on some unreal levels.

/me says a prayer for all the kiddies!
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buddy bradley



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2003 1:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

How can it be sad if you don't know the person?
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katydid



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2003 1:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Most humans are equipped with sympathy for the student's family, which allows us to feel sorry for those less fortunate than ourselves, troll.
Some of us may even feel a sense of empathy for strung-out high school students in general, as they knew someone in high school who took his or her life because of a college rejection letter/bad SAT score.
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Sejong



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2003 2:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

helly wrote:
I despise that test and the whole culture that has been built up around it (that is not Korean culture, that is test culture)

I honestly and sincerely hope that no more will follow suit.


Word, word, word.

I believe this test to be one the biggest problems this country faces. The entire lives of these kids have been mapped out from age 8, and today will determine their fates for the rest of their damn lives. Horrible.
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Zyzyfer



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2003 2:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

buddy bradley wrote:
How can it be sad if you don't know the person?


Because I know 850 other people who are in the same exact boat. That's how.

katydid: It does matter what school the kids get into here. The middle school matters, because it affects the high school, which affects the uni, which affects the job. It's a huge chain of events that steals the life out of these kids from the 7th grade.
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buddy bradley



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2003 2:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

So if I know an Arab, I should feel sad everytime I hear that another Palestinian has been killed? Nice logic.
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rapier



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2003 2:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

18. what an age to be...ahh, the memories! such a tumultuous time, so many questions, raw emotions and life. I'm glad that i survived it. I reckon its one of the most vulnerable times in a persons life. Just think of a chick fledging from its nest finally, and having to make its first leap off the cliff and fly for the first time...thats 18. Helluva time...

B.Bradley, your trolling is just too blatant, don't make me laugh....!
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Zyzyfer



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2003 2:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

buddy bradley wrote:
So if I know an Arab, I should feel sad everytime I hear that another Palestinian has been killed? Nice logic.


It might get you punched in the head a little less often...
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Bulsajo



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2003 2:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zyzyfer wrote:

It might get you punched in the head a little less often...

I doubt it- we're discussing empathy here, not common-sense. BB lacks both.
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