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princess



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 2:43 am    Post subject: Why is My Boyfriend Doing This Reply with quote

I just don't understand men I guess. I just had a great time with my boyfriend Saturday. We went to Children's Grand Park and then Sizzler in Cheongdam for dinner. Then we went walking around the Han River at River City. I just saw on his cyworld page today that he took a picture of Miss Venezuela from our mutual friend's cyworld page and underneath it he said"Me too, I don't have a girlfriend". What???? This was 3 days before our great date Saturday. I spent a weekend with him in Nagoya Japan in June too and we're talking about the future and traveling together and marriage. I even met his parents and older sister in May. Why is he saying he does not have a girlfriend on his cypage? Do guys always like to be thought of as single until they are actually married. Why would he say this underneath Miss Venezuela's picture?
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 3:13 am    Post subject: Re: Why is My Boyfriend Doing This Reply with quote

princess wrote:
I just don't understand men I guess. I just had a great time with my boyfriend Saturday. We went to Children's Grand Park and then Sizzler in Cheongdam for dinner. Then we went walking around the Han River at River City. I just saw on his cyworld page today that he took a picture of Miss Venezuela from our mutual friend's cyworld page and underneath it he said"Me too, I don't have a girlfriend". What???? This was 3 days before our great date Saturday. I spent a weekend with him in Nagoya Japan in June too and we're talking about the future and traveling together and marriage. I even met his parents and older sister in May. Why is he saying he does not have a girlfriend on his cypage? Do guys always like to be thought of as single until they are actually married. Why would he say this underneath Miss Venezuela's picture?


It might have just been sarcastic, like yeah I don't have a girlfriend either if she's interested in me. You want the truth, so here it is: you probably aren't as hot as Miss V, and your guy is saying he'd leave you for her in a heartbeat. Maybe it's for real, maybe he's just playing the machismo game that men endear so much. Who knows. Ask him.

Whether or not most guys are like this is something impossible to generalize.

Cheers,
Q~
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princess



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 3:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, then hey I guess I can play the same game on my cypage with a picture of some hot Korean male star...hmmmm
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princess



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 3:44 am    Post subject: Re: Why is My Boyfriend Doing This Reply with quote

Qinella wrote:
princess wrote:
I just don't understand men I guess. I just had a great time with my boyfriend Saturday. We went to Children's Grand Park and then Sizzler in Cheongdam for dinner. Then we went walking around the Han River at River City. I just saw on his cyworld page today that he took a picture of Miss Venezuela from our mutual friend's cyworld page and underneath it he said"Me too, I don't have a girlfriend". What???? This was 3 days before our great date Saturday. I spent a weekend with him in Nagoya Japan in June too and we're talking about the future and traveling together and marriage. I even met his parents and older sister in May. Why is he saying he does not have a girlfriend on his cypage? Do guys always like to be thought of as single until they are actually married. Why would he say this underneath Miss Venezuela's picture?


It might have just been sarcastic, like yeah I don't have a girlfriend either if she's interested in me. You want the truth, so here it is: you probably aren't as hot as Miss V, and your guy is saying he'd leave you for her in a heartbeat. Maybe it's for real, maybe he's just playing the machismo game that men endear so much. Who knows. Ask him.

Whether or not most guys are like this is something impossible to generalize.

Cheers,
Q~
Well, if he feels that way he can have her and forget about me. I am not calling him the rest of this week. If every man would dump us regular girls for a famous girl you can all $%^&***(
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brachy



Joined: 01 Jul 2005

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 5:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ya it sounds like it was probably a joke. Don't make too much of a big deal. On another site my boyfriend has an anti-canadian flag avatar, and a signature of Canada Sux.... and im Canadian! Embarassed When i first saw it i thought to myself "why is he mad at me?" Sometimes 'we' ladies always like to think the worst.
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itaewonguy



Joined: 25 Mar 2003

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 7:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

no you are right.. becuase men like to think they are single until married
see what else comes along maybe something better or different.
cyworld is a big pick up site! so to be in the game you need to be single!
its just to remain in the game I think. its cool to be single on cyworld more hits that way..
its just for show..
or maybe he really doesnt think of you as his girlfriend. just friend!
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komtengi



Joined: 30 Sep 2003
Location: Slummin it up in Haebangchon

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 8:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

if there are no pics of you on their... particulary taken together, or they are all ���� or �����...hes out for some action... otherwise I'd say ur safe
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Bulsajo



Joined: 16 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 12:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

To those who may not know who the OP is- don't get sucked in.
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The Man known as The Man



Joined: 29 Mar 2003
Location: 3 cheers for Ted Haggard oh yeah!

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 1:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Princess, when you hurt, I hurt.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 4:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Clearly he's pretending to be single online to "trade up". You're "Miss Right Now". If the super model he's been waiting for, and knows he deserves, comes along, you'll be shown the door ASAP.
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matthews_world



Joined: 15 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 7:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Face it, Cyworld is a place to meet the opposite sex. If he was truly in love with you, he'd delete his Cyworld! Very Happy
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peony



Joined: 30 Mar 2005

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 7:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

im thinking it was most likely a joke

why dont you ask him whats up?
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komtengi



Joined: 30 Sep 2003
Location: Slummin it up in Haebangchon

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 8:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

plus the fact that he took you to sizzler?? please, thats not a date... thats a nightmare
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kermo



Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 9:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Heed the warning of Bulsajo. Look up "Princess's" previous posts. Don't waste your time.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2005 9:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

kermo wrote:
Heed the warning of Bulsajo. Look up "Princess's" previous posts. Don't waste your time.


Who is the real face behind this troll? Wasn't "she" the one who claimed her Korean BF killed her dog?
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