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kermo

Joined: 01 Sep 2004 Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 2:32 am Post subject: A royal screw-job, before the contract is even signed |
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A university job? Well, that sounds great!
Okay, so it's teaching children and adults too? Well, that's okay.
A university-run hagwon franchise? Interesting. So the school doesn't exactly exist yet. I see. Well, I have some experience with planning and programming...
2.5 million? (That's quite generous. Plus, it's a stepping stone to teaching undergrads, so this might be okay.)
Would I like to come in and help with a class tomorrow? Just hanging out with the kids and another teacher? Sounds lovely, but I can't. I've got to teach, and my supervisor is out of town.
Ask the admin for permission? Well, I guess my co-teacher can contact them and explain the situation. Okay, I'll see you tomorrow from 10-12.
Yes, I'm here early. Sure, I'll meet the director. (Hmm. That conversation on your cell phone sure sounded like you were talking to the other teacher, and that he was going to be delayed until 11:30. I don't have anything planned...)
So, is the teacher going to be here at 10:00? Ah, so I don't have to worry. Thanks.
(Wow. Lots of kids. They sure have a lot of energy. I guess I can manage until the other teacher gets here.)
Oh, hello again. The other teacher will be here at 11:30? And I'm here without a plan or any materials other than some desks and a whiteboard? (Awesome.)
These kids understand the games, but they are refusing to play by the rules. That sure is annoying. They are a sassy bunch.
OH MY WORD I CAN'T BELIEVE ONLY 30 MINUTES HAS GONE BY.
I've got to lay the smack down and teach these kids some manners.
Okay, they're sort of under control. Oh, here's the other teacher at last! Hurray! He'll sort things out.
(I can't believe how useless he is. They're hitting him, and he is asking them "Are you crazy?" and that seems to be all he knows how to do.
Phew. It's 12, and I can get out of here. What the...? This class goes until 12:20? Holy. Crap.)
I just got used for 2.5 hours as an unpaid babysitter, and my potential employer lied to my face about being alone. The other teacher didn't show because he was double-booked, and the guy didn't have the decency to tell me before I was actually in the classroom.
I know I shouldn't be surprised, but why would he do this to me before I have signed anything? Because he's a manipulative, exploitative jerk, I know. I've heard horror stories about him from some people, while other people say he's the bee's knees.
The problem is that I'm running out of time. I have a couple good prospects with universities but nothing that starts before March
But I leave for Canada in 2 days, and I'm returning at the end of the month to claim my severance pay. I've checked out a few hagwans, but I haven't found the right fit. I don't want to apply from Canada, since I feel I should check out a school in person, meet management, see curriculum, etc.
This guy is still keen to have me (even though I confronted him about the lie and told him it was unacceptable) and I need work for the next six months. I know this is probably a recipe for disaster, but maybe I can get him to offer me a more secure position for classes already established, or even work with the undergrads. Yargh. |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 3:45 am Post subject: |
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| I would have served notice 11 months ago. |
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kermo

Joined: 01 Sep 2004 Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 4:32 am Post subject: |
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| Yu_Bum_suk wrote: |
| I would have served notice 11 months ago. |
Are you using poetic license or just not understanding? I haven't signed anything with this guy, but his first act after the interview was to throw me to the lions while trying to save his butt (didn't have enough staff for the class.) I just met him this week. |
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Gollum
Joined: 04 Sep 2003 Location: Japan
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 5:33 am Post subject: |
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| Run far and fast. |
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babtangee
Joined: 18 Dec 2004 Location: OMG! Charlie has me surrounded!
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 6:30 am Post subject: |
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| Tell him you'll absolutely, 100% take the job... and change your phone number. |
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Bulsajo

Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 7:33 am Post subject: |
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You got snowed like that and are still considering a position with the guy?
Best of luck to you. |
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Hanson

Joined: 20 Oct 2004
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 7:48 am Post subject: |
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| This guy is still keen to have me (even though I confronted him about the lie and told him it was unacceptable) and I need work for the next six months. I know this is probably a recipe for disaster, but maybe I can get him to offer me a more secure position for classes already established, or even work with the undergrads. Yargh. |
Only you know what the answer is, but I suspect you have 3 choices:
1- Take a chance with this job and use it as a stepping stone to a better job university-wise. Perhaps this could be good for your resume later on down the road.
2- (similar to #1) Tell this guy you'll take the job if and only if he lets you out of the contact in 6 months. Get him to put something in writing so you have recourse later (+ I'd push for half a year's severance as well.)
3- Don't take the job and hope for something better.
When I started teaching at the uni level, I got a gig that I knew was crappy, but it was a foot in the door. My subsequent employers had no idea how bush-league it was; all they knew was that I had previous experience at the university level. Fast forward four years, and 2 uni gigs later, I'm one of the only teachers at my uni with a lowly BA - earning over 3 mil a month and getting 5 months vacation a year.
In a word: Think long term... |
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kermo

Joined: 01 Sep 2004 Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 2:18 pm Post subject: |
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I'm using the incident as leverage, frankly.
I phoned him, confronted him about his manipulation, and told him I wasn't comfortable working under the circumstances he proposed. He invited me to write him a letter and tell him the sort of things I would need in order to work there.
I have turned down his initial offer-- to set up an extension of the university's hagwon. Too loosy goosy, too much working directly for this guy.
I have told him I would consider working in an existing program, including undergraduate teaching. I made a list of housing, vacation, pay expectations, and meanwhile I'm still looking for another job.
I'm hoping I won't have to take a job with this guy, but if I do, it will be under some very well-defined, well-documented conditions. *crosses fingers*
A gallant Dave's poster actually pmed me about this, and offered me a job at his hagwon! Interview today! *crosses toes* |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 2:24 pm Post subject: |
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| kermo wrote: |
| Yu_Bum_suk wrote: |
| I would have served notice 11 months ago. |
Are you using poetic license or just not understanding? I haven't signed anything with this guy, but his first act after the interview was to throw me to the lions while trying to save his butt (didn't have enough staff for the class.) I just met him this week. |
Sorry - wasn't clear whether this was a description of the job you were taking or leaving.
Yes, get out of there if you can. |
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paperbag princess

Joined: 07 Mar 2004 Location: veggie hell
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Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2005 7:48 am Post subject: |
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| not to be rude, but why would you even consider this job? |
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khyber
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Compunction Junction
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 10:05 am Post subject: |
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string him along....
and i mean a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONNG.
I am lucky i've been a good school. But it chokes me to see really underhanded a holes.
One thing to note: Just because the students were acting totally retarded with the other teacher, doesn't mean they will act the same for you. The teacher will control 90% of the atmosphere in that room and that is a fact.
If the teacher takes punches and says "are you crazy?" no shit it sounds like a gong show. But if you take the job seriously and have expectations (even high ones if you're daring) the kids won't be TOO horribly aweful.
Oh, and you have to have the tools for control. |
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kermo

Joined: 01 Sep 2004 Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 3:28 pm Post subject: |
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string him along....
and i mean a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONNG.
I am lucky i've been a good school. But it chokes me to see really underhanded a holes.
One thing to note: Just because the students were acting totally retarded with the other teacher, doesn't mean they will act the same for you. The teacher will control 90% of the atmosphere in that room and that is a fact.
If the teacher takes punches and says "are you crazy?" no *beep* it sounds like a gong show. But if you take the job seriously and have expectations (even high ones if you're daring) the kids won't be TOO horribly aweful.
Oh, and you have to have the tools for control. |
I do have the tools for control, thank goodness. When I walked in, I found the kids somewhat defiant. I ignored the defiant ones, rewarded the cooperative ones, and started to win them over. I refused to take them to the computer lab (their favorite activity) until I had compliance. It got more difficult when the other teacher came in, but I laid the smacketh down. Phew.
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| not to be rude, but why would you even consider this job? |
To answer your question, which I don't think is rude:
I know people who have dealt with this guy and come out fine. I entertained the possibility of "handling" him, hoping to use it as a stepping stone to the undergrad program at the same school, but I will probably just take a job at a hagwan that hasn't screwed me over yet, then apply at some other colleges/universities in a few months. |
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PolyChronic Time Girl

Joined: 15 Dec 2004 Location: Korea Exited
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 7:58 pm Post subject: |
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If the other teacher let these kids run wild,then you are really going to have your work cut out for you.....it's gonna take sooo many headaches and probably be virtually impossible to tow these kids inline because they are used to a free-for-all teacher. Do you think this job is worth it because there are prob so many other better jobs out there,' one where you won't be watching the clock constantly like you noted.
I'd run |
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mack the knife

Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: standing right behind you...
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Posted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 7:08 am Post subject: |
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| I'm using the incident as leverage, frankly. |
Jesus H... I'm away from the board for a few weeks and THIS is what happens?
Leverage? With a Korean?? A Korean in a position of power (over you)??? In Korea????
Put down that pipe you've been smokin' and move on (quickly) to the next offer.
Period. |
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jajdude
Joined: 18 Jan 2003
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Posted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 9:40 am Post subject: |
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| Somehow I suspect kermo can come out smelling like a rose. I hope! |
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