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Would this be considered sexist?
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blunder1983



Joined: 12 Apr 2005

PostPosted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 3:03 am    Post subject: Would this be considered sexist? Reply with quote

I mentioned in earlier threads the idea of theme lessons.

For my girls I've been having difficulty in coming up with interesting things, and thought a beauty pagent rpg might work well. The emphasis on these are to get creative thought flowing and discussions in English.

My initial idea would be assigning attributes, beauty, smarts etc. Then having rounds, where their characters would compete. So an interview round would result in high smarts getting the most points.

Finally they all judge the best character themselves and the lesson is brought to a close.

Its all very rough as I'm not sure how well it would be recieved (it would be done in a free class at a middle school).

Comments appreciated.
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kermo



Joined: 01 Sep 2004
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 3:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is very very very tender ground you're treading on. I remember how sensitive I was about my looks when I was younger, and I can only imagine how much pressure is on Korean girls.

The idea isn't bad, but how about getting the kids to DRAW characters, so they don't feel like they are being judged on their own exteriors. I know you would assign beauty characteristics, but I can just hear the giggles when the homely girl draws a high number on that one. Ouch.
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blunder1983



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 3:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh sorry I didnt explain properly.

The girls create a girl in the pagent, choose their country and then draw their pic. They are definately not being judged themselves! I'm still thinking it might cause offence, u did something like this at home and the politically correct people would be on ur ass big style.
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peppermint



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 3:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Definitely don't let them judge eachother, because girls that age are cruel. Either have them draw or use a few famous people or characters from dramas. You might get an interesting discussion going on the lead in My name is Kim Samsoon for example. There was a big write up on the show in the k-scene/ Seoul classifeds recently.
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peppermint



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 3:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Having seen the clarification- different nationalities. it could work, especially if you get some pics of beautiful women from those countries, but I suspect you'd run into a lot of nationalism and racial prejudice. ( I hope I'm wrong about that though, I really do)
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 3:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think it could work quite well - but expect a lot of racism when it comes to dark-skinned girls.

I was doing descriptions the other week using pics from fashion mags. I was getting them to describe whether X was tall/short, thin/fat, pretty/ugly, etc. And without fail, every black person came out ugly. In a few cases I was thinking, 'wtf, she's really hot!', but that's not how Koreans see them.

I'd suggest having them draw anomie characters and having an anomie beauty contest.
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margaret



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 9:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, I would consider a beauty contest sexist, even with drawn characters. How about drawing characters and having them compete for many catagories--the prettiest, the ugliest, the scariest, the cutest, the funniest, etc. You could still have the interviews and it wouldn't reinforce the cultural idea that beauty is the most important thing for girls.
Margaret
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magicwolfman



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 9:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is totally wrong and sexist. It would only further put pressure on poor Korean children to try to live up to a standard that in itself sets them up for problems and possibly psychological issues later in life.
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blunder1983



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 12, 2005 3:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks for the responses. I wasn't very happy with the idea, and have decided to leave it. Instead we're gonna create an Anime soap opera which ,in all honesty, I think they'd enjoy more anyway.
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Mon Sep 12, 2005 3:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

magicwolfman wrote:
This is totally wrong and sexist. It would only further put pressure on poor Korean children to try to live up to a standard that in itself sets them up for problems and possibly psychological issues later in life.


Oh don't be such a PC prude. Now I feel like doing a beauty contest with my middle school girls just to spite you.

Actually, I like the idea of an anime (is that how you spell it?) soap opera better.
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magicwolfman



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 12, 2005 5:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:
magicwolfman wrote:
This is totally wrong and sexist. It would only further put pressure on poor Korean children to try to live up to a standard that in itself sets them up for problems and possibly psychological issues later in life.


Oh don't be such a PC prude. Now I feel like doing a beauty contest with my middle school girls just to spite you.

Actually, I like the idea of an anime (is that how you spell it?) soap opera better.


How is not liking the idea of doing a "beauty contest" in a school setting make me a prude. It is enforcing ideals that I do not agree with and harming the fragile self image of poor students. You should truly be ashamed of yourself and re-think your position as an educator
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Yu_Bum_suk



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 12, 2005 6:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

magicwolfman wrote:
Yu_Bum_suk wrote:
magicwolfman wrote:
This is totally wrong and sexist. It would only further put pressure on poor Korean children to try to live up to a standard that in itself sets them up for problems and possibly psychological issues later in life.


Oh don't be such a PC prude. Now I feel like doing a beauty contest with my middle school girls just to spite you.

Actually, I like the idea of an anime (is that how you spell it?) soap opera better.


How is not liking the idea of doing a "beauty contest" in a school setting make me a prude. It is enforcing ideals that I do not agree with and harming the fragile self image of poor students. You should truly be ashamed of yourself and re-think your position as an educator


Did you not get Blunder's explanation that the idea is for the kdis to *draw* characters and then rate them based on more than just physical attributes? Yes, pissing on such an idea would be prudish. He wasn't talking about parading the girls around and then selecting the most beautiful (or least dorky, as the case may be). It sounds like something they'd find lots of fun, and if done well it could really motivate them to try to express themselves in English, especially if the idea is that one with the 'most beautiful' character is likely to be the one who expresses herself the best in English.
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magicwolfman



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 12, 2005 6:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ahh, so since it is a "fake" beauty show, than it is ok. The meaning is still there and is not a level playing field. I guess, you are one of those people who dont care about the psychological welfare of your students, by all means carry on, why dont you carry a big stick too and fall students fat and ugly.
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blunder1983



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 12, 2005 7:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well Magic, for starters I was asking on here for precisely the reasons ur mentioning. Factor into that we'd not base it solely on looks neway and have loads of things for them to compare with I dont see the validity in your main arguement.

I agree that propigating (yeah yeah sp i know) the sterotype of beauty is not gonna be a great thing but it might be an interesting thing for them to discuss anyway, with them questioning what makes a person beautiful looks or something else.

This is much like your contribution to Demonicats request for RPG players, you decided it'd soon develop into a satanistic blashempy of a thread. I think someone needs to unclench a little.

Oh and I find your insinuations that myself and Yu Bum are bad teachers quite offensive. Attempting to inject interest into lessons in whatever form should be encouraged, the students get enough dry meaningless twaddle in their everyday lives as it is.
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Scott in HK



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: now in Incheon..haven't changed my name yet

PostPosted: Mon Sep 12, 2005 7:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Before you give up entirely on the idea...I think a small change could make it workable. In Penny Ur's "Discussions that Work" there is an exercise about a scholarship.

You could create a scholarship...tell the students what kind of students would win it....then have the students compete against each other before a panel of judges...they could do a writing task...a speaking task...or maybe a poster about themselves..

Different scholarships would require different characters...a sports scholorship...an arts one...and so one...

Blunder....on a different note...I forgot to contact you about the VCD's and will soon....and I have that ESL Book that someone talked about on a different thread....which you can borrow and read...or borrow and copy...will pm you with details
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