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Jamin
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Location: Daejon
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Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2005 5:25 pm Post subject: What have you come to appreciate about Korean culture? |
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In your time in Korea, what aspects of the culture, life style, philosophy have you come to appreciate?
Please, the intent of this question is start a discussion regarding the positive aspects of the country and not to bring up those things we dislike.
For example, I appreciate the the traditional way Koreans respect the members of thier family who had passed away. There is something gratifying about going to the grave and with your own hands and labour clearing away the grass and trees. I also find the custom of bowing at the grave a pleasant way to both pay respects and rekindle memories of the deceased. I think we in the West too quickly forget the dead. We put put them in giant corpse warehouses (graveyards) which we rarely visit and give little thought to after the services.
It is sad that with the rise of Christianity that the Confucist customs are no longer as common as they once were. |
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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: Retired
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Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2005 9:24 pm Post subject: Re: What have you come to appreciate about Korean culture? |
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| Jamin wrote: |
| It is sad that with the rise of Christianity that the Confucist customs are no longer as common as they once were. |
I see nothing sad with tossing out customs such as that women are inferior to men. That too is a Confucist custom and a fairly major one.
But then again, that's just me. |
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ChimpumCallao

Joined: 17 May 2005 Location: your mom
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Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2005 10:07 pm Post subject: Re: What have you come to appreciate about Korean culture? |
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| TheUrbanMyth wrote: |
| Jamin wrote: |
| It is sad that with the rise of Christianity that the Confucist customs are no longer as common as they once were. |
I see nothing sad with tossing out customs such as that women are inferior to men. That too is a Confucist custom and a fairly major one.
But then again, that's just me. |
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confucianism is also father of the great idea that if someone is not a friend or family they literally do not exist. hence why girlies get slapped around and people walk right by...theyre not getting slapped around if they dont exist...
but i know i know...its a positive thread/
the best thing about korea is that they all speak korean. seriously, i like that i dont have to understand people's stupid jarble in the subway, checkout lines, etc. i also like that most of them do not chat up strangers so i don't usually have to interact with them.
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mindmetoo
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 6:47 am Post subject: |
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| I like parents aren't paranoid their kids are going to be kidnapped. |
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captain kirk
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 7:37 am Post subject: |
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The ceramics. Korea's not alone in that. Still they've got some good old ceramics. And the ancient history with its forts, castles and so on and so forth which can be seen today.
There's lots I don't like about Korean culture but what I do like is the non-confrontational/don't sweat the small stuff. Never see anyone getting into a flap during daylight hours and when alcohol's not involved. Sure there are pointed discussions, deceptions, and whatever replaces the Western confrontation thing we've got. But it's nice to see people controlling their negative feelings. Locking them up. Yes that means controlling the positive feelings, too. But whatever. |
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 9:31 am Post subject: |
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| I like their noses and the funny sounds they make when they are angry. Don't pour water on Koreans, and whatever you do, don't feed them after midnight. |
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On the other hand
Joined: 19 Apr 2003 Location: I walk along the avenue
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 9:39 am Post subject: |
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I like parents aren't paranoid their kids are going to be kidnapped.
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Speaking strictly for myself, I like the fact that I've never once felt unsafe or threatened while walking down a street in Korea, even in the middle of the night with drunks galore on the prowl.
Again, this is just my personal experience. |
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On the other hand
Joined: 19 Apr 2003 Location: I walk along the avenue
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 9:43 am Post subject: |
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| I think we in the West too quickly forget the dead. |
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And another of the disciples said to him,
"Lord, permit me first to go away and bury my father."
But Jesus says to him, "Follow me,
and let the dead bury the dead themselves."
Matthew 8:18-22
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Emu Bitter
Joined: 27 May 2004 Location: Bundang
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 11:19 am Post subject: |
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| Nothing, it's preoccupied with class. The women are spoilt princesses & the men are appallingly effete. |
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Alan_Partridge
Joined: 24 Aug 2005 Location: in the posh part of town
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 12:01 pm Post subject: |
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Nice to see some positive threads...Personally like a bit of everything above; enjoy walking the streets without looking over my shoulder, love the occasional random friendliness (occasional though it might be!!)
And I'm a big fan of not understanding what's going on around me (in fact, I was just talking about this with a few friends) it basically means you have to seek out info so you're not bombarded with crap (who's hot, who's not etc)...and stuff....(must stop posting when not sober, but you get the idea)
HAPPY CHUSEOK |
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Emu Bitter
Joined: 27 May 2004 Location: Bundang
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 12:09 pm Post subject: |
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| Mate, you sound like an over-idealistic newbie faggott. |
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Alan_Partridge
Joined: 24 Aug 2005 Location: in the posh part of town
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 12:13 pm Post subject: |
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| really...how long do you have to be here before you shed your "newbie" status? |
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Emu Bitter
Joined: 27 May 2004 Location: Bundang
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 12:22 pm Post subject: |
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Your mellow answer has melllowed me out.
It depends on where you are.
It's a prettty decent country, but never, ever trust your employer.
I'm a six year vet, don't particuarly care for the place, but have done well, mainly cos I found early that you need to push Western culture on them when it comes to contracts.
A signed contract is not a starting point as they'd like you to believe & some effete apologists would also like you to believe. |
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Alan_Partridge
Joined: 24 Aug 2005 Location: in the posh part of town
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 12:29 pm Post subject: |
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don't get me wrong, i've been here a few years myself and don't consider myself a "newbie"...it's just that i've been wallowing in a bit of personal negativity myself recently, and it's nice to see a bit of positive thinking on this board every now and again (if only because i find myself agreeing with negative comments more and more these days )
still and all, enjoy your little holiday all!! |
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Alan_Partridge
Joined: 24 Aug 2005 Location: in the posh part of town
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Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 12:33 pm Post subject: |
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oh, and about not trusting your employer....lesson learned the hard way...
(chuseok gifts for everyone but western teachers at my school today...i work at a happy place...) |
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