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spark05



Joined: 08 Sep 2005
Location: Jung Dong

PostPosted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 6:57 pm    Post subject: How do you meet fellow foreigners? Reply with quote

Do you walk up and greet people walking down the street or what? My husband and I are both gyopos and when we walk down the street with our 3 year old we probably look just like any other Korean family. So I don't think anyone would ever approach us, unless they hear us speaking English maybe. Confused

How have you all met other English speakers?
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SuperHero



Joined: 10 Dec 2003
Location: Superhero Hideout

PostPosted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 7:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

At work and church
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Demonicat



Joined: 18 Nov 2004
Location: Suwon

PostPosted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 7:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

by posting random things on this board then following through-> see make a movie, Dungeons and dragons, vampire, dave's matchmaking...
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jlb



Joined: 18 Sep 2003

PostPosted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 8:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I met quite a few at Church and through the Church, got involved with a local group of teachers who taught at a university in my neighborhood.

I think if I came back, I'd join something like adventurekorea or whatever it is and do some foreigner trips.
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joe_doufu



Joined: 09 May 2005
Location: Elsewhere

PostPosted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 8:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

See the sticky thread about the monthly Book Exchange. That's a good way. I also meet people (mostly japanese, actually) by taking a Korean language class in Gangnam. Also, I randomly talk to people on the street. This is normal for foreigners in smaller cities around asia - talking to other foreigners out of the blue - but in the capital cities like Seoul and Taipei it's frowned upon. So about half of the people I talk to shy away like "who is this weirdo talking to me?" and about half respond positively.
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Corporal



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 8:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I try not to. It's weird to seek out your own kind purely on that basis.
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the_beaver



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 11:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Corporal wrote:
I try not to. It's weird to seek out your own kind purely on that basis.


Yep.
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krats1976



Joined: 14 May 2003

PostPosted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 11:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Work and church for me too. I went to an English service when I was in Seoul my first year in Korea.

Now I go to Korean services, but I work with a large group of foreigners and I have a few Korean friends as well, so it's all good.
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 2:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Almost never in the street - feels weird to me.

Mostly current co-workers, past co-workers, introductions from friends, and just plain going out and bar-hopping.
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 3:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm with Beaver and Corporal on this one. There's a quote that goes "Half of the foreigners who come here are crazy, and the other half go crazy after a while here" While an exaggeration, it is not too far from the truth. See freaky waygooks thread for an example of what I mean.
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joe_doufu



Joined: 09 May 2005
Location: Elsewhere

PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 5:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheUrbanMyth wrote:
I'm with Beaver and Corporal on this one. There's a quote that goes "Half of the foreigners who come here are crazy, and the other half go crazy after a while here" While an exaggeration, it is not too far from the truth. See freaky waygooks thread for an example of what I mean.


I disagree. I think the weird foreigners are the "cool" ones who think that when the dolphins ascend and the Vogons arrive, we should all just keep acting like nothing unusual is occurring. I say, when in Rome, act like a tourist! When in Korea, act like a confused and lonely foreigner lost in a sea of generally uncaring strangers. Those who try to pretend all is normal, and pretend they don't notice the one other white person on the subway car, are the foolish waeguks.
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Corporal



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 5:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

joe_doufu wrote:
TheUrbanMyth wrote:
I'm with Beaver and Corporal on this one. There's a quote that goes "Half of the foreigners who come here are crazy, and the other half go crazy after a while here" While an exaggeration, it is not too far from the truth. See freaky waygooks thread for an example of what I mean.


I disagree. I think the weird foreigners are the "cool" ones who think that when the dolphins ascend and the Vogons arrive, we should all just keep acting like nothing unusual is occurring. I say, when in Rome, act like a tourist! When in Korea, act like a confused and lonely foreigner lost in a sea of generally uncaring strangers. Those who try to pretend all is normal, and pretend they don't notice the one other white person on the subway car, are the foolish waeguks.


We don't pretend not to notice them; we merely don't make a beeline for the first whitey we see, relieved that at last we have found someone who speaks our native language. Rolling Eyes
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 5:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You might try asking the next foreigner you see where the local hang out is. Most will answer that much.

But be warned. Some foreigners here are so socially inept that they think that anyone who speaks to them in un-accented English are sexually deviant government spies who are out looking for a new torture victim. I am not exaggerating.
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Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 6:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ya-ta Boy wrote:
You might try asking the next foreigner you see where the local hang out is. Most will answer that much.

But be warned. Some foreigners here are so socially inept that they think that anyone who speaks to them in un-accented English are sexually deviant government spies who are out looking for a new torture victim. I am not exaggerating.


or they might think you are trying to pick them up. Wink
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the_beaver



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 6:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Corporal wrote:
joe_doufu wrote:
TheUrbanMyth wrote:
I'm with Beaver and Corporal on this one. There's a quote that goes "Half of the foreigners who come here are crazy, and the other half go crazy after a while here" While an exaggeration, it is not too far from the truth. See freaky waygooks thread for an example of what I mean.


I disagree. I think the weird foreigners are the "cool" ones who think that when the dolphins ascend and the Vogons arrive, we should all just keep acting like nothing unusual is occurring. I say, when in Rome, act like a tourist! When in Korea, act like a confused and lonely foreigner lost in a sea of generally uncaring strangers. Those who try to pretend all is normal, and pretend they don't notice the one other white person on the subway car, are the foolish waeguks.


We don't pretend not to notice them; we merely don't make a beeline for the first whitey we see, relieved that at last we have found someone who speaks our native language. Rolling Eyes


Yep. Back home I see whities all the time and I operate under the idea that I have nothing in particular in common with any of them. Beyond being white and in Korea I doubt I have a whole lot in common with the random whities I see on the street here, either.
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