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Real Reality
Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul
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 Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 7:32 am Post subject: Sex Matters to Women Who Say It Doesn't |
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Sex Matters to Women Who Say It Doesn't: Study
Korean men and women have distinctly different notions of sex in a marriage, a survey suggests. It found that a mere 4.4 percent of women thought sex was important in marriage, compared with 77 percent of men -- almost as many as the 74.8 percent of women who said it was unimportant. When asked if prostitutes are needed to satisfy men's sexual needs, 20.4 percent of women and 61 percent of men agreed.
Chosun Ilbo (October 26, 2005)
http://english.chosun.com/w21data/html/news/200510/200510260017.html |
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mindmetoo
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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| Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 4:28 pm Post subject: |
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| Clearly Korean men aren't doing it right, if only 4% of their women feel sex is unimportant in marriage. Corporal, thoughts? |
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Moldy Rutabaga
Joined: 01 Jul 2003
Location: Ansan, Korea
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| Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 7:31 pm Post subject: |
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ChimpumCallao
Joined: 17 May 2005
Location: your mom
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| Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 8:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Women here must give sex some value.. there's no shortage of little Koreans running around.. |
actually...that is precisely the case.
(i do agree that most of these chicks like, and like any other human, find sex important.)
Is anyone else befuckled be the acceptance of WH*RES in this country!!
I am not surprised, as I've actually taken a few interesting walks around the city...but that it is just so publicly talked about and such an integral part of their culture that does not cause shame is pretty incredible. I dont think I will ever understand the Korean version of romance or marriage. |
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Paji eh Wong
Joined: 03 Jun 2003
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| Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 9:12 pm Post subject: |
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| Any culture that places a lot of value on a woman being a virgin at marraige is going to have a thriving prosititution industry. |
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ChimpumCallao
Joined: 17 May 2005
Location: your mom
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| Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 9:17 pm Post subject: |
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| Paji eh Wong wrote: |
| Any culture that places a lot of value on a woman being a virgin at marraige is going to have a thriving prosititution industry. |
Yeah..but as far as I know, the northeast Asians are the geniuses that integrated wh*ring around into a viable part of Business culture.
I must admit...the whole "room salon" idea was a great one to excuse licking beer off a girl's ass as "stringent negotiations and relationship building with clients." |
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Wangja
Joined: 17 May 2004
Location: Seoul, Yongsan
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| Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 9:17 pm Post subject: |
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| Paji eh Wong wrote: |
| Any culture that places a lot of value on a woman being a virgin at marraige is going to have a thriving prosititution industry. |
As in Saudi Arabia maybe?  |
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Moldy Rutabaga
Joined: 01 Jul 2003
Location: Ansan, Korea
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| Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 9:27 pm Post subject: |
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| excuse licking beer off a girl's ass as "stringent negotiations |
Now you've done it.. now I can't concentrate on the issue being discussed anymore! 
Ken:> |
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JongnoGuru
Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep
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| Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 10:43 pm Post subject: |
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| Moldy Rutabaga wrote: |
| What was more shocking to me is how many people said prostitution was necessary to satisfy men. |
You not know Korea is so-called as the "man's country"? You not know Asia is so-called as "man's continent"? Why you don't know about this and are even shocking? I cannot hardly believe that at all, Moldy Rude Beggar.
Western peoples better to stop making the critical culture complaints. But rather you have to rapidly prepare a new mindsets for coming the Asia Century. Now it is the time you be acceptable about our ways. Don't you know the saying as "you cannot get the victory, so join-up is best"? That is what I want to say to the all of Western peoples. |
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seoulkitchen
Joined: 28 Dec 2004
Location: Hub of Asia, my ass!
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| Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 1:24 am Post subject: |
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| the whole "room salon" idea was a great one to excuse licking beer off a girl's ass as "stringent negotiations and relationship building with clients." |
This is why I've left my ESL job to become a business man.....
really. |
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tzechuk
Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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| Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 1:50 am Post subject: |
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| And that's why Korean, men especially, dislike doing business with women because we don't like going to room salons. |
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Red
Joined: 05 Jul 2004
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| Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 2:17 am Post subject: |
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Maybe it's just me, but I see someone going to a hooker as them basically admitting "Hey, I'm so loathsome that I have to pay to get my knob polished"
If I found myself in that position, I'd chop my dick off because I stopped having any worth as a man. Having every single Korean male I know trying to drag me off to see a wh*re with them every time we go somewhere together is definitely one of the aspects of Korea I don't enjoy. |
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rapier
Joined: 16 Feb 2003
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| Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 4:05 am Post subject: |
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| Red wrote: |
Maybe it's just me, but I see someone going to a hooker as them basically admitting "Hey, I'm so loathsome that I have to pay to get my knob polished"
If I found myself in that position, I'd chop my *beep* off because I stopped having any worth as a man. Having every single Korean male I know trying to drag me off to see a wh*re with them every time we go somewhere together is definitely one of the aspects of Korea I don't enjoy. |
I agree totally.
But what is degrading, exploitative, unrewarding, risky, and unsatisfying to one culture is perfectly acceptable, normal, and the cornersone of the economy to another.
Marriage is an economic arrangement for financial and social advancement.
sex is a commodity to be paid for from professionals.
Romance is what you get from affairs, after you've married.
Kids are to keep the male line going.
yep: pretty harsh ideas for westerners to get used to.
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JongnoGuru
Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep
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| Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 4:10 am Post subject: |
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| rapier wrote: |
I agree totally.
But what is degrading, exploitative, unrewarding, risky, and unsatisfying to one culture is perfectly acceptable, normal, and the cornersone of the economy to another. |
Accepted by many, tolerated by most, normal and pervasive it is. But the "cornerstone of the economy"? |
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Beej
Joined: 05 Mar 2005
Location: Eungam Loop
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| Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 4:52 am Post subject: |
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| JongnoGuru wrote: |
| rapier wrote: |
I agree totally.
But what is degrading, exploitative, unrewarding, risky, and unsatisfying to one culture is perfectly acceptable, normal, and the cornersone of the economy to another. |
Accepted by many, tolerated by most, normal and pervasive it is. But the "cornerstone of the economy"? |
Maybe not the cornerstone. But definitely a very large granite pillar. |
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