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Gideon

Joined: 24 Feb 2004 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 12:14 am Post subject: update |
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well, as i mentioned in one of my earlier posts, i would update my situation..
Hmm.. last thursday night we met in kangnam.. what i mess that night was, i didnt know there was a soccer game on and she failed to mention it.. so it took me about 2.5 hours to drive into seoul.
we met for dinner and has a pretty good conversation, i thought.. later that night i went to get my car, only to find out that it got towed.. so i had to get a taxi and pay the fine.. about 40,000.. not bad considering it would have been over 100 back in canada..
Anyway, during that evening we decided we would meet sunday and do some shopping, movie, dinner, the usual.. anyway, she said saturday would not be a good time to meet because she is having dinner with her family.. apparantely something she does once a month.. anyway.. so we decided that sunday would be a good day, as i mentioned above.
So come saturday night i called her around 930pm or so.. she answered after about 5 rings or so.. i figured she might be busy and was about to hang up , when she answered.. told me she was in a movie and i just told her to call me sunday morning so we could make a time to meet..
well , well.. she calls me that morning and said she was sick and couldnt make it.. i said i understand, get better, and we'll talk soon..
That was past sunday over 5 days ago and i havnt heard from her.. before we would chat on msn everyday, and talk just about every other day, course not to mention the text messages.. I have tried contacting her by, calling, text, email.. nothing.. like she disappeared and doesnt want to be found.. even tried using someone else's phone in the event that she doesnt want to speak to me.. but still nothing.. sometimes i call the phone and its off and other times it just rings.. i dunno
Either she is really sick and doesnt have the inner strength to push few buttons on her cell phone, telling me i am still sick.. or hey buddy i dont wanna see u...
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She is on the LOCKDOWN.. I think, she lied to me about having a boyfriend. I also think that its possible that they were together that night at the movies.. and he saw her speaking in english.. and asked her who it was and got really pissed.. Then told her she MUST NOT speak, msn, text me again.. and like a subservant korean women, she listened and followed him.. lol.. thats a possiblity...
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She is married and her husband almost found out.. hmmm.. thats possible.. in that case i dont ever wanna hear from her.. i'd rather not spend time in jail over a married women.
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She just didnt want to meet me again.. course thats not the feeling i got from her.. something is not right.. and even if she didnt want to see or talk to me again.. a simple "i am not interested message" would have done fine... hmm... mysterious..
btw.. my spelling must be terrible, i wrote this in lightning speed.. |
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wwidgirl
Joined: 20 Mar 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 1:01 am Post subject: |
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| she's just not that into you. |
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just because

Joined: 01 Aug 2003 Location: Changwon - 4964
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 2:40 am Post subject: |
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hate to break it to you but i think you already know...
If she went to a movie on saturday night (apparently) and then was too sick to see you on sunday i think she has found someone else(or maybe he was already there) and just had some fun and is leaving you out to dry...
I would move on |
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Mashimaro

Joined: 31 Jan 2003 Location: location, location
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 3:36 am Post subject: |
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double post
Last edited by Mashimaro on Fri Oct 21, 2005 3:40 am; edited 1 time in total |
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Mashimaro

Joined: 31 Jan 2003 Location: location, location
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 3:37 am Post subject: |
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| wwidgirl wrote: |
| she's just not that into you. |
Glad you saved me from saying it again (like I did on the last thread) |
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