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chaz47
Joined: 11 Sep 2003
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 Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 4:32 am Post subject: the girl at home has moved on... |
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| the girl i was seeing back in the US has moved on... i guess it was inevitable and i feel a little relieved... but now what... i would like to meet a k girl but wonder how to go about finding one that isn't a soju hound... advice? |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 4:40 am Post subject: Re: the girl at home has moved on... |
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| chaz47 wrote: |
| the girl i was seeing back in the US has moved on... i guess it was inevitable and i feel a little relieved... but now what... i would like to meet a k girl but wonder how to go about finding one that isn't a soju hound... advice? |
I don't get people who come here expecting their relationship back home to survive.
If you want to get with a Korean girl, my advice is to gain her trust and let her know you're not just going to leave in a year. If this doesn't describe you, then start hanging around girls who drink heavily.
Koreans go about dating differently here, in that they're far more likely to date friends and far less likely to use the "You're too good of a friend for me to date" excuse. |
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itaewonguy
Joined: 25 Mar 2003
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 4:48 am Post subject: |
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get the korean girl?? umm ok.. try these
1: have a green card and wave it in her face!
2: drive a nice car and spend alot of money on her..
3: show your account balance to her father and the greencard slipped in tha back!
4: be cool, good looking and funny..
5: did I mention the greencard? 
ohhhhhhhhhhh you mean how can you get just a normal ESL korean player? ohh simple.. TEACH ME ENGLISH!!
hahahahahaha |
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Junior
Joined: 18 Nov 2005
Location: the eye
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 5:17 am Post subject: |
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| itaewonguy wrote: |
get the korean girl?? umm ok.. try these
1: have a green card and wave it in her face!
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Not all Korean girls want to live in the U.S. i know some who've travelled abroad but want to stay in Korea because of their families.
All we want is a nice guy who will look after us:) |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 5:27 am Post subject: |
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| Junior wrote: |
| itaewonguy wrote: |
get the korean girl?? umm ok.. try these
1: have a green card and wave it in her face!
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Not all Korean girls want to live in the U.S. i know some who've travelled abroad but want to stay in Korea because of their families.
All we want is a nice guy who will look after us:) |
I've never met a single one who wants to move to Jesusland. |
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BigBlackEquus
Joined: 05 Jul 2005
Location: Lotte controls Asia with bad chocolate!
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 5:34 am Post subject: |
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Korean women often want to stay here with family. I gather that one just from reading about comments from guys married to Korean women who post on this board. Some of them try to get their wife to go back home with them, but are finding it hard.
As for dating Korean girls, remember that they are indeed very different animals. The Korean girls I know want a guy to call them daily. If you don't call them every day, they think you are either not that interested or dedicated, or could just be a player looking for action. I've also read on here from the girls that Korean men chase to the point of what we would call 'stalking' in our home countries. So I guess they are sort of trained culturally to expect a guy to try very hard for them. |
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the_beaver
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 5:41 am Post subject: Re: the girl at home has moved on... |
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| chaz47 wrote: |
| the girl i was seeing back in the US has moved on... i guess it was inevitable and i feel a little relieved... but now what... i would like to meet a k girl but wonder how to go about finding one that isn't a soju hound... advice? |
The number of times I hear this question. . .
It's not hard and it's pretty well like back home. If you want a one-night stand go to any of the nightlife areas and you'll get it. If you want a nice girl go to a church. If you want somebody interested in arty stuff go to a museum. If you want somebody interested in exercise go to a gym. |
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Junior
Joined: 18 Nov 2005
Location: the eye
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 5:44 am Post subject: |
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| BigBlackEquus wrote: |
As for dating Korean girls, remember that they are indeed very different animals. The Korean girls I know want a guy to call them daily. |
Its nice to have the attention but I got waaaaay too many calls from Korean and foreign guys when I got here....so...just give out a fake number sometimes  |
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BigBlackEquus
Joined: 05 Jul 2005
Location: Lotte controls Asia with bad chocolate!
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 6:09 am Post subject: |
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| Junior wrote: |
| BigBlackEquus wrote: |
As for dating Korean girls, remember that they are indeed very different animals. The Korean girls I know want a guy to call them daily. |
Its nice to have the attention but I got waaaaay too many calls from Korean and foreign guys when I got here....so...just give out a fake number sometimes |
I'm talking about if a Korean woman wants you. Then you need to pursue her. Women like being pursued by guys they like, and how are you going to know if she likes you unless you try?
And you're a gyopo, right? Different thinking. Different background. Am I not right in saying that you are quite different than a Korean woman born and bred here?
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itaewonguy
Joined: 25 Mar 2003
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 6:09 am Post subject: |
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damn I was just being sarcastic.. and speaking in a clinque point of view as a JOKE! in case some of the noobs here dont quite know more personality yet..
how the hell does any MAN know what korean woman want!!??
let alone any WOMAN for that matter.. even Freud didnt know!!
if you ask me.,. I think woman dont even know what they want!
they change their minds so often, by the time you figure out what it is they wanted they changed to something else.. and complain to you for not knowing what she wants! hahahahaha
dude, just sounds like you want to get laid!
like the BEV said.. hit the club on a saturday night around midnight.
its pretty much same deal in every country in the world..
midnight , club, pickup!! |
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BigBlackEquus
Joined: 05 Jul 2005
Location: Lotte controls Asia with bad chocolate!
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 6:16 am Post subject: |
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| Junior wrote: |
| BigBlackEquus wrote: |
Its nice to have the attention but I got waaaaay too many calls from Korean and foreign guys when I got here....so...just give out a fake number sometimes |
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Your business is your own, but in the interest of the other person, have you ever tried not bringing their hopes up, and not wasting their time by simply saying, 'no, thank-you.' |
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SPINOZA
Joined: 10 Jun 2005
Location: $eoul
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 6:13 pm Post subject: |
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BigBlackEquus,
I'm a bit concerned about your assertion that "As for dating Korean girls, remember that they are indeed very different animals. The Korean girls I know want a guy to call them daily. If you don't call them every day, they think you are either not that interested or dedicated".
I met a girl who I'm really, really into on Saturday night and I think she likes me. I got her number and she gave me a big hug when we parted - which I found odd, frankly, but nice. However, I was under the impression that it's best to take things slowly at first. I was planning to call her later in the week - Friday minimum - and I'd be jolly annoyed if I'm obliged to call straight away and regularly just to keep seeming interested. I don't want to hound her. Would you call today if you were in my shoes? |
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SPINOZA
Joined: 10 Jun 2005
Location: $eoul
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 6:19 pm Post subject: |
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OP,
it's highly unlikely you'll find many K-girls who are Soju hounds. |
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VanIslander
Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 6:23 pm Post subject: |
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| SPINOZA wrote: |
| Would you call today if you were in my shoes? |
A quick text message would be appropriate. |
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SPINOZA
Joined: 10 Jun 2005
Location: $eoul
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| Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 6:53 pm Post subject: |
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Smashing idea, Vanislander.
I think "it was so nice meeting you. Thanks for complimenting me on my Korean" (even though my Korean's sh1te) ought to be fine.
Her English is outstanding, so that's no probs. |
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