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Dress question for the 30+yo women

 
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ella



Joined: 17 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 4:21 pm    Post subject: Dress question for the 30+yo women Reply with quote

For interviews do you dress like a Korean woman with full-on hair, makeup, and jewelry, so you look like you're expecting (and are worthy of) a good salary, or did you tone it down so as to appear as someone who would not upset/challenge/whatever the kibun of the other teachers/employees?
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rockstarsmooth



Joined: 01 Aug 2006
Location: anyang, baybee!

PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 4:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i'm not a korean woman, so i don't dress like one, i would look ridiculous. i do dress professionally and stylishly, based on my and western standards. i don't wear makeup anyways, maybe a bit of lip gloss, and that doesn't change for a job interview. short hair, thus no hair accessories; i wear my wedding ring and a necklace, that's it for other accessories. i look good when i interview, and my cv does too; i like to think that that my getting hired isn't dependent on how much like a korean woman i look! though if that was the case, i wouldn't be employed now...
at work i regularly get comments on my style, that i dress professionally and that i have an eye for fashion. i don't think the expectation is there for me to dress in korean style. i am after all, a western white woman. one can present well without following korean fashion dictates.
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grainger



Joined: 21 Sep 2006
Location: Wonju, Korea

PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 4:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wouldn't try to dress like a Korean woman because your not; and if you try too hard it'll just look ridiculous. If your employer is a man I'd say go ahead and wear a suit. You shouldn't run the risk of out dressing him because I've never known a male owner who went to work in anything other than a suit. If the owner is a woman you might want to dress in a more professional casual kind of way, but then again, if you wear a suit they'll at least have that instant impression of serious and professional.

Overall, I'd say just be neat, professional, and yourself. If you're never going to wear that suit to school don't wear it to the interview. I suppose if I were interviewing I'd want the impression of someone who can look professional while working around children all day. But then I teach kindergarten.

Good Luck.
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bellum99



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: don't need to know

PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 5:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Depends on the woman. If the woman is thin and great looking..then dress to show the assets. If the woman is huge...then dress to hide the assets. Basically it depends on the job...Kindergarten is casual...adults are business (dress better than your students).
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jennateacher



Joined: 21 Nov 2006
Location: Nonsan, Land of strawberries and rice

PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 5:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have suits, but they are back home in Seattle. For my uni interview last month I wore a long light grey skirt, striped blouse under a black sweater and black boots. I go for high end office casual. When in the class I dress the same. Also I dress more conservative here. When working with curious high school boys, and male K teachers, it makes my life easier. Save sexy for the weekend.
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periwinkle



Joined: 08 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 6:29 pm    Post subject: Re: Dress question for the 30+yo women Reply with quote

ella wrote:
For interviews do you dress like a Korean woman with full-on hair, makeup, and jewelry, so you look like you're expecting (and are worthy of) a good salary, or did you tone it down so as to appear as someone who would not upset/challenge/whatever the kibun of the other teachers/employees?


I dress up. For the job I have now, I even went to the hair salon to get my hair styled. First time in my life I've ever done that. I got the job, and beat out some ppl who were better qualified, as well (that was for other reasons, though- apparently the others were pretty c o c k y, gave some odd responses, etc.).
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jaderedux



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Lurking outside Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 7:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have your basic interview suit. Skirt, jacket white blouse. Conservative gold chain. I do a french manicure and carry thin briefcase. Blue stadium pumps. I look like your basic female corp. exec.

I keep this together in my closet for when the need arises. I DO NOT dress like a korean since I would look completely stupid. Just dress nicely. Be polite and don't act cocky but be confident.

Jade
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princess



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia

PostPosted: Fri Dec 22, 2006 1:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

But, if you are petite and cute, you can dress in cute Korean style clothes. Because, you will fit into the clothes here.
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ella



Joined: 17 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Fri Dec 22, 2006 2:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I should have been more specific. I didn't mean dressing in Korean-style clothing, I meant the Korean style of being more made-up than most of us (I'm guessing) typically do on a daily basis. In my experiences in other Asian countries I've found presenting a familiar image can really make a difference in how you get along (or don't) in that country, which is why I was asking. I'm more concerned about walking the fine line between looking like a professional and stern negotiator, and someone who a potential employer thinks won't fit in at the school/business.
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jennateacher



Joined: 21 Nov 2006
Location: Nonsan, Land of strawberries and rice

PostPosted: Fri Dec 22, 2006 4:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would not say koreans are more made up in reference to make up. The teachers I work with wear very little make up. They do like cute glitter accessories though. Their jeans sparkle, their shoes sparkle, even thier personalities.
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princess



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia

PostPosted: Fri Dec 22, 2006 9:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jennateacher wrote:
I would not say koreans are more made up in reference to make up. The teachers I work with wear very little make up. They do like cute glitter accessories though. Their jeans sparkle, their shoes sparkle, even thier personalities.
True, and the sparkly stuff is way cute!
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OiGirl



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: Hoke-y-gun

PostPosted: Fri Dec 22, 2006 9:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I dress in an EXTREMELY conservative manner, so the Koreans always think I'm weird anyway. For an interview situation, I'd break out the polyester/moleskin rather than my usual cotton/wool/linen/silk. That's about all.
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jaderedux



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Lurking outside Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Dec 22, 2006 2:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

princess wrote:
But, if you are petite and cute, you can dress in cute Korean style clothes. Because, you will fit into the clothes here.


I have boobies and a bit of badunkadunk...in a professional situation dress like a professional.

My second suggestion to you is to listen and carefully to Pink's song "Stupid girls".

You will look "cute" you mean like one of those dogs they dye the ears and dress up in ridiculous outfits. You remind me of my little princess girls I have this year. I have a drawer full of mirrors. And btw princess I am married to a korean so save your comments about me being a sad old maid and bitter cuz I am just not "cute". Nope I am grown women and left cute behind in middle school.

Jade
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