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Back home, do you wear shoes in your HOME?
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Back home, do you wear shoes in your HOME?
Yes, always.
3%
 3%  [ 2 ]
Yes, most of the time.
12%
 12%  [ 7 ]
Yes, sometimes.
14%
 14%  [ 8 ]
Yes, but rarely.
20%
 20%  [ 11 ]
No, never.
49%
 49%  [ 27 ]
Total Votes : 55

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denverdeath



Joined: 21 May 2005
Location: Boo-sahn

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 3:16 pm    Post subject: Back home, do you wear shoes in your HOME? Reply with quote

So, I don't want to start a fight or anything, but in another thread pest1 said that MOST people wear shoes indoors in the West, and also suggested that a poll be done...probably been done many times already, but why not once more? I think it's best if we limit the argument to indoors at home, as the crux of the issue in the noted thread was about the problems of Korean bathrooms and inability to wear shoes in them. Also, I have been to many restaurants, hakwons, stores, offices, department stores, etc in Korea where shoes are worn by all inside. Granted, there are public schools, many restaurants, some offices, and nearly all homes where nearly everyone has designated indoor footwear to wear. Being from snow-ridden Canada, I never wore anything past the entryway, especially not in my mom's house. Most of the people I know are the same even though I have been in some homes where outdoor shoes were allowed(usually a detriment to cleanliness). What do you think? Have fun and please vote...
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Newbie



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 3:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Never
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laogaiguk



Joined: 06 Dec 2005
Location: somewhere in Korea

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 3:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Only in the summer and only if I had to run in and get something quickly (in and out). But damn near close to never.
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peppermint



Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 3:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

One of the great mysteries of our time- solved!
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=46668
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TOGirl



Joined: 16 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 6:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I read Peppermints link which pretty much says it all, but I will add that when I grew up in England (0-12 years old) we always wore our shoes in the house.

After I moved to Canada I found that it was custom to take off shoes at the door and yes I think weather is a big factor.

So now I never wear my shoes in the house, and my British relatives think I'm strange.
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laogaiguk



Joined: 06 Dec 2005
Location: somewhere in Korea

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 6:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

peppermint wrote:
One of the great mysteries of our time- solved!
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=46668


good searching Smile That pretty much does it.
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 6:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Most people in England wear their shoes in the house?

Shocked

I thought only farmers and trailer dwellers did so in developed countries.

I much appreciate the Korean practice of keeping floors clean.
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Tiny_Tibbo



Joined: 21 Apr 2005
Location: In My Skin

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 6:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Winter time= I was the boot police. If you didn't take em off right at the door I would freak. One drop of water on my socks and I was one cranky kid, who wants wets socks?

Summer Time= I could run in and out of the house with them on but the running had to stop when I hit the carpet. But mom never said anythin about bare feet....now that i think of it...they were trackin dirt everywhere... Laughing

I guess it depnds on how much of a clean freak the person who mops the floor is........

But at anyone elses home...u take em off unless instructed otherwise. I guess you hit a delemma when you wear sandels...cuz u gotta take em off but don't wanna be there barefoot.....
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Cedar



Joined: 11 Mar 2003
Location: In front of my computer, again.

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 6:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

VanIslander wrote:
Most people in England wear their shoes in the house?

Shocked

I thought only farmers and trailer dwellers did so in developed countries.

I much appreciate the Korean practice of keeping floors clean.


I wholeheartedly concur. My parents (even though we had a wood floor) would never have tolerated wearing shoes inside unless there was a deer in the orchard and dad was running for his gun. Wearing shoes inside in my mind has always been associated with people who have dubious hygiene and smelly feet.
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 7:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

On second thought, my dad as well as many friends back in Canada have a split rule: shoes on the lino in the kitchen through the back door is okay, but no shoes on the carpet. So, part of the house was okay for shoes. (I shouldn't have voted for "no, never")

Whatever the past practices were, hopefully most people don't wear shoes inside any more.
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pest2



Joined: 01 Jun 2005
Location: Vancouver, Canada

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 11:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just to set the record straight so no future problems come up, I am pest2, not pest1.

Anyway, I put something in another thread (see the one about which place would be better to raise kids: Canada or Korea) about how Canada and Korea are quite similar in some interesting ways and maybe thats why there are so many patriotic(nationalistic almost?) Canadians who seem to like Korea. And low and behold, here is yet another way in which the places are similar. Probably because both places that have bad weather more often than not, they are both places in which people regularaly take off thier shoes.

Bad weather means wet weather. And of course, if your shoes were covered in mud most of the time, you'd wanna have a rule about taking them off.

Anyway, Im from the western US, and I can remember that for awhile my mom was making us take off our shoes but then she gave up. We always had carpet and a vacuum so it was alot easier to clean than these wood floors we have here. Most of my friends who were of middle and upper middle class families usually had no rules about removing thier shoes, either... Colorado, New Mexico, Arizona, Nevada, Idaho, Wyoming -- all dry places! Who wants to ruin that with the removal of shoes?

I know of some people from Australia who had carpets in their houses and used to wear shoes inside as well.
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justagirl



Joined: 17 Jan 2003
Location: Cheonan/Portland

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 11:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Before living in Korea, we wore shoes in the house, unless they were muddy--those went by the back door. Otherwise, shoes are kept in the closet rather than piled up by a doorway. So naturally, they were worn around the house. Another side note is that my parents live in the country, and the rural mind-set is quite different. No white carpets to worry about and more "down-to-earth."

Now, having our own apartment, my husband and I are more comfortable having our shoes off in the house. However, it's not a taboo to put on my Sunday dress shoes in the bedroom to walk outdoors. I do find myself taking my shoes off as soon as we get up the stairs to our living area. We pretty much wear them on the stairs, but not anywhere else.
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pest1



Joined: 09 Feb 2006
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 11:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

VanIslander wrote:
Most people in England wear their shoes in the house?

Shocked

I thought only farmers and trailer dwellers did so in developed countries.

I much appreciate the Korean practice of keeping floors clean.

Are you Canadian? I am not so shocked that ALL Canadians seem to not wear shoes inside their houses. I just tell myself great I've learnt something today. Why are you so shocked that Brits do wear their shoes inside? Do you actually think that Canadian customs apply to all western countries? Once upon a time there was a frog that lived in a well and thought the sky was as big as what he saw from the bottom of the well.
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 12:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

justagirl wrote:
... more "down-to-earth."

Literally! Surprised

pest1 wrote:
Are you Canadian? I am not so shocked that ALL Canadians seem to not wear shoes inside their houses. I just tell myself great I've learnt something today. Why are you so shocked that Brits do wear their shoes inside? Once upon a time there was a frog that lived in a well and thought the sky was as big as what he saw from the bottom of the well.

No need to get snippy.

I never said all Canadians took their shoes off, in fact I indicated a couple of cultural subgroups which usually left them on, as well as in another post on this thread indicated conditions under which some people I know wear shoes inside sometimes.

As for my being surprised at the Brits wearing shoes inside, it's largely because they have a long history (as a culture, not every individual by any means) of seeing themselves as "more civilized", and there's a class consciousness of snobbery that seems absurd compared to the Japanese and Koreans when one looks at footwear practices.

It might be a bit naive to expect other people to adopt en masse what is best about other cultures they come across, as the Brits could with dirt in the house and the Koreans could with personal hygiene (washing hands!).
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ilovebdt



Joined: 03 Jun 2005
Location: Nr Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 4:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Before, I came to Korea I would always wear shoes or slippers in my house. However, when I came back from Korea the first time, I found myself stopping on my front door mat to take off my shoes before I ventured further into the house. LOL Laughing

It will probably be the same when I go home again.
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