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Other female foreigners in Korea??Are they there
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krisinkorea



Joined: 16 Mar 2006
Location: Not too far from Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 4:04 am    Post subject: Other female foreigners in Korea??Are they there Reply with quote

Just wondering about other female foreigners in Korea. They all left where I am. There were 3 when I got here but their contracts ended and they either went home or moved into Seoul. I'm about an hour by bus away from Seoul and so having other female friends to do anything with is a tedious task. I had another friend that I would meet up with in Itaewon but who has now left back to Canada. it seems such a tedious task to meet more people other than the guys I work with from where I am. I can't go to Seoul everyday.

Next case in point, is this the average stats for female English teachers everywhere in Korea. I work with 4 other men. And I'm outnumbered about 12 to 1 in the city. While I don't mind their company sometimes a girl just needs to do other things besides listen to the men drool over the Korean women.

Next question. Korean women are extremely small. Where do normal sized females with normal sized breasts find bras in this country. I'm having my mom send some from Canada. I've been thinking that maybe ordering online is the next best thing.

Anyone else in this boat? Smile
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Junior



Joined: 18 Nov 2005
Location: the eye

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 4:09 am    Post subject: Re: Other female foreigners in Korea??Are they there Reply with quote

krisinkorea wrote:
Where do normal sized females with normal sized *beep* find bras in this country. I'm having my mom send some from Canada. I've been thinking that maybe ordering online is the next best thing.

Anyone else in this boat? Smile


Me, me, me!!

But..I'm confusing, your name is Chris?
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krisinkorea



Joined: 16 Mar 2006
Location: Not too far from Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 4:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

KRISTIN and I'm completely serious!!
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Troll_Bait



Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Location: [T]eaching experience doesn't matter much. -Lee Young-chan (pictured)

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 4:43 am    Post subject: Re: Other female foreigners in Korea??Are they there Reply with quote

Junior wrote:
krisinkorea wrote:
Where do normal sized females with normal sized *beep* find bras in this country. I'm having my mom send some from Canada. I've been thinking that maybe ordering online is the next best thing.

Anyone else in this boat? Smile


Me, me, me!!

But..I'm confusing, your name is Chris?


Junior:

You're back to posing as a Korean woman online?

What happened? It was so much fun the first time around?
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 5:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are three new women teachers here on the island. They don't know each other. I'm gonna introduce them to each other at a spring barbeque before month's end.

That said, I'd only heard of one other in the last three years, and she'd lasted all of a couple of months.

These three newbies will have the luck or luxury of having peers in the same boat, fellow women of the world here teaching ESL, one in an elementary school and two in hagwons, a Canadian, American, and Kiwi.
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lawyertood



Joined: 17 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul, Incheon and the World--working undercover for the MOJ

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 5:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

They used to have an occasional Ladies Luncheon in Seoul.....don't know what happened to those.....
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Cedar



Joined: 11 Mar 2003
Location: In front of my computer, again.

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 5:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

In my many years in Korea, I have found that a phone and a female friend half the country away is worth a lot. So why don't you just make friendships which are sustained by the phone and occassionally mean meeting face to face in Seoul or another city? Do you need someone next to you? I doubt it... you just need someone to understand what life is like as a foreign woman in Korea, right? So... next time you do see some nice women, ask for their numbers, call sometime when you have something interesting to say... see what happens.
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pest2



Joined: 01 Jun 2005
Location: Vancouver, Canada

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 8:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

NO! There are no female foreigners in Korea!
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 3:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

lawyertood wrote:
They used to have an occasional Ladies Luncheon in Seoul.....don't know what happened to those.....


Kind of fell by the wayside due to lack of interest in planning events. It's a shame as the ladies of daves are pretty cool bunch.
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Ekuboko



Joined: 22 Dec 2004
Location: ex-Gyeonggi

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 4:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

krisinkorea wrote:
KRISTIN and I'm completely serious!!

Kristin,
You said you're an hour from Seoul - Where do you live?
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 4:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There's only one white woman within about a 20km radius of where I live that I know of. I sometimes wonder what she's thinking about the male company she's surrounded with. The last lone woman pulled a runner after going literally nuts.

Are k-girls really such a drag to hang out with if you're a white woman?
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 5:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Op. I forgot to say that this is part of the nature of being an expat, people come and go. I had two friends leave today, and that bit sucks. It really is important to make sure that you don't invest too much in one person as they do have a habit of moving on, so it's good to have a wide vareity of people to hang out with. Join some activity clubs, go to a book exchange or other cultural events and get people's phone numbers.


Yu_Bum_suk wrote:


Are k-girls really such a drag to hang out with if you're a white woman?

No, but I find in general that my IQ is lowered by 20 points when I have talk to the ones that I come across hanging off of the arms of losers like you.
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desultude



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Dangling my toes in the Persian Gulf

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 5:25 pm    Post subject: Re: Other female foreigners in Korea??Are they there Reply with quote

krisinkorea wrote:
Just wondering about other female foreigners in Korea. They all left where I am. There were 3 when I got here but their contracts ended and they either went home or moved into Seoul. I'm about an hour by bus away from Seoul and so having other female friends to do anything with is a tedious task. I had another friend that I would meet up with in Itaewon but who has now left back to Canada. it seems such a tedious task to meet more people other than the guys I work with from where I am. I can't go to Seoul everyday.

Next case in point, is this the average stats for female English teachers everywhere in Korea. I work with 4 other men. And I'm outnumbered about 12 to 1 in the city. While I don't mind their company sometimes a girl just needs to do other things besides listen to the men drool over the Korean women.

Next question. Korean women are extremely small. Where do normal sized females with normal sized *beep* find bras in this country. I'm having my mom send some from Canada. I've been thinking that maybe ordering online is the next best thing.
Anyone else in this boat? Smile


About the bras (and shoes, and for me, anything else) you have answered your own question. I have bought, in over 3 years here, one sweater, one skirt, and one pair of jeans that fit me, otherwise, it has been my sister or Ebay keeping me supplied.

The good news is that it has broken my shopping habit now. I have learned to dread even the thought of shopping for clothes- the indignity of it is too much to bear. When I bought the jeans, the store clerk looked me up and down and said the two words she had reserved for waygooks; "too big!". I swear that if it had taken vaseline, those jeans were going to fit. Embarassed

Buy your clothes online, and try to get an urban job next time.
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ThePoet



Joined: 15 May 2004
Location: No longer in Korea - just lurking here

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 6:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:


Are k-girls really such a drag to hang out with if you're a white woman?

crazylemongirl wrote:
No, but I find in general that my IQ is lowered by 20 points when I have talk to the ones that I come across hanging off of the arms of losers like you.


BURN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Poet
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Corporal



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 7:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

crazylemongirl wrote:
Op. I forgot to say that this is part of the nature of being an expat, people come and go. I had two friends leave today, and that bit sucks. It really is important to make sure that you don't invest too much in one person as they do have a habit of moving on, so it's good to have a wide vareity of people to hang out with. Join some activity clubs, go to a book exchange or other cultural events and get people's phone numbers.


Yu_Bum_suk wrote:


Are k-girls really such a drag to hang out with if you're a white woman?

No, but I find in general that my IQ is lowered by 20 points when I have talk to the ones that I come across hanging off of the arms of losers like you.


Haha CLG, that was freaking awesome.
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