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Alyssa



Joined: 15 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 5:47 am    Post subject: Bath House Reply with quote

So I go to the bath house with my co-teachers, and guess who is there, 4 middle school students that I teach!!!!!!!!!!! They come up, yes, we all are in our birthday suits, and they want to RUB MY BACK AND BODY!!!!!!!!
The co-teachers laugh and tell me that they are being kind, but somehow, I feel so uncomfortable! I like the bath house, the different pools of water, and the relaxing mud bath, but to go their with so many people I work with is kind of strange..................any of you ever had that experience???
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huffdaddy



Joined: 25 Nov 2005

PostPosted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 6:07 am    Post subject: Re: Bath House Reply with quote

Alyssa wrote:
So I go to the bath house with my co-teachers, and guess who is there, 4 middle school students that I teach!!!!!!!!!!! They come up, yes, we all are in our birthday suits, and they want to RUB MY BACK AND BODY!!!!!!!!
The co-teachers laugh and tell me that they are being kind, but somehow, I feel so uncomfortable! I like the bath house, the different pools of water, and the relaxing mud bath, but to go their with so many people I work with is kind of strange..................any of you ever had that experience???


Bahrain getting too hot for you?

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SeoulFinn



Joined: 27 Feb 2006
Location: 1h from Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 6:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

From your reaction I can say that you certainly aren't Finnish! Very Happy Hey, we still have some public saunas that both sexes use at the same time. And we're not wearing T-shirts and shorts there like they do in the Korean "*sauna." In Finnish sauna culture that would be the most idiotic thing to do! Besides, we were all born naked, right?

Anyway, your co-workers were right. Scrubbing someone's back is totally normal in Korea.

I hope that you're already familiar with the Italian towel. If not, ask your co-workers where to get them. After soaking in a hot tub for a while you would be amazed how much dead skin and dirt can be scraped from your body. But don't do it too often as it might irritate your skin.


(*Korean sauna is pretty BEEP far from R.E.A.L. sauna.)
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robot



Joined: 07 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 6:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

woo, finnish saunas!

my hometown, the quaint little ontario city of thunder bay, apparently boasts the largest population of finnish people outside of finland. so we have a heck of a lot of saunas (pronounced sow-nas) going on.

i'm a pretty big fan of sauna nekkidness (mandatory in tbay), but if it involved my middle schoolers, i'd be quite weirded out also, huffdaddy. i'd be the heck out of there in a flash.

as for REAL saunas, a sauna is not a sauna without a cool, refreshing lake to jump into afterward. though i really do love korea's jjimjilbang culture -- the sauna style here is so different from the finn style that you can't really judge between the two.

ROBT.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 6:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The trick is to get over your western-instilled hang-ups about your naked body and non-sexual touching. In this case, the Koreans are a couple of thousand years ahead of us. Relax and enjoy it.
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SeoulFinn



Joined: 27 Feb 2006
Location: 1h from Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 6:57 am    Post subject: There are almost 2 million saunas in Finland. Reply with quote

Good to hear that Finland doesn't export only Nokias and xylitol, but also saunas and the correct way of enjoying them. Wink And what's the big deal with being nekkid in sauna? Or being nekkid at all? At least in Finland no one thinks about sex while in sauna - maybe it's just too hot for that? We certainly don't go there to drool after someone.

Sauna's a good place to relax and forget your worries for a while. Hey, it's almost sacret to us. Not that long ago the Finns were born in sauna and after they died, their bodies were washed in sauna before burial.

Here's some more information of sauna if someone is interested. CLICK ME
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C.M.



Joined: 02 Dec 2005
Location: Gangwondo

PostPosted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 7:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ya-ta Boy's statement is spot on. Though yes, seeing students at public baths can be strange. I was quite uncomfortable when a young lad approached me during class, and wanted to talk about "size". Shocked
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inspector gadget



Joined: 11 Apr 2003
Location: jeollanam-do in the boonies

PostPosted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 6:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

robot,

I am also from tbay and you are correct about the number of finns in tbay, largest pop outside of finland. your also right about jumping in the lake after a nice finn sauna, also nice to roll around in the snow and if your brave diving under the frozen lake. I did that once and it was awesome.

Saunas here are alright but as others said nothing compares to an old traditional sauna complete with cedar all around, makes me wish I was back on the lake north of the bay
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pest2



Joined: 01 Jun 2005
Location: Vancouver, Canada

PostPosted: Sun Apr 09, 2006 7:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Please never show that photo of Michael Jackson ever again.

Sauna naked and body touching with coworkers OK with me because they're all women! (except my boss).
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seoulkitchen



Joined: 28 Dec 2004
Location: Hub of Asia, my ass!

PostPosted: Sun Apr 09, 2006 3:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

C.M. wrote:
Ya-ta Boy's statement is spot on. Though yes, seeing students at public baths can be strange. I was quite uncomfortable when a young lad approached me during class, and wanted to talk about "size". Shocked

Yeah, some of my boys saw me in the sauna and were marvelling at my 'marvellous' 'appendage'Shocked . (one of them actually used the word marvellous! Hahaha!)
Well, of course on Monday word spread throught the school about it. For the next few weeks all I heard was "Teacher gochu, jjang!"
Slightly embarrassing since it wasn't an all boys school.



However,
I was disappointed none of my co-workers asked me out after that.... Crying or Very sad
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