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cubanlord



Joined: 08 Jul 2005
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PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 2:46 pm    Post subject: Please look at the following sentence: Reply with quote

You should be friends with him.

In this case, why is it that friends is plural? I know a decent amount of grammar, however this one stumps me. I can only think of a couple of things:

friends, in this case, is used as an action verb, thus it takes the plural form?????

friends is a generalization, thus it takes the plural form?

I am stumped. Any input would be greatly appreciated.

Sincerely,
Me


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RachaelRoo



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PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 3:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My best guess is that it's because there are two friends involved - you and him.
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JAWINSEOUL



Joined: 19 Nov 2005

PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 3:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

RachaelRoo wrote:
My best guess is that it's because there are two friends involved - you and him.


Yes, I think the key is the word with, it makes the word friends plural. Here are the dictionary meanings, notice the word with.

- be friends with : to have a friendship or friendly relationship with
- make friends with : to establish a friendship or friendly relations with

It is the same as Chris and John are friends.

Good question !
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Hater Depot



Joined: 29 Mar 2005

PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 7:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

At first I thought it was hilarious that Koreans say they want to "make" a boyfriend or girlfriend. Then I realized we say we want to "make" friends.

Months later. Confused
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Farnsworth



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PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 7:45 pm    Post subject: Re: Please look at the following sentence: Reply with quote

cubanlord wrote:
You should be friends with him.

friends, in this case, is used as an action verb, thus it takes the plural form?????



The word friends is clearly a noun and I believe nouns are generally used as nouns not as action verbs. Very Happy Or did I misunderstand what you wrote?

RachaelRoo wrote:
My best guess is that it's because there are two friends involved - you and him.


Yep, that sounds right to me.
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cubanlord



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PostPosted: Sat May 06, 2006 2:09 am    Post subject: Re: Please look at the following sentence: Reply with quote

Farnsworth wrote:
cubanlord wrote:
You should be friends with him.

friends, in this case, is used as an action verb, thus it takes the plural form?????



The word friends is clearly a noun and I believe nouns are generally used as nouns not as action verbs. Very Happy Or did I misunderstand what you wrote?

RachaelRoo wrote:
My best guess is that it's because there are two friends involved - you and him.


Yep, that sounds right to me.


Yeah..I know. I was hoping for a weird, off-the-wall rule. So much for wishful thinking..
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Privateer



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PostPosted: Sat May 06, 2006 10:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

People are right to say it's because there are 2 people involved. Compare it with 'to be a friend to someone' when you're only talking about 1 person's behaviour.

However, I think it's more helpful to think of it as a verb or verbal phrase - 'to be friends with someone' - than a noun. Same goes for 'to make friends with someone'.
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tomato



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: I get so little foreign language experience, I must be in Koreatown, Los Angeles.

PostPosted: Sat May 06, 2006 3:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hello, Cuban Lord!

Here's a parsimonious answer:

"Xavier is friends with Yolanda" is common, but incorrect.
"Xavier and Yolanda are friends" is correct.

Betcha an English teacher back home would make a red pencil mark if you wrote it the first way.

Hello, Hater Depot!

You got me interested in how "make a friend" is said in Korean.

I keep a file on Korean expressions, and I find:

친구가 되다 = literally, "to become a friend"

나는 그저 당신과 친구가 싶은 뿐이다
Please, I just want to be (a friend, friends) with you.
This one could go either way.

친구로 지내다 = literally, "to spend one's time as a friend"

I entered "친구를 만들" in a Google search, and found one Website which says "친구를 만들 수 있습니다," which means "can make a friend."
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