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ellamarie



Joined: 16 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 2:50 pm    Post subject: Total newbie nervousness Reply with quote

So, I'm well into planning my move to Korea to teach. Got the passport, researching the country, planning to learn some of the language, talking to anyone I find who has taught overseas, taught in Korea, traveled to Korea, heard of Korea, or once saw a Korean at Wal-Mart. I am also planning to research schools as well as possible and have at least $1000 in the bank (hopefully more) before I leave.

Still, sometimes I find myself thinking: "What the hell am I thinking??!! I'm going to a foreign country thousands of miles from home where I don't know anyone and don't know the language! How will I find my way around the city? If I get lost, how the hell will I find my way back home if I can't find someone who speaks English? For that matter, how will I even find my way there from the f*cking airport??!!

Then I calm down and continue planning.

Before this turns into another bash-the-newbie fest, I just want to say that I think going to Korea will be a great experience. I am looking forward to experiencing a new culture and hopefully traveling to some other countries as well. I think a little nervousness is normal and healthy.
Anyone else have similar thoughts before leaving?
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kangnam mafioso



Joined: 27 Jan 2003
Location: Teheranno

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 3:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yes, very natural to feel nervous before coming to korea the first time. take a deep breath. relaxxxxxxx. don't feel like you have to become fluent in the language or bring a year's supply of deoderant. you will be fine. it will take a little while to meet the right people, but you will have a blast. good luck with the job. are you going to seoul or somewhere else? really, if you hate it that bad you can always leave.
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cubanlord



Joined: 08 Jul 2005
Location: In Japan!

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 3:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

kang. maf. is right in regarding to meeting the "right" people. Once everyone else wakes up, you will have plenty of advice. Allow me to donate this one:

Every Korean will want to be your friend, DON'T LET IT HAPPEN!!! They want you for your English (at least 99% of them). As foreigners go, that's up to you. Typical crap just like back home:

Some want you for sex, some want you for your money, some want you for you....the latter, which is ultimately (I think) what you would prefer.

Good luck to you.
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 3:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Totally natural response.

I laughed at myself afterwards: it's so easy to function in Korea with ZERO Korean language ability, other than "ann-yung ha-say-yo" (hello) and "gumsa hum-nee-da" (thank you).

Are there bumps in the road? yeah (not really, the highways are world class, but metaphorically). There will be moments when you don't know something. But one thing travelling gives you is confidence in oneself to get past it, to develop methods of coping and finding out what you really need, as opposed to what you whimsically want. You'll make it.

And if you're interested, directions from the airport could be given by us at Dave's once you've got the neighbourhood of where you will be going. Though the airport shuttle to the intercity bus terminal in Seoul is pretty straightforward.

Korea is about as foreign yet convenient a place as any anglo-waygook can hope to find. You'll do fine.
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 3:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You'll either sink or swim. The first few weeks are either going to be amazing or suck ass. But the secret is being able to adapt yourself to life here. Some can't.
Being easy going, and the abilty to laugh at yourself are musts.

I was in the same position as you 3 years ago, and I scratched out a nice existence here.
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ajgeddes



Joined: 28 Apr 2004
Location: Yongsan

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 3:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Seeing as it seems to be your first trip abroad, may I suggest getting a job in a big city so life isn't too foreign. I feel like Seoul is a bizarro <North American city>. Things are different, but getting around is quite easy and eating just takes a little courage. Chances are, you will have decent co-workers and they will help you, so don't sweat it and have a good time.
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Paddycakes



Joined: 05 May 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 4:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't worry, the sheer beauty of the women in K-Land more than make up for the rest of the country's shortcomings.

PS. The first thing you're going to notice as you get into the city is this weird, hard to describe burnt smell that hangs over everything.

Don't worry, after a few days you won't even notice it...
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 4:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Paddycakes wrote:
Don't worry, the sheer beauty of the women in K-Land more than make up for the rest of the country's shortcomings.


Dude the OP is a girl, and I don't think that way inclined.
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Paddycakes



Joined: 05 May 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 5:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, if I was a women, I'd seriously consider "switching teams" if I were her....
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 5:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

and it's amazing how many assume a newbie is going to live in Seoul (statistically, most don't)
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ajgeddes



Joined: 28 Apr 2004
Location: Yongsan

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 5:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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and it's amazing how many assume a newbie is going to live in Seoul (statistically, most don't)


Who assumed that?
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plattwaz



Joined: 08 Apr 2005
Location: <Write something dumb here>

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 6:27 pm    Post subject: Re: Total newbie nervousness Reply with quote

ellamarie wrote:


Still, sometimes I find myself thinking: "What the hell am I thinking??!! I'm going to a foreign country thousands of miles from home where I don't know anyone and don't know the language! How will I find my way around the city? If I get lost, how the hell will I find my way back home if I can't find someone who speaks English? For that matter, how will I even find my way there from the f*cking airport??!!


Those were my own very thoughts when I first boarded the plan 4 years ago. I was half so-excited-I-could-pee-my-pants and half so-scared-I-couldnt-eat. On my flight layover I called my best friend and told her I had chickened out!

You WILL be fine. Try to get someone from your school to pick you up at the airport. If a school is not willing to do this, it is a bad sign, in my opinion.

When someone drops you off at your new apartment, have them right your address (apartment building name, dong, and gu) in Korean for you, and until you are comfortable getting home, always have enough taxi money on you (20,000 won will get you most anywhere within Seoul, for instance). The Koreans at your school will speak at least passable English, and hope that the other foreigners will help you out at first as well.

The subway systems here are excellently labelled in English, and you will learn it quickly.

Good luck - you will be fine!
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SPINOZA



Joined: 10 Jun 2005
Location: $eoul

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 7:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was very lucky. I live opposite Emart - so could shop and buy familiar things - and also have supportive co-workers who showed me around, helped me open a bank account etc. This is essential. Without that, it would've been more difficult. First impressions are everything. When I first walked into my apartment, I thought "hey, this is damn okay - much better than I expected" and this pretty much sums it all up for me - the job, the country, the city, the people. Sometimes I get annoyed by trivial crap, mind you, but don't we all, everywhere?

Experiences can be so different. Some people are miles away from a supermarket, don't have terribly welcoming co-workers, have a tiny apartment etc etc. You've got to ride the Luck Plain. If you're an inherently lucky person, always seem to fall on your feet regardless of effort or merit, Korea will be good to you. If not, you're fooked. Or this time may be your lucky day, who knows?
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 7:05 pm    Post subject: Re: Total newbie nervousness Reply with quote

ellamarie wrote:
So, I'm well into planning my move to Korea to teach. Got the passport, researching the country, planning to learn some of the language, talking to anyone I find who has taught overseas, taught in Korea, traveled to Korea, heard of Korea, or once saw a Korean at Wal-Mart. I am also planning to research schools as well as possible and have at least $1000 in the bank (hopefully more) before I leave.

Still, sometimes I find myself thinking: "What the hell am I thinking??!! I'm going to a foreign country thousands of miles from home where I don't know anyone and don't know the language! How will I find my way around the city? If I get lost, how the hell will I find my way back home if I can't find someone who speaks English? For that matter, how will I even find my way there from the f*cking airport??!!

Then I calm down and continue planning.

Before this turns into another bash-the-newbie fest, I just want to say that I think going to Korea will be a great experience. I am looking forward to experiencing a new culture and hopefully traveling to some other countries as well. I think a little nervousness is normal and healthy.
Anyone else have similar thoughts before leaving?


The tough part is you are going to look for employment after arrival. Which is particularly recommended for people who know Korea well already.

But.. if you haven't really travelled much or been to Korea before.. it actually is difficult to get around if you don't know anyone.

Maybe if you are still doing the research stages.. you could organize a summercamp to get your feet on the ground.. then apply/research jobs from there and sign something afterwards?
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ellamarie



Joined: 16 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Wed May 10, 2006 7:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks to everyone for the advice. I will be trying to find something within commuting distance of Seoul but I don't want to be in the dead center of the city. I thought about being further South, like around Busan, but I need to be near medical facilities with English speaking doctors. And no, I won't be,um, "switching teams." Smile
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