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Austin
Joined: 23 May 2003 Location: In the kitchen
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 8:28 am Post subject: Why contracts mean very little... |
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When there is little or no trust between two people, a written contract can become their best friend. However, it should not be mistaken as an adequate substitute to a trusting relationship, because contracts can easily be broken. Certainly trust can be broken as well, but the motives behind both are entirely different.
I am well aware that many people are overly concerned with the wording and details of thier contracts in Korea. However, for those that are considering Korea, please reflect on your most rewarding relationships in your life. Are they based on a contract, or are they based on trust amongst other things?
I contend that people that are weak and afraid will lean toward the contract as their protector. Therefore, if you do not consider yourself as weak and afraid, I would suggest to you to find an employer that you can foster a healthy relationship with as a means of developing a lasting security built on trust.
It may very well take six months to a year for both of you to prove yourself to each other, but if you invest an adequate amount of your time and energy into creating this relationship, the problems that you read about here will not touch you. Moreover, your stay in Korea will be more rewarding and fulfilling.
I know that some people do not know how to navigate these types of interactions very well, and they will undoubtedly cast negative and disparaging remarks my way, as my suggestion is an insult to them. Regardless of others comments, I am confident that you will do what is best for yourself in the end.
Understand that my motivations stem from my aspirations to create a positive "feel good" life.
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The motivation for all personal behavior is to produce a sense of "FEEL GOOD," a sense of inner peace and well being. To expect a person to go against his desire to feel good or as good as he can feel under any momentary condition is illogical and irrational. In the observation of human behavior, one will notice every human act is a response to a personal need. This is true whether one signs a million dollar contract, scratches one's nose, rolls over in bed, or just day dreams his life away. People will do things which seem contrary to this concept, but the bottom line is they perceive some kind of payoff which will make them feel good. And the payoff is almost always emotional. When you ask people why they want to be financially independent, they might say that they could buy things without having to worry about where the money will come from. And when they worry, they don't FEEL GOOD. A drug addict, a Korean basher, an alcoholic and anyone with a compulsive habit will continue with their habits because at the moment of action they believe and feel it will make them feel good. That is why breaking compulsive habits are so difficult. |
When your employer knows that you have the best interest of the school in your heart by your performance and attitude and your employer sees the difference between you and the others that have come before you, you will be justly rewarded. However, if you perform poorly and develop a negative attitude, clinging on to every detail in your contract will not protect you, because you are a direct threat to your employer's livelihood.
There is no point in debating whether or not your view of yourself and your employers view of you are accurate, because you are the employee. If you can not increase enrollment, maintain enrollment, and minimize parental and coworker complaints, you will not be keeping your job, regardless of your contract, which is why I view the contract as secondary to a healthy relationship.
Unfortunately, too many people claim that they were surprised and shocked by the poor treatment they received by their employer without truly reflecting and understanding their involvement in the outcome. Granted, some may claim that their employer was insane and incapable of running a business, but why would someone want to continue working for that type of person? I believe that the majority of school owners are very shrewd and clever business people, and if you demonstrate that you are an asset, there is no need for fear. However, those that can not shine will be disposed of and rightly so!
Feel free to PM me if you have any questions. |
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Mody Ba
Joined: 22 May 2003
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 12:07 pm Post subject: Give It Up, Pieboy |
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Austin(King Rat) just posted his latest load.
Especially his statement that when the owner sees by the teacher's attitude and performance that the teacher has the interests of the school at heart,then"the teacher will be justly rewarded."
What a load, Pieboy.What planet have you been living on, anyway? Ask all of the teachers who have been ripped off by unscrupulous hakwon owners if their efforts and best intentions were "justly rewarded".
Some of The Rat's posts are so outrageous and unbelievable that one is tempted to think maybe he is just a little troll trying to rile people up.On the other hand, maybe that is the way he "thinks"(????).
Give it up, Pieboy.You have become a laughingstock on this board. |
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humanuspneumos
Joined: 08 Jun 2003
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 1:09 pm Post subject: I too understand the concept of relationship- |
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a mild exposition of Korea will surface the concept after watching one or two contract issues come up. However, the hermeneutics of it all (any good hermeneutic has an appropriate application) doesn't lead me to the destruction of the written text. Rather, it leads me to believe that the text can be upheld in a duality of text/relationship. Not a duality of opposites so much as a duality in the same way you have two tracks for one train. Remove the one track the train crashes. That's partly why Korea crashed in 97- yes, saw it with my own eyes. Sinister loans based on relationship- not the text of just business law- were forged.
The destruction of any infra-structure comes with the neglect of policy/contract. You can only have a superficial/arbitrary infra-structure and outputs when policy/contract are neglected. So, you reap an artificial bubble- a fathering of another IMF. N & S Korea will always be on shakey ground until text is wedded with relationship. The removal of text becomes a kind of papacy- I think that's what you like Austin- to be a Pope in your TESOL world. Don't get me wrong I wrote the bla, bla, bla Survival Handbook at a particular school and it included emphasizing the power of relationship in Korea- however, I had little interest in power beyond it providing a measure of stability in a hurricane- no, I didn't undermine the text. Teacher's lives benefitted because of that and so numbers rapidly went up. I tried to build an infra-structure that was extremely visible and clear under the authority of the text as well as verbal promises.
Again- I come back to your negativism about change- perhaps you don't seek it because text always means that all parties are subject to a higher authority. Perhaps the Rubrick method of management that Mickey always spoke of demands an arbitrary finite authority (along with his underlords) can more easily become a vortex of implosion on others who don't bow the knee- just want what they were promised.
You are a great advocate of "Put-up or Shut-up" when the gate doesn't swing around and hit you on the back-side.
My guess is that the first thing people who want power will destroy/obscure is an authority higher than themselves- the text. To canvass people on this board to crush the duality of relationship/text opens the door for TESOL Papacy to rule unchecked. I guess you really don't care to help Korea with its infrastructure problem. You'd rather describe the thrilling event of the malls, walls and bridges falling into the sea. Pretty negative stuff!!!! Yes, there are Koreans who long for the day when the text/relationship sun will rise and bridges no more will fall- after all- it's their sons and daughters who die. |
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