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If you teach kids, please take this poll.
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Which of the following applies to you?
I complain that the kids don't respect me. I call the kids "brats" and "punks."
3%
 3%  [ 2 ]
I complain that the kids don't respect me. I DON'T call the kids "brats" and "punks."
17%
 17%  [ 11 ]
I DON'T complain that the kids don't respect me. I call the kids "brats" and "punks."
10%
 10%  [ 7 ]
I DON'T complain that the kids don't respect me. I DON'T call the kids "brats" and "punks."
68%
 68%  [ 44 ]
Total Votes : 64

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tomato



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: I get so little foreign language experience, I must be in Koreatown, Los Angeles.

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 2:21 am    Post subject: If you teach kids, please take this poll. Reply with quote

Just testing a hypothesis.
I'll tell you about it in a few days.
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Lizara



Joined: 14 Apr 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 2:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't complain that the kids don't respect me (it mostly seems that they do) but I sometimes call some of them brats because some of them genuinely are brats. I wouldn't use that word on most of them though.
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flotsam



Joined: 28 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 4:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I voted option 4, but if you are including in jest comments, you better ignore my vote. Little punk brats, all my kids are.

**EDIT**

The jests are obviously not at the students. With co-teachers and friends: "Oh you should've seen what my punks did today." etc.


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tzechuk



Joined: 20 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 4:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I deal with it myself if the kids don't respect me, luckily that doesn't happen much - they mostly just use banmal and I just tell them no banmal or I ignore them.

I don't call people names, either. Kids or not, name calling is childish.
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Demophobe



Joined: 17 May 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 4:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My students respect me as I do them.
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sadsac



Joined: 22 Dec 2003
Location: Gwangwang

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 2:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't complain, but I do call the kids bonehead and bubblehead. Smile
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Juregen



Joined: 30 May 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 5:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

They respect me.
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 5:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I sometimes call my kids monkeys if they are being naughty, but always in jest. I call them, students, or ladies and gentlemen. My kids call me clgsaem, and every class beings with an insa, and they usually greet me when I see them (and vice versa).
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poet13



Joined: 22 Jan 2006
Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 5:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

To my colleague I sometimes refer to a couple of children in particular as, "my little insane people". I have addressed a 14 year boy, "little boy". He was being particularily peurile (sp?) towards another student. (he stood over her and blew his nose in her hair.) Other than that, I almost always address my students, from 8 to 80, as ladies and gentlemen, or gentlepeople.
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Dan The Chainsawman



Joined: 05 May 2005

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 6:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Calling a kid a name to his face in a language he does not fully understand seems a pointless excercise. Most of the time these days I refused to be troubled with problem children. I glare at them a few times, and if that doesn't work I toss them out of class.

On my own time with other teachers I refer to them as brats, turds, little shits, fart sniffers, and money makers.
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ScottyG



Joined: 09 Jun 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 6:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i need more choices. what about on mondays?
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 6:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

When they are climbing on the big table (no desks in the room) I say

"Come on, get down. You are NOT monkeys."
To which they Shocked
pause
and respond "I'm a monkey!" and climb some more.

Leaves me at least appreciating their proper grammar.
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Dan The Chainsawman



Joined: 05 May 2005

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 6:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Give them a banana next time.
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 8:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Where's the option for "My students respect me"? Generally, the students I teach now are lovely.
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PaperTiger



Joined: 31 May 2005
Location: Ulaanbataar

PostPosted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 1:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm the only foreigner at my job, and some of my co-workers seem a little put out if I ask them to speak to their kids and try to keep them in line. I've resolved to stop discussing it with them and just make sure that this is the last haggie job I ever take. I'm ready for a new form of aggravation, be it with adults or public-school kids, there seems like some small chance it will seem new in some ways.

I don't call them anything. They're perfect little robots when their Korean homeroom teacher is there, and they're totally out of control when I'm in the room. I'm pretty sure I"m burnt out on kids. I don't get mad anymore, I don't get frustrated, I just go back to counting the days on my calendar. Oh, six months left. That's not such a long time.
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