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[LL Moonmanhead]

Since joining the gym i have both in abundance.

But, the burning question is...which one should i work on more ? Muscles? OR personality?

Is there somewhere you can go to build up personal charactoristics like you can build up big muscles like you can in the gym environment?

Anywhere in the daegu area?

I look at my new big muscles in the mirror these days and don't get me wrong i enjoy viewing them. But i often feel as though i should be also flexing my personality muscles, if you know what i mean?? Sure i'm fantastic to look at, but if i let my personality go limp and weak who is going to talk to me at a human level about the things that really matter??

Please vote,

Signing out feeling very stocky and powerful but undernorished culturally and personalityally.

[sillywilly]

I dont think the two have to be mutually exclusive. Some of the most intelligent people I know are ripped.

But personality is way more important to me. For friends and guys in whom I'm interested, both. But a whole package is preferable. Wouldn't you prefer a whole package in a woman?

[Satori]

So basically you're saying what's a good bar to go meet foreingers in right?

[Veronica Rose]

I voted muscles, hands down.


Just kidding. What good are looks with no personality? If you want to exercise your personality you could try meditation, reading (what's the right word...) 'enlightening' books, volunteer work, therapy...

Any more suggestions out there?

[princess]

Personality becuase big muscles suck. That's why I love a cute little Korean guy.

[princess]

[mindmetoo]

I do pretty well on personality. But if I was a big fat side of disgusting hog fat waddling my fat sweaty hog ass around Seoul, I could have all the personality and charm in the world and it may not get me many phone numbers.

There's a good balance. Any guy here ever chase a fat woman based on her personality alone?

[Veronica Rose]

[crazylemongirl]

Then there's the magic machismo factor...

There are some guys that aren't much to look out but radidate so much testorone I just want to wear a corset so that they can rip it off.

True alpha males. A rare breed. Treat like a lady when you are out for dinner, then take you over their shoulder and shag you senseless when you go home.

[Veronica Rose]

[cdninkorea]

You can't have sex with personality.

Okay, I don't subscribe to that outlook. But you have to admit it's funny!

[crazylemongirl]

[Veronica Rose]

I was going to say it and then I didn't, but CLG is right on. Good sex with a great personality or lousy sex with a hot bod?

Technique matters more than some people seem to realise.

[Css]

Since when does personality equal sexual technique? Am I missing something?

[ChimpumCallao]

personality 100%.

i never liked muscles. plus, a guy too obsessed with his looks (even when trying to look very 'macho') comes off as a little feminine to me.

(not saying you are, btw)