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blueskies
Joined: 15 Jun 2006
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 3:28 am Post subject: Gyopos-Your Experience Working Here |
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| How do you feel you are treated relative to the Korean staff? |
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identity
Joined: 22 Apr 2006
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 3:51 am Post subject: |
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| differently. conversely, pretty much the same. |
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livinginkorea

Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Location: Korea, South of the border
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 5:27 am Post subject: |
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| Depends on how different you are compared to the Koreans? I guess that there would be some resentment towards them but not as bad as coming from China or Taiwan. A lot of Koreans look down on those. |
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blueskies
Joined: 15 Jun 2006
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 5:56 am Post subject: |
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| Depends on how different you are compared to the Koreans? I guess that there would be some resentment towards them but not as bad as coming from China or Taiwan. A lot of Koreans look down on those. |
I didn't grow up around Korean people so alot about the culture is pretty new to me. I teach at a public school and have gotten mixed reactions from the korean teachers. The male teachers seem to be cool with me but I get some weird vibes from the female teachers (I'm female btw)...just wondering if anyone else has had similar experiences. I do get the distinct feeling that a few of the older teachers (males included) would prefer I act more "korean"...wishful thinking on their part might I add I can't speak Korean and man, the discrimination sucks sometimes. |
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tek75
Joined: 15 Jun 2006
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Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:15 am Post subject: |
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Hello, everyone this is my first post. I'm a Korean-American, and I taught English in Korea for a period of six years (I'm in the U.S. now having completed a Master's program in English-TESL, and I will be returning to Korea soon).
To answer the original post, I actually think being a gyopo has helped me (90%) a lot more than it has hurt me (10%). One obvious reason is that I speak conversational Korean, so being able to communicate with both the staff members (in Korean) and the other teachers (English) made it a lot easier to get along with both groups. Also, as far as my Korean friends are concerned, most of them seemed to think of me as essentially Korean, so they had no trepidation when it came to befriending me or speaking to me very frankly. Similarly, I think some of my students actually felt more at ease with me, especially the adult ones, and were able to use English in a more relaxed state of mind. And it goes without saying that speaking the language prevents most of the cultural misunderstandings that other English teachers often have to face.
As for the negative, well, I didn't receive the "star treatment" by academy directors, who would fawn over the young Caucasian teachers and put their pictures up prominently on the school's website. And you are certainly much less likely to receive things as "service" (i.e. on the house) from businesses for being American. Personally, I don't need a lot of eg-stroking, so those things didn't really bother me. As for other things, I always got a slight feeling of guilt when my Korean friends would talk about their Army experiences, although I should also say that none of them ever said anything to make me feel that way. There was a also a time, on my first day of work at an academy, a teacher asked me where I was from, and when I told him the name of the U.S. state, he sighed and said, "No, I mean, where are you REALLY from?" which threw me off, but it turned out he wasn't a very nice person overall, and he was pretty much insensitive to almost everyone. Overall, I would say 95% of my co-workers were very kind and treated me no differently from any other teacher (some did mention they felt a little awkward when the staff would start speaking Korean to me in front of them, which I thought was understandable), while the remaining 5% seemed to regard me as being somehow less of an American (in a way, that's understandable, too, because they tended to be the teachers that were having a hard time adjusting to Korea and feeling rather wary of all things Korean)
In terms of getting jobs, being Korean-American never seemed to hurt me, as I was hired by every school that I ever interviewed for, with the single exception of CDI, which very ironically ONLY hires Korean-Americans (!). My fellow Korean-American friends have mentioned negative experiences (one mother was furious when she found her child's teacher was Korean-American; one adult student quit the class when she found out her teacher was... you know the rest). So, instances of prejudice do seem to exist. However, I believe that you can certainly overcome it by being professional, amenable, and responsible (you also want to find a workplace with reasonably-minded people, of course).
I personally faced the problem for the first time a few weeks ago when I applied to an elementary school position through an agency which found out that the school only wanted to hire "native speakers." I must say, I was disappointed, but the recruiter was very nice in the way he told me, so I told him that I understood his position. However, all things happen for a reason, and I was contacted by another agency which was able to set up an interview with another public school position (interestingly, the rep told me that many public schools are actually preferring Korean-American teachers these days as they seem to have less "cultural problems"). Also, when I had put my resume up on the internet before that, I received about ten offers that merited serious consideration (aside from the recruiters and the not-particularly-attractive offers).
So basically, don't be shy or discouraged for just being a Korean-American. There are pros and cons, but it certainly doesn't have to keep you from finding a good job, making friends, and being happy. I personally love being bilingual (well, at least conversationally, since I can't read or write Korean all that well) and bicultural, as well as being able to show Koreans that a person of Korean heritage can speak English and be able to exist with both Western and Korean values. One time, an adult student that I had taught for years told me out of the blue that she had once thought all Korean-Americans were spoiled and came to Korea just to party in Apkujeong all the time with their parents' money, but I had shown her that was not true. That made my day. |
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CoolTeach

Joined: 19 Apr 2006 Location: Back in the USSR
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Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 3:51 pm Post subject: |
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blueskies
Joined: 15 Jun 2006
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Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 12:33 am Post subject: |
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I don't think of Gyopos as Korean-American. I think they are Korean who were educated in America. The only real Korea-Americans are Koreans who settle in the U.S. for good or a child born to a Korean and American.
Gypos don't take offense, but you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you come back to Korea, you lose your right to be called American. I mean it would look strange for me in America if I said I was an American-Korean. They would look and me and think what is this crazy caucasian talking about...  |
none taken but does that mean by your definition that even though I was raised in the US from the time that I was about 9 months old I'm no longer considered American since I decided to come here to teach for a year? And if you so desire, you may call yourself American-Korean (or anything else you'd like)..just make sure you get yourself Korean citizenship.
tek75, thanks for sharing your experience...it's a bit confusing here at times and sometimes kinda frustrating but it's reassuring to hear that the positives outweigh the negative. |
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Cheonmunka

Joined: 04 Jun 2004
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Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 1:55 pm Post subject: |
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If you are solely an American citizen then you are American.
Obviously, if one has a green card visa and a Korean passport they are not American as they are not citizens.
Just looking at the hanja for 교포.
僑胞 교포
외국에 살고 있는 동포. 재일 ~. 재미 ~.
Looking at that meaning and the further classification 동포 I can see that 'Kyopo' means someone who may have been born here but lived elsewhere. They may also have been born overseas because 교포 is linked exactly with 동포.
These Korean classifications have naught to do with citizenship. So, if you were a green card holder and Korean or even American citizen living elsewhere you can still be 교포, and with that can also be 동포.
同胞 동포
(1) 한 부모에게서 태어난 형제자매. (2) 한 나라 또는 한겨레에 딸려 있는 사람. 재외~.
In meaning attached to Korea through the Korean parent. Seems to presume birth here. But furthered in this meaning the person could have been born overseas also and still be 동포 through relation with parent(s).
You have your cake. You can eat it, slice it up and share it.
I wonder what my classification is: I guess from a Western point of view I'm an 'expat.' But in POV within Korea?
-I'm a Western country's citizen, F resident-visa holder, Korean children and (beautiful) Korean wife.
I'm not a true 외국인. I wanna be known as a 한책임자 or something more amicable or meaningful. 외국인 is a crappy classification for me. And is something I hate with a vengeance. I mean, I feel something akin to pride when I hear 대한민국, 아리랑, 애국가 ...
Can you suggest some classification for me, please? |
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tek75
Joined: 15 Jun 2006
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Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 3:06 pm Post subject: |
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| CoolTeach wrote: |
I don't think of Gyopos as Korean-American. I think they are Korean who were educated in America. The only real Korea-Americans are Koreans who settle in the U.S. for good or a child born to a Korean and American.
Gypos don't take offense, but you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you come back to Korea, you lose your right to be called American. I mean it would look strange for me in America if I said I was an American-Korean. They would look and me and think what is this crazy caucasian talking about...  |
I don't think that's really a fair analogy, unless you were had obtained legal Korean citizenship. And I think you were mainly referring to Korean-Americans who chose to come back to Korea permanently, weren't you? Regardless, it seems that an individual has the right to determine his self-identity. For example, I am proud of both my American citizenship and my Korean heritage, and I recognize both in identifying myself as a Korean-American. Ultimately, if the U.S. government and I both recognize my "American-ness," I don't really see how anyone else's opinion can deny that (or why anyone would want to). Still, I don't think you meant your comments with malicious intent, so I do appreciate that.
I also want to add that an American not of Korean descent who comes to Korea, obtains Korean citizenship, and decides to settle here permanently has every right to describe himself or herself as an American-Korean. Although some other people may find that "strange," it's really what you yourself think that matters. |
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Cheonmunka

Joined: 04 Jun 2004
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Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 3:54 pm Post subject: |
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What international Koreans should be proud of is that due to their unique strength of culture Koreans anywhere can still maintain heritage and roots very vividly. And can call themselves Korean even while maintaining a Western citizenship.
Americans who lose their citizenship while abroad can no longer claim to be American.
There's no sense in blaiming 교포's for this. One should be happy for them.
For their governments still accept them and have words for them while they are temporarily or permanently in the Diaspora.
If I give up my citizenship and fly back to my country my status will be, no more, no less than than if I were fresh off the boat from Somalia. I could no longer call that place 'my country.' Nor could I call myself by that previous nationality. Just 'some caucasian,' I guess. But with no extra rights than .... you know, anyone else in the world.
That is the effect of my government and culture in action.
A story. I applied for my wife's residence status while living in NZ, of which I'm a citizen. The office told me that my wife of 6 years, (and we have two children, and she half owner of a house there) has no better advantage for a residency permit than if we she were one half of a de-facto gay couple, without children, recently arrived from Somalia.
We were in the line and many gay and childless couples from Somalia and Germany were in front of us.
It took one year to have (such a simple thing) granted.
That's our liberal governments.
PS: We never used that residency permit, instead decided to return to Korea. |
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rodneyc863
Joined: 01 Jun 2006
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Posted: Sat Jun 24, 2006 1:06 am Post subject: |
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| A bit off topic but someone mentioned how Koreans looked down upon Chinese or Taiwanese? What about Chinese Americans? |
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wylies99

Joined: 13 May 2006 Location: I'm one cool cat!
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 12:38 am Post subject: |
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| If they (directors/owners) were SMARTER, they'd understand the VALUE of having a teacher who can speak English AND Korean, and understand both cultures. They can help students (especially older ones) with difficult questions, and they can also help co-workers understand each other. |
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Gwangjuboy
Joined: 08 Jul 2003 Location: England
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 6:23 am Post subject: |
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| wylies99 wrote: |
| If they (directors/owners) were SMARTER, they'd understand the VALUE of having a teacher who can speak English AND Korean |
Most gyopos I have met don't speak Korean. |
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Cheonmunka

Joined: 04 Jun 2004
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 1:23 pm Post subject: |
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| If they (directors/owners) were SMARTER, they'd understand the VALUE of having a teacher who can speak English AND Korean, and understand both cultures. They can help students (especially older ones) with difficult questions, and they can also help co-workers understand each other. |
These are the ideal staff for language teaching.
However this ability with dual language competancy is not restricted to race. There are a handful of foreigners who fit the bill with dedication to Korea, second language ability, and teaching certification.
Because they are (no matter whether living in Korea 20 years with Korean citizenship) still simply regarded as 'foreigners' (damned skin color, long nose and wide eyes!) it's hard for them to find acceptance among the general population.
When I am with my wife and children, we sometimes take the train people really enjoy my (mixed) children and fawn about them. I am treated very well with smiles of encouragement.
But sometimes I have to take the cheerless train alone and sometimes, seldom but now and then, I hear things like '저 개새끼 양놈 봐.'
This makes my life very difficult and is the kind of langauge I am sure, as a 교포, you do not hear.
I can't help think that Korean Americans have a much easier time of it than a caucasian-Korean who has been here many years longer. In my own mind I am assimilated into this culture. Yet, on the outside how can I be?
So, going back, there are many Korean Americans who have found success easier and faster than I.
I am still struggling for my family to get ahead. And restrictions in the past, and attempts to restrict in the present, based on my foreign-ness, far more restrictive than for 동포 and 교포 alike, have enabled this inequity. |
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ddeubel

Joined: 20 Jul 2005
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 8:28 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks to all those who posted so honestly. Enjoyed reading about all the varying (and some not) experiences. Enlightening.
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| Gypos don't take offense, but you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you come back to Korea, you lose your right to be called American. I mean it would look strange for me in America if I said I was an American-Korean. They would look and me and think what is this crazy caucasian talking about... |
This is what I don't like about America. Some people and usually those with very little 'world experience'. This "leaning" towards, "purity, causes a lot of grief in the world.
In my opinion you can have your cake and eat it too in this instance and in most instances in life. 'Bigots not withstanding.
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