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GreenBay
Joined: 18 Jul 2006
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 7:47 pm Post subject: Isn't it time the acid trip to Diagon Alley ends? |
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If you've only been in Korea for a year or two and are still enjoying the many pleasures of soju, hot Korean women (sorry ladies, but most Western women I met didn't find Korean guys attractive ... something or another about not enjoying being hit), all-night bars, wonderful food, the novelty of having no idea what people around you are saying, being told you look like Brad Pitt when nobody back home ever said that, being told you're an excellent teacher because your eyes are very clear, getting paid tonnes of money to play hangman, going to Buddhist temples ... (add additional comments here: _________________) ...... then please go on to the next discussion posting.
I'd like to offer a little bit of hope to the long-term hogwan teachers who really want to come home, but are concerned about the loss of income and job prospects.
I was in Korea for 7 years (one Ulsan, six Pohang) until Dec. 2004 when my Korean wife and 11-month-old son returned to Toronto.
It was a tough decision because I was making 2.4 million at my hangwon and 1.6 million in privates a month. We owned our own condo and my wife was teaching a few privates, too. I'm just saying we had a comfortable financial situation.
But, on the other hand I was so sick of broken contracts and promisses from wanjongnims and seeing friends come and go and watching the Super Bowl in Chinese and ...... well, I was homesick.
So, it was a real dilemma.
Anyways, to make a long story short, it has worked out pretty well.
At the age of 40 I went back to school. I took a one-year teaching certificate course at Medaille College, Buffalo, NY. It cost $20,000 Can., but the certificate is recognized by the Ontario Min. of Education.
There were times it was hard, for example working part-time in a yogurt factory for $8/hr. and going from shopping at Lotte Dept. Store to Dollarama.
After I finished school we moved to Mississauga, ON, and I applied to 65 jobs before I got an interview. Finally, I've been hired full-time by the Peel District School Board to teach a Grade 4/5 split for this coming September. The principal told me after she'd hired me she started off with over 300 resumes. So, the experience in Korea actually paid off.
What I'm trying to say is there is hope even though you've been out of the workforce for numerous years. Even if I never make the same money I was making in Korea again, it's really nice to be home.
Best of luck,
Dave |
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canuckistan Mod Team


Joined: 17 Jun 2003 Location: Training future GS competitors.....
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 8:01 pm Post subject: |
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Pyongshin Sangja

Joined: 20 Apr 2003 Location: I love baby!
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 9:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Maybe the acid trip would have been better if you'd stopped working in hagwons. You can come down nicely with university jobs. They really take the edge off everything and don't give you gut-rot. |
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passport220

Joined: 14 Jun 2006 Location: Gyeongsangbuk-do province
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 11:06 pm Post subject: |
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| Cool post. Congrats on the new gig. |
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SuperFly

Joined: 09 Jul 2003 Location: In the doghouse
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Posted: Thu Jul 20, 2006 2:14 am Post subject: |
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Nice post, reminds me of this article I read about seven years ago...I saved it for posterity:
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By Marko Gamula
The Making of an Expat 1997 October issue.
�Tea is green and suites are blue.
They are them, but who are you?�
All foreigners in Japan are different, whether we are looking for spiritual growth, romance, fame or adventure. We can be divided into three groups; people who�ve just arrived, people who�ve been here for one year, and people who don�t like to be reminded. Personally, I like to say two years. That way the Japanese can say: �Oh, your Japanese is really good!� If I say five years, there�s a long silence, then: �Japanese is pretty difficult, huh?�
In analyzing �we foreigners�, a perceptive observer would notice different goals. The newcomers want to study: Zen, Noh, kabuki, or other esoteric things. People who stay for one year want to go back home and study to finish their degree, and the lifers � we�re not that na�ve. We want money.
There are more obvious differences. People who just came off the boat are very easy to dislike. They always tell you how many kanji they know. And they have strange ideas about Japan. Acculturation means to stop eating at McDonalds. In six months they�ll be able to talk like a native. Most important in their eyes, they think living here will take virtually no money. They arrive, clutching letters from friends in Japan, saying they can find anything they want in the garbage. They just have to hop on an �abandoned bicycle�
And go look.
After surviving the first year however, we finally start psychologically adjusting to life here. The na�ve glow disappears. A paranoiac image of being swamped in a sea of Orientals surfaces. �Japan avoidance� begins. Natives are now afraid to practice their English on us in the subway. We sit every day on the train, with a harassed look on our face, compulsively reading novels from our native home. Brushing up on our Nihongo is unnecessary. Our long-suffering Japanese girlfriends try to explain everything. We become adept at more important things instead. We can slurp Soba and not get gas. We�ve memorized the food we like, so we don�t have to look at restaurant menus. We now recognize the kanji for �Men�s section� at the public bath. Though we all struggle to adapt after our own fashion, we�re still faced with the same seemingly insurmountable problem: we�re living in a sensory overload environment. There�s so much happening that nothing gets through. We can�t understand the TV, the newspapers, the signs, or anything that people are trying to tell us. Confronted with unavoidable interaction, we recoil a little bit, then give our stock answer.
Not knowing, not understanding makes life very difficult. Some of us try to cope, with great plans to study Japanese; we find the commitment too much though, once we start to dabble. Since we�re always so tense and out of touch however, some of us start getting definite ideas about our new specialty and how it fits into the big picture.
The evolutionary end product of foreigners living in Japan is a condition called �Liferism�, characterized by: one�s apartment completely furnished from things found in the garbage, letting one�s �ticket out� expire, or using it for an annual hop to Hong Kong, the realization that the �Japanese experience� must have happened to someone else.
On the surface, lifers seem acculturated, but we�re not. We�re lost in a cultural limbo. We still can�t speak Japanese. Our textbooks were thrown out the moment we bought a bilingual TV. We�ve stopped socializing with the locals. Our emotional needs are now taken care of by our video rental card. Our English has totally degenerated into an incoherent mix of broken sentences, faulty pronunciation and �eh, to neh!� Unable to see our own mistakes, we relentlessly persist in correcting others.
However, compared to all the other foreigners coming and going in a never ending stream, lifers can be a distinct pleasure to talk to. There are no blinding revelations about the size of Oriental cockroaches. We don�t get defensive about being �different�. We never compulsively criticize or belittle Japan. Life here hasn�t mellowed us, We just can�t remember anyplace else.
What we expect and what we find in Japan, changes us. The benefit of our hindsight is lost on people we talk to. The newcomers don�t listen, or resent us for being here before them. Many kinds of people try to come and make a life in Japan, but few survive. It really doesn�t matter. There�ll always be fresh smiling faces willing to try. They�ll learn. |
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I_Am_Wrong
Joined: 14 Sep 2004 Location: whatever
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Posted: Thu Jul 20, 2006 4:30 am Post subject: |
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| moral of the story: Ontario school boards (and Ontario in general) suck ass. |
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bnrockin
Joined: 27 Feb 2006
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Posted: Thu Jul 20, 2006 6:45 am Post subject: |
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hmmm definately didn't have the warm fuzzy ending of the story I was expecting to see. Why didn't you just try to go to a different country to teach or was it just that you wanted a job back home so much? I hope finding a job back home won't be as much trouble for me 3 years later.
So about the contracts breaking...did you break them or did the companies? What areas did they break and what were the reasons? |
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GreenBay
Joined: 18 Jul 2006
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Posted: Thu Jul 20, 2006 8:10 am Post subject: |
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Superfly, that's a great article you posted.
bnrockin
So about the contracts breaking...did you break them or did the companies? What areas did they break and what were the reasons?
Well, first of all I broke every contract I had because I taught privates. Since I was only in Korea for the last few years because of the money, it made sense to me. The last two years of living in Korea, I only told people back home, "Yea, the money's great," because it's the only positive thing I could think of to say.
Also, my hogwan was a far distance from my school so taxi fare was expensive and I was supporting a family. It came pretty close to costing 2 million a month to live with diapers to buy and condo maintenance fees ... etc. There was no way I was going to stay in Korea and live hand-to-mouth. I can do that back home.
If I listed all the contract violations committed by the three directors I worked for, this would be a long e-mail indeed. My first year in Ulsan, my "furnished apartment" was an empty room next to an elderly lady's house with a bed, a portable single-burner for cooking that used gas bottles and a bar fridge. No sheets, no pillow, no TV, no radio, no washing machine ... no nothing. The highlight of that year was being told my two weeks vacation in my contract was actually the combination of all Korean national holidays.
Skipping, many, many examples.
My last year, my director tried to cut my summer vaction from one week to 3 days. Only after I said I'm quiting did she let me take the week when she figured out it would cost her more money to quickly replace me then the give me the week.
Anyways, blah, blah, blah ..... lots of good things happened in Korea, too. But, generally speaking, not related to working. |
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bnrockin
Joined: 27 Feb 2006
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Posted: Thu Jul 20, 2006 8:31 am Post subject: |
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| I can definately understand your reasoning behind teaching privates. That really sucks that they screwed you over so bad on those things on your contract. What can you do to prevent those sorts of things? I was thinking about asking the companies that I apply for, for pictures of the apartment I would be staying at, though they could easily take a picture of a furnished apt. and say oh we never said it would be furnished. |
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