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Noisy,Inconsiderate Neighbors: Any Advice?

 
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Troll_Bait



Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Location: [T]eaching experience doesn't matter much. -Lee Young-chan (pictured)

PostPosted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 6:36 pm    Post subject: Noisy,Inconsiderate Neighbors: Any Advice? Reply with quote

This comes from this thread(Do you know your neighbors?)

Troll_Bait wrote:
I live in a villa building and there's one apartment across from mine.
Our doors are only about five feet from each other.
A family with two young, noisy children lives there.
For whatever reason, they always leave their door wide open.
Once, in my limited Korean, I asked the woman, "Because of the noise, could you please close your door?"
I believe that she understood me, as she closed it -for all of ten minutes.
The kids pipe down just a bit in the evenings as the father comes home, and then I get to hear him barking at people.
They only close their door around eleven o'clock at night (their kids are still up until that time, and beyond).

Why do they think that they have some kind of right to inflict their family's noise upon me?

And what, if anything, can I do about it?


rothkowitz wrote:
Declare war.


wylies99 wrote:
There's a bunch of them that leave their doors wide open- sometimes all night. In Korea, I guess they can do that. Try that in the US- see how long your possessions remain in your apartment.


crystal wrote:
Yeah the door open thing is a bit weird, I wouldn't want people been able to see into my home. I looked out my window at about 5 this morning and an adjuma who lives in the building next door had her front door open and was lying asleep just inside the door, bit weird.


Actually, they now have a semi-transparent curtain hanging just inside the door, so they do shield the interior of their home from prying eyes.

seoulsista wrote:
The door open thing is because they are trying to get a wind tunnel effect going on in their apartments so they don't have to turn on the AC. They open all the windows and the front door and try to get that started.


I figured that it was something like that, seeing as how it's been so hot and humid recently. I asked her if she had any air-conditioning, and she said no. I asked her if she had a fan, and she said yes, one of those wall-mounted models. It was my subtle way of suggesting that I knew the reason why she had her door open all the time. She seemed a bit embarassed when I talked to her, but that could be for any number of reasons.
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mole



Joined: 06 Feb 2003
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PostPosted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 6:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

um.. earplugs are cheap and readily available.
My neighbors have two yappy dogs and both of us keep the doors open.
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Troll_Bait



Joined: 04 Jan 2006
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PostPosted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 7:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

First, my sense of hearing seems to be pretty good. Even with earplugs, I can still hear things.

Second, I've found that having the door closed makes much more of a difference than wearing earplugs.

Third, earplugs are to used once and thrown away. That money adds up after a while, especially since I use the higher-quality (and thus more expensive) earplugs that can be bought at the pharmaceutical section of HomePlus.

Fourth, making your neighbor wear earplugs because you can't be bothered to close your door is, in my humble opinion, just plain rude.
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JongnoGuru



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PostPosted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 7:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If I were you, I'd talk to them directly about it. And whether I really needed one or not, I'd bring along a Korean friend to serve as "interpreter" purely for diplomacy's sake.

What they might say:

We're sorry. We'll try to be quieter. (They may or may not follow through, so be prepared to speak to them again should things get noisy.)

We have no A/C, so we have no choice but to leave our door open. (You can't force them to buy an A/C or to close their door. All you can do is tell them to keep the kids quiet around the house until the weather cools enough for them to shut their door.)

Kids are naturally noisy/This is Korea/etc. So just deal with it. (Tell them you'll bring the matter up with the building management and the police. And actually do that. If they're no help, the next time your neighbours raise a din, you open your door, aim your stereo speakers straight into their home, and commence firing.)

BTW, how soon will you or the neighbours be moving out? Might be worth finding out.
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