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Non-Asian guys with women from Southeast Asia

 
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RJjr



Joined: 17 Aug 2006
Location: Turning on a Lamp

PostPosted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 6:54 am    Post subject: Non-Asian guys with women from Southeast Asia Reply with quote

This question is for guys like Mr. Squirrel who have wives from Southeast Asia:

Do the locals here still look upset and bark things to your woman for being with a non-Asian, or do they let it slide since she's not Korean?
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samd



Joined: 03 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 10:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Who cares?
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Mashimaro



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: location, location

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 3:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Heaps of Korean men are marrying women from vietnam etc. so it'd be pretty hypocritical if there were any said anything negative to a whitie in the same boat
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spliff



Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 3:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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This question is for guys like Mr. Squirrel who have wives from Southeast Asia:

Do the locals here still look upset and bark things to your woman for being with a non-Asian, or do they let it slide since she's not Korean?


If I understand your question properly, nope, not a problem... Sure, they look but nobody ever says anything. Very Happy Actually, don't think ole Squirrels presently in a position to answer your question...
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RJjr



Joined: 17 Aug 2006
Location: Turning on a Lamp

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 6:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mashimaro wrote:
Heaps of Korean men are marrying women from vietnam etc. so it'd be pretty hypocritical if there were any said anything negative to a whitie in the same boat


While I agree that it would be hypocritical, heaps of Korean men date Korean women, but people still get upset if I do the exact same thing. They haven't been as mean about it lately, since I've been clean-shaven.

I'm going to Vietnam as soon as my contract ends in June to visit my favorite girlfriend and look for a job. But if I can't find a good one there, I might bring her up here, but I don't want to put her in a hostile environment.

spliff wrote:
If I understand your question properly, nope, not a problem... Sure, they look but nobody ever says anything. Very Happy Actually, don't think ole Squirrels presently in a position to answer your question...


That's great that you're not getting hassled with your chick. Where's she from? And why can't Squirrel reply? I thought his wife is Thai.
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Mashimaro



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 3:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

RJjr wrote:
Mashimaro wrote:
Heaps of Korean men are marrying women from vietnam etc. so it'd be pretty hypocritical if there were any said anything negative to a whitie in the same boat


While I agree that it would be hypocritical, heaps of Korean men date Korean women, but people still get upset if I do the exact same thing. They haven't been as mean about it lately, since I've been clean-shaven.


True that just because something is hyprocritical doesn't mean it won't happen. Personally I've never had any problems when walking around korea with asian women, korean or otherwise.
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mrsquirrel



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 3:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I ain't in a position to answer since the cake at the Korean consulate is being just that a cake.

Need to sort out some paperwork this end first.
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spliff



Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 3:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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That's great that you're not getting hassled with your chick. Where's she from?


Errr, my wife is from Thailand, Issan...as you probably could have guessed from my sig... Very Happy
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lowpo



Joined: 01 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 4:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

spliff wrote:
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That's great that you're not getting hassled with your chick. Where's she from?


Errr, my wife is from Thailand, Issan...as you probably could have guessed from my sig... Very Happy


My wife is from China and everyone looks at her like she is from another planet. Sometimes I wonder if she is from another planet. She is not your typical asain lady.
Yesterday we went to a festival to celebrate The 41st King Danjong Festival.
She was wearing a baseball cap backwards. over sized t-shirt, bluejeans, and glasses. Then to top it off she had two cameras hanging around her neck.
She had about 2,000 people that could not keep their eyes off her. Then to top it all off she was hanging around a white guy.
All the Korean love my wife no matter how funky she dresses.
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mrsquirrel



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 4:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

As long as I don't see cartoon character clothing I'm happy, however any sign of Mickey and Co. and I'm off.
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Colorado



Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Location: Public School with too much time on my hands.

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 6:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My wife is Thai-Khmer from Issan. We've been here in a small city for more than a year. She still gets a lot of stares, more than I do, but she's learned to laugh it off. Nearly all Koreans that we meet are friendly and curious and tell her that she's beautiful. I couldn't agree more.
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jaganath69



Joined: 17 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 1:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My wife is from Indonesia and while we get a few stares, there has been none of the malicious 'what are you doing with the waygook' stuff that some of my Korean-girl-dating mates have got. Now we have a baby, I find we attract a bit more interest; people are keen to see how our son looks.
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