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DON'T GO TO HARLEM OR NB

 
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After reading this, would you still go to Club NB or Harlem?
Yes
60%
 60%  [ 3 ]
Maybe
40%
 40%  [ 2 ]
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martinjr99



Joined: 14 Sep 2006

PostPosted: Thu Sep 14, 2006 6:51 pm    Post subject: DON'T GO TO HARLEM OR NB Reply with quote

My friends and I were kicked out of Harlem (a club) in Gangnam last Saturday for sitting in the reserved section even though all the seats were unoccupied. We reluctantly got up from the seats, but the bouncers responded with unnecessary violence. One bouncer head locked my friend. Another bouncer grabbed my girlfriend�s arm, twisted it and then shoved her. That same bouncer pushed and shoved me down to the ground (I�m only 5�6� and weigh 120 pounds so I wasn�t any threat) and in the process, my watch, which was a gift from my sister got broken. I also have a scar on my elbow as well as a bruised back from this incident. All of this violence could have been avoided.

I didn�t realize my watch was broken until the next day. So I went to Harlem with a Korean friend Wednesday night to settle the matter. I wanted my watch fixed or replaced, since there was no need for the bouncer to shove me to the ground. Unfortunately, they would not meet my request. Their reason was that they had no proof that the watch was broken that Saturday night.

The watch was not that expensive, but that is not the issue here. I don�t want adoptees / kyopos / other foreigners to be taken advantage of just because we can�t speak Korean. I feel like the only way for me to get the owner�s attention (since he won�t speak to me directly) is to boycott all the Harlem/NB clubs (since they are all owned by the same person) until this mattered is resolved. In fact, because of the way I was treated, I don�t plan on going to any of those clubs ever again. I ask you to join me in this boycott to show that we will not be walked all over. Please tell all your friends (Koreans as well) about this unfortunate situation. If you have any other ideas on how to settle this matter, please let me know. Thank you all for your support.

Jeremy
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okokok



Joined: 27 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Thu Sep 14, 2006 8:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You need to hit the gym.
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deadman



Joined: 27 May 2006
Location: Suwon

PostPosted: Thu Sep 14, 2006 9:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

okokok wrote:
You need to hit the gym.
That may or amy not be true, but it's irrelevant to this situation. Do you think if he was 10-20 lbs heavier he could have taken on those excessively violent bouncers?
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okokok



Joined: 27 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Thu Sep 14, 2006 9:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

deadman wrote:
okokok wrote:
You need to hit the gym.
That may or amy not be true, but it's irrelevant to this situation. Do you think if he was 10-20 lbs heavier he could have taken on those excessively violent bouncers?


It was a joke. Stop taking everything so seriously.

And no, adding 20 pounds to a buck 20 frame is not gonna do much, even in Korea.

At the same time, I've never met a tough Korean in my life. Choi Hong-Man is the best they've got, and he's even a *beep*.
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flotsam



Joined: 28 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 2:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My new school is in East Harlem. No problems so far.
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Howard Roark



Joined: 02 Feb 2003
Location: Canada

PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 4:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I voted "maybe". But I wouldn't go to those clubs anyway.
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 4:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

That's not a fun story at all. What did you mean by "reluctantly", though?
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gang ah jee



Joined: 14 Jan 2003
Location: city of paper

PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 4:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Howard Roark wrote:
I voted "maybe". But I wouldn't go to those clubs anyway.

I voted maybe because here and now sober I'm all like 'nah they suck' but if i was partying and got my drink on with some buddies I could see that I might start thinking i was all about NB. So I wouldn't want to be all liquored up, pay the cover charge, walk in and then be all 'i voted in an online poll that i would never come here again. I'm a liar.' I'd be all like damn.
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jaganath69



Joined: 17 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 5:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

While I sympathise with the OP, I fully respect the rights of an establishment to allow whoever it likes in and conversely to dissallow to the point of discrimination. I also support the right of individuals to boycott such beeped up places.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 8:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What does a section of NYC have to do with a province (a CLUB????) in Canada?
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