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Strange things about Korea (from a Chinese perspective)
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Yeolchae



Joined: 24 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 5:01 am    Post subject: Strange things about Korea (from a Chinese perspective) Reply with quote

1. When Koreans lift their glass to drink any alcoholic beverage with someone senior, they always turn to one side.

2. If a Korean�s glass is empty they pass the bottle to the person sitting with them. (In Korean culture it is frowned upon to pour yourself a glass; the proper etiquette is pouring for each other.)

3. Koreans are already putting the next bite of food in their mouths before they finished chewing the last bit.

4. Koreans use chopsticks for the side dishes but spoons for rice and soup.

5. If a Koreans suffer indigestion after meals, they treat it by pricking their fingers with needles. (This is an old folk remedy.)

6. Elderly Koreans often say, �Now that I�ve reached old age, I see every eyesore.� (read: �My goodness, times have changed,� �Where�s the world heading?� etc.)

7. Korean women often resort to hair-pulling when fighting.

8. When someone hits a subordinate, it is always on the head, and most often across the back of the head.

9. The wealthy have contempt for those without, and those on the lower rungs kiss the feet of their superiors. Korean society treats the wealthy and the poor completely differently.

10. If you go into a house you must take off your shoes.

11. After sleeping, the blankets and pillows go in the closet. If Koreans go into a room, they always shut the windows and doors.

12. Many marriages are arranged for expediency or convenience.

from http://english.chosun.com/w21data/html/news/200609/200609180026.html
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TheRecruiter



Joined: 24 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 5:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

wow, what stunning cultural insights. Marriages are often arranged for convenience, old people are often remarking about how things have changed, the poor are treated worse than the rich ...

I'll stay tuned for the next 12 ...
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Yeolchae



Joined: 24 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 6:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The 12 above were the highlights.

There was 80 of them apparently.

Imagine how good the other 68 must have been.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 1:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I thought those were interesting. If I find a strange East Asian in my living room wearing shoes and stealing my TV, I'll know to say nee-how instead of anyanghasayo.
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lastat06513



Joined: 18 Mar 2003
Location: Sensus amo Caesar , etiamnunc victus amo uni plebian

PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 2:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

One thing I have noticed in the last few years I was in Korea that completely blew my mind- Koreans actually believe in "face"

I thought that was a completely Chinese feeling, but I have noticed that Koreans try to keep "face" also, sometimes alot more than Chinese in many ways.

There are some patterns that I have noticed that apparently never made the list....


HEY everyone.....why don't we "help out" and "finish" this list by adding some patterns we've noticed while staying in Korea.
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 3:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

lastat06513 wrote:
One thing I have noticed in the last few years I was in Korea that completely blew my mind- Koreans actually believe in "face"

I thought that was a completely Chinese feeling, but I have noticed that Koreans try to keep "face" also, sometimes alot more than Chinese in many ways.

There are some patterns that I have noticed that apparently never made the list....


HEY everyone.....why don't we "help out" and "finish" this list by adding some patterns we've noticed while staying in Korea.


People in America do their best to save face, too. It's not unique to Asian cultures, by any means. Haven't you ever seen a George Bush speech?
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lastat06513



Joined: 18 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 3:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

But, "face" is an individual thing here- it is not something that whole communities do, unlike in northeast Asia.
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Troll_Bait



Joined: 04 Jan 2006
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 4:07 pm    Post subject: Re: Strange things about Korea (from a Chinese perspective) Reply with quote

Yeolchae wrote:
1. When Koreans lift their glass to drink any alcoholic beverage with someone senior, they always turn to one side.

2. If a Korean�s glass is empty they pass the bottle to the person sitting with them. (In Korean culture it is frowned upon to pour yourself a glass; the proper etiquette is pouring for each other.)

3. Koreans are already putting the next bite of food in their mouths before they finished chewing the last bit.

4. Koreans use chopsticks for the side dishes but spoons for rice and soup.


5. If a Koreans suffer indigestion after meals, they treat it by pricking their fingers with needles. (This is an old folk remedy.)

6. Elderly Koreans often say, �Now that I�ve reached old age, I see every eyesore.� (read: �My goodness, times have changed,� �Where�s the world heading?� etc.)

7. Korean women often resort to hair-pulling when fighting.

8. When someone hits a subordinate, it is always on the head, and most often across the back of the head.

9. The wealthy have contempt for those without, and those on the lower rungs kiss the feet of their superiors. Korean society treats the wealthy and the poor completely differently.

10. If you go into a house you must take off your shoes.

11. After sleeping, the blankets and pillows go in the closet. If Koreans go into a room, they always shut the windows and doors.

12. Many marriages are arranged for expediency or convenience.

from http://english.chosun.com/w21data/html/news/200609/200609180026.html


Red:

Pardon me? How else are they supposed to eat soup?

Green:

So do Chinese women really use kung-fu (wu-shu) when fighting?
Western women also seem to pull hair when fighting.
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bnrockin



Joined: 27 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 4:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

4. Well...we use forks for side dishes and spoons for soup...
7. Where do women not pull hair?
10. I have seen many people take off their shoes before going into someones house
12. Arranged marriages happen in many countries as well.


I would like to see the things that Koreans think are strange about the U.S.
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periwinkle



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 5:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If guys had long hair, guys would probably pull each other's hair, too. Wink Painful~
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gang ah jee



Joined: 14 Jan 2003
Location: city of paper

PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 5:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

lastat06513 wrote:
But, "face" is an individual thing here- it is not something that whole communities do, unlike in northeast Asia.

What? Why is the Olympic Games so popular then?
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rocklee



Joined: 04 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 5:17 pm    Post subject: Re: Strange things about Korea (from a Chinese perspective) Reply with quote

Quote:
1. When Koreans lift their glass to drink any alcoholic beverage with someone senior, they always turn to one side.


I've seen Aussies do this to barf.

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2. If a Korean�s glass is empty they pass the bottle to the person sitting with them. (In Korean culture it is frowned upon to pour yourself a glass; the proper etiquette is pouring for each other.)


Same as Japan and in some places in China.

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3. Koreans are already putting the next bite of food in their mouths before they finished chewing the last bit.


Same as the Chinese.

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4. Koreans use chopsticks for the side dishes but spoons for rice and soup.


Same as most people who can't use chopsticks to eat rice, and it is possible to drink soup without a spoon.


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6. Elderly Koreans often say, �Now that I�ve reached old age, I see every eyesore.� (read: �My goodness, times have changed,� �Where�s the world heading?� etc.)


Same as any other cranky old timer.

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7. Korean women often resort to hair-pulling when fighting.


Isn't that how women fight? Laughing


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8. When someone hits a subordinate, it is always on the head, and most often across the back of the head.


Same as China and Japan.

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10. If you go into a house you must take off your shoes.


Same as Japan and in most houses in China.

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11. After sleeping, the blankets and pillows go in the closet. If Koreans go into a room, they always shut the windows and doors.


Same as Japan.
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gang ah jee



Joined: 14 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 5:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Remember, these observations are based on the experiences of Chinese people who watch Korean dramas on television.

Not that there's anything wrong with that - watching television is how I learned everything I know about the US.
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rocklee



Joined: 04 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 6:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do you know how big China is and how insignificant it is to take a poll from a pinch of the population to draw such conclusions?

I see a lot of similarities between Chinese and Koreans if my experiences help.
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Juregen



Joined: 30 May 2006

PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 11:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

periwinkle wrote:
If guys had long hair, guys would probably pull each other's hair, too. Wink Painful~


guys never pull hair of other guys, it is too sissy.
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