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Puppy dog syndrome

 
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seoulman1



Joined: 02 Feb 2007
Location: Jamsil

PostPosted: Sat May 19, 2007 5:22 am    Post subject: Puppy dog syndrome Reply with quote

Why in Korea is there a huge emphasis (for women) to speak, act and appear like a little baby? At first I found it appealing but after time it has become annoying and degrading.

Turn on your TV and listen to the end of each advertisment. I will guarantee the at least 95% of them end in a woman singing a little rhyme in the voice of a toddler!

What must the toddlers think of this when grown women are stealing their fire!
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milarka



Joined: 27 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2007 8:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i don't know either, but it can be very irritating if you have to spend more than the desired time with one who suffers of this desease.
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Ozabout7or8



Joined: 04 May 2007
Location: NZ

PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2007 1:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am not sure how long you have been here, but of all the Korean women I have met who put on the 'puppy dog' expressions for children, they were able to produce the exact opposite for me.

It is a 'show' and Asians probably view television as more of a show than we do in the West. What I mean is they don't expect ad's to be like real life. We do however, and wonder why they are not.

It is like a woman I am studying ESL teaching with from Thailand, who put's on some kind of massive show each time she teaches. I realised that that is how she learnt in Thailand that teachers should be. I am more natural and like myself when teaching and this is also a product of what I was exposed to growing up.

All I am saying is it is a show and don't expect that woman to act like that alone with her man (or you). If she does then I would say she has issues.
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Scotticus



Joined: 18 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2007 3:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've definitely met more than a few of the baby talkers. Yes, it's creepy and degrading. No, I don't get how anyone would find it appealing.

And in response to the OP, HOW could you EVER find that attractive, even for a little while. It's sooooo creepy.
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kingtout



Joined: 03 May 2007
Location: ROK...again...

PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2007 4:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Scotticus wrote:
I've definitely met more than a few of the baby talkers. Yes, it's creepy and degrading. No, I don't get how anyone would find it appealing.

And in response to the OP, HOW could you EVER find that attractive, even for a little while. It's sooooo creepy.


It may be the most disturbing human behavior I've ever encountered. All I can do is to tell each Korean lady, one by one, to act her freaking age. I've got a ways more to go, before I can inform them all.
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Natalie



Joined: 16 Apr 2007

PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2007 4:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree. gross. So are the two guys that dress up in babeies' nappies on that comedy show.

One of my 20 year old male students whined like a baby and I told him if he did it again I'd kick him out of class. That shut him up. haha
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