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Another crappy thing about Korea (and Ajosshis)
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Mashimaro



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 07, 2003 4:13 am    Post subject: Another crappy thing about Korea (and Ajosshis) Reply with quote

This from a survey of Korean teenagers:
"4.9 percent said they lost their virginity during ��wonjogyoje,�� an illicit relationship between an adult male and teenage schoolgirl where the former offers money or gifts in return for sex."


From the article:
1 in 5 Teens Have Sexual Experience
http://www.koreatimes.com/english/
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Bulsajo



Joined: 16 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2003 5:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, at least they're not called 'sponsors' the way they are in Japan [yet.....]
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Gord



Joined: 25 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2003 10:51 am    Post subject: Re: Another crappy thing about Korea (and Ajosshis) Reply with quote

Mashimaro wrote:
This from a survey of Korean teenagers:
"4.9 percent said they lost their virginity during ��wonjogyoje,�� an illicit relationship between an adult male and teenage schoolgirl where the former offers money or gifts in return for sex."


In the western world, these men are often called "sugar daddies" and is about as common. Hardly a Korean exclusive trait.
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GirlFromMars



Joined: 15 May 2003
Location: Corea do Sul

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2003 11:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

it's not as common in the western world as you think

i know this because i went to a catholic high school

and everyone knows catholic high school girls are the naughtiest of all and i never saw it happen

losing their virginity by starting affairs with teachers is a whole other story (that may one day be threaded on this board)

not me btw
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sakamuras



Joined: 21 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2003 1:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

you generalize based on your own isolated perspective. this sort of thing is common EVERYWHERE! i really don't know what the main point of this thread is. more korea/korean men bashing i presume.

GirlFromMars wrote:
it's not as common in the western world as you think

i know this because i went to a catholic high school

and everyone knows catholic high school girls are the naughtiest of all and i never saw it happen

losing their virginity by starting affairs with teachers is a whole other story (that may one day be threaded on this board)

not me btw
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GirlFromMars



Joined: 15 May 2003
Location: Corea do Sul

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2003 1:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh, lighten up, I was teasing!

Anyway, I still don't think it's all that common, if you think of every woman you know, how many do you actually know that has lost their virginity to a sugar daddy?

Or did you hear from a friend of a friend of a friend?

I'm still just kidding!! I have no idea how common it is but you say I'm commenting from my own isolated perspective, how is that different from your perspective? When did you get so much credibility all of a sudden?

This is just a pervy thread for all the Western guys to fantasise about teenage Korean virgins (or not as the case may be)

But to the OP, I am curious to know if the 4.9% is of the total teenagers surveyed or of the teenagers who said they had lost their virginity?
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itaewonguy



Joined: 25 Mar 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2003 3:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wouldnt say its bashing!
Korean adeosis are not faithful husbands and it is proven, I think this thread is just a branch off the sexual appitite of korean men and younger girls..

koreans want to be known as nice people caring, conservative what EVER!
look around this city its a sexual playground for koreanmen with 50 bucks to spend to 1000 bucks.. these room salons or sex houses usually have woman aged 18-24 the adeosis that go to these places are 22-70..
a 65 year old adeosis doing a 18 korean girl! and its legal!!
makes you think of thailand dont it! I am not saying this doesnt happen in the western world of course it does!!!!
but why dont koreans just come out and be open about it!
they try to play the image of the FAMILY man, the good husband.. YEAH RIGHT!! they dont have any respect for their wives!

why are their so many *beep* house, roomsalons, etc,, they are ALL ILLEGAL but the governments turn the blind eye and try to tell the outside world its illegal and run by mafia YEAH RIGHT!!!

yes american has brothals ! but they dont try to say they dont!!

anyway have you ever heard about BEING THE SECOND!

in korea most rich guys or guys in gerneral, in power etc.. have a second
girl... all the movie stars and singers are being used as second to older high position men.. one teenie bopper girl you see on TV is second to about 3-4 different old men!!

normal husbands also have seconds the wives etc...
MY POINT IS!!!
this country is SEXUAL!!! and they need to stop being hyprocites and be HONEST!!!
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kojangee



Joined: 11 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2003 3:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wanna be a suggadaddy but don't wanna spend all my sugga!

PS

Hey Gord cute little maid ya got there Wink
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On the other hand



Joined: 19 Apr 2003
Location: I walk along the avenue

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2003 3:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Itaewon guy:

Many Koreans I've met quite openly acknowledge the widespread existence of a sex trade in this country, and a few have even discusssed with me their own participation in it. So, I'm not sure its accurate to say that there is a lot of hypocrisy surrounding this issue. I suspect your outrage at the alleged hypocrisy is just a cover for an ethnocentric dislike of the sex trade.
While prostitution per se is relatively taboo in most English-speaking countries, pornography is a huge business in those countries. I daresay most males I know(not to mention a few females) have, in one way or another, purchased porn at some time in their lives. And I for one can see no moral difference between paying a woman to have sex in person and paying to watch her have sex on camera. You think a porn star's parents are any happier with their daughter's career choice than a prostitute's? But then, its always funner to bash other people's cultures isn't it?
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dutchman



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PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2003 4:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

itaewonguy wrote:
Korean adeosis are not faithful husbands and it is proven,


Are you? Just curious.
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The Cube



Joined: 01 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2003 3:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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sakamuras



Joined: 21 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2003 1:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

itaewonguy wrote:
I wouldnt say its bashing!
Korean adeosis are not faithful husbands and it is proven


Where has this been proven? This is such a GROSS misconception. I still can't believe you just wrote that. You're pretty much pigeonholing a whole race of men. You wouldn't say it's bashing?

I'm of Korean heritage and probably know 1000's of more "adeosis" than you do. You are sadly mistaken with your narrowminded judgement.

Idiotic statement...plain and simple. Perhaps you might want to do something other than slumming around in Itaewon and open your eyes a bit.
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sakamuras



Joined: 21 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2003 1:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

itaewonguy wrote:
a 65 year old adeosis doing a 18 korean girl! and its legal!!


Woah? It's Legal????

I don't know where you come from but it's perfectly LEGAL for a 65 year old to have sex with an 18 year old in EVERY STATE in the U.S.! Perhaps you should get a bit more educated before you post such frivolous and erroneous statements.
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GirlFromMars



Joined: 15 May 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2003 2:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Cube wrote:
Besides, the saying goes that prostitutes of any variety don't kiss and tell. Would you have told your friends or classmates if you did it?


No, that's why I'm surprised so many have told you
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Cedar



Joined: 11 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2003 4:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Guys, lighten up!

Korea ajoshis are NOT the devil incarnate. There are some who run around, and there are some who might if it was shoved in their face really easy, and there are some who go to prostitutes cause they are still doing that Madonna/Wh-ore thing in their mind and can't ask their wife to do the "dirty" things they secretly want. But there are also plenty of ajoshis who are faithful and loving husbands.

Korean girls don't have sex with ajoshis because they are poor or drug addicted. They do it cause they want to buy a new phone with photo taking capability or a new summer wardrobe.
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