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Would you prefer them to sit by you, or leave you alone?
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Junior



Joined: 18 Nov 2005
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:29 am    Post subject: Would you prefer them to sit by you, or leave you alone? Reply with quote

Every time on the subway or in the PC bang its the same. Grown men walk over to the vacant seat beside me, then hesitate when they notice a waygook is there. Trembling and stressed, they then make some excuse to whoever they're with and go elsewhere.

A minute ago I was just about to tell the guy to have a seat and relax. Its going to be ok, foreigners do not bite and there was nothing to be afraid of.

then suddnly i realised..its actually much more prefereable that these juveniles sit somewhere else away from me.
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Big_Bird



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe you have the wild fanatical stare and appearance of an Islamic extremist?! Wink
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:35 am    Post subject: Re: Would you prefer them to sit by you, or leave you alone? Reply with quote

Junior wrote:
Every time on the subway or in the PC bang its the same. Grown men walk over to the vacant seat beside me, then hesitate when they notice a waygook is there. Trembling and stressed, they then make some excuse to whoever they're with and go elsewhere.

A minute ago I was just about to tell the guy to have a seat and relax. Its going to be ok, foreigners do not bite and there was nothing to be afraid of.

then suddnly i realised..its actually much more prefereable that these juveniles sit somewhere else away from me.

there's wireless internet on the subway?
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Junior



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Big_Bird wrote:
Maybe you have the wild fanatical stare and appearance of an Islamic extremist?! Wink


Thats true, I should leave my assault rifle at home sometimes.
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Big_Bird



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Or maybe you look like this?



Or maybe you look like a wild and hungry gay man on the prowl?

Or maybe you simply need to use more deodorant.

No one has a problem sitting next to me! Razz
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Big_Bird



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Junior wrote:
Big_Bird wrote:
Maybe you have the wild fanatical stare and appearance of an Islamic extremist?! Wink


Thats true, I should leave my assault rifle at home sometimes.


Laughing
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Satori



Joined: 09 Dec 2005
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

On the immediate level its neither here nor there if they sit down or not. But it would be better for life in Korea for westerners if the thinking behind why they chose not to sit down did not exist...
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Junior



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Big_Bird wrote:

No one has a problem sitting next to me! Razz


I suppose it would be hard to see if you're a waygook or not. Laughing

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Big_Bird



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

LOL
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Tiger Beer



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 3:54 am    Post subject: Re: Would you prefer them to sit by you, or leave you alone? Reply with quote

Junior wrote:
Every time on the subway or in the PC bang its the same. Grown men walk over to the vacant seat beside me, then hesitate when they notice a waygook is there. Trembling and stressed, they then make some excuse to whoever they're with and go elsewhere.

A minute ago I was just about to tell the guy to have a seat and relax. Its going to be ok, foreigners do not bite and there was nothing to be afraid of.

then suddnly i realised..its actually much more prefereable that these juveniles sit somewhere else away from me.

I never have that.. where do you live anyways?

Unfortunately people always grab seats next to me without hesitation.

Hate to say it.. but maybe its the way you present yourself. There are certain Korean people (or even foreigners) I just don't want to sit next to for whatever reasons regardless of ethnicity. Same when I lived in NYC, etc.
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Junior



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 4:09 am    Post subject: Re: Would you prefer them to sit by you, or leave you alone? Reply with quote

Tiger Beer wrote:
Hate to say it.. but maybe its the way you present yourself.


I usually wave a knife in their faces and shout "sit next to me please".

Seriously..never experienced this same level of paranoia in any other country- and I've been in 25.

Their immediate nervousness projects on to me. they look like they're about to propose or something.
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Big_Bird



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 4:21 am    Post subject: Re: Would you prefer them to sit by you, or leave you alone? Reply with quote

Junior wrote:

Seriously..never experienced this same level of paranoia in any other country- and I've been in 25.



Yeah, but that was before you started to dress like this:

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spliff



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 4:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Probably thought you were some left-wing liberal and didn't feel like being tranquilized to death w/ some bleating suburban rant about Bush or the war against the free Iraqi people.. Very Happy

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Junior



Joined: 18 Nov 2005
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 4:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

They're probably attracted to your smell. Reminds them of the water buffalos back in isaarn.


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twg



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 6:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I prefer it because I'm a leg-splayer when I sit.

I like my boys to have lots of breathing space. I cant do that when I'm sitting cheek to cheek with someone on the train.

This does not make me a bad man.
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