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mytime



Joined: 15 Oct 2006

PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 3:01 am    Post subject: how often have you seen.... Reply with quote

a truly gorgeous-looking Korean girl dating a foreigner
I don't mean just pretty or sexy but the kind that's a little hard to just even talk to
(Someone who looks like Kim Tae hee for example)

In my 3 years here I have only seen that once and that guy was trying to break up with her^^

My friend says the real beautiful Korean girl usually dont date foreigners because they dont feel the need to learn English....they get so much much attention from Korean guys that they don't need to look elsewhere

It's kind of a stupid statement because thats not the only reason they learn English but I guess it's true in many cases
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Mashimaro



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 3:34 am    Post subject: Re: how often have you seen.... Reply with quote

mytime wrote:
a truly gorgeous-looking Korean girl dating a foreigner

Maybe once or twice... in four years
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tatu



Joined: 23 Jun 2006

PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 4:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

How often have you seen a korean dating a truly gorgeous foriegner?
I haven't seen it yet.
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Delirium's Brother



Joined: 08 May 2006
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 4:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

tatu wrote:
How often have you seen a korean dating a truly gorgeous foriegner?
I haven't seen it yet.

Twice today, actually: decent looking Korean man with Western hottie; Western stud with Korean hottie.
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mytime



Joined: 15 Oct 2006

PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 4:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do you mean gorgeous female or male foreigner?
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rocklee



Joined: 04 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 4:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

tatu wrote:
How often have you seen a korean dating a truly gorgeous foriegner?
I haven't seen it yet.


I wouldn't say that the foreigners are gorgeous, but they look like they can do better.
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Unposter



Joined: 04 Jun 2006

PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 7:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Despite the Trollish nature of this thread, Iwill add that the wife and I were watching Korean TV the other day and they had on this older Korean movie star. She was showing the camera crew around her house. And, sure enough she is married to an American.

Now, I don't know when they got married; she looked in her 40s but she looked pretty good. She must have been quite fine her prime.

He was older and distinguished looking. He must have been some kind of international executive. He got himself quite the catch. So, yeah, well to do Korean women, hot or otherwise, do marry "foreigners."

I forget where but there was another discussion on TV about Korean and "foreign" standards of beauty. The show was discussing the beauty of Korean brides of Hollywood movie stars such as Nicholas Cage, Wesley Snipes and oh yeah, Woody Allen. The program dissed all their brides as less than desireable and speculated that foreign tastes were just different.

For what it is worth, I thought Woody's bride (whatever her name) was quite nice. She looked very natural, innocent yet confident. Anyway, I am not sure I can describe it but it is very possible that Koreans and foreigners look for different things in a spouse. Personally, I hate the gobs of make up many Korean women wear -- just my taste -- it is not meant to be a value judgement.

Bottom line is that beauty is in the beholder. And, it is not a commodity. I think these are things the OP has forgotten.
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europe2seoul



Joined: 12 Sep 2005
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 8:27 am    Post subject: Re: how often have you seen.... Reply with quote

mytime wrote:

My friend says the real beautiful Korean girl usually dont date foreigners because they dont feel the need to learn English....they get so much much attention from Korean guys that they don't need to look elsewhere


There is some truth in that. I also personally didn't see a super-hot korean girl with a foreign dude. I guess it also depends in what circles you hang out in. I guess if you are in investment banking/lawyer and spend time in Apgujong/Gangnam or 5-star hotel bars, you can meet a hot woman (who is dating you for money though!) no matter if you are foreign or korean, since those people mingle there.

Also, I wondered - why international students, girls, are sub-par than the ones back in their countries? I guess pretty girls are busy dating than sitting at home studying.
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PimpofKorea



Joined: 09 Dec 2006
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 8:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

How often have you seen a Korean businessman that actually has any real business sense or long-term goals????
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MissSeoul



Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Somewhere in America

PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 9:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Unposter wrote:
Despite the Trollish nature of this thread, Iwill add that the wife and I were watching Korean TV the other day and they had on this older Korean movie star. She was showing the camera crew around her house. And, sure enough she is married to an American.

Now, I don't know when they got married; she looked in her 40s but she looked pretty good. She must have been quite fine her prime.



Is he an Italian-American ?
There is an Italian-American who was an executive of international Co married to a korean movie star, she wasn't really famous or well known, she was like nobody know her very well kind of movie star Laughing

There is also well known old korean singer who married to an Italian-American business man. Also another korean female singer and a female korean comedian married to American, they both weren't famous/weren't well known, they left entertainment world after marry.

There is also a korean singer who married to a multi-millionaire from
Lebanon ( They live in Spain ), their young dauther was kidnapped by ransom seeker ( happened in Spain ), they paid several million $$$ to get back their daughter, it was international news several years ago.
This girl become a singer after married to him, it was him who find her talent and supported her to become a singer.
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djsmnc



Joined: 20 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 12:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I did before. One of them paid for all the dates and took me to some high end establishments too! Truly gigalo, but it only lasted about a month and a half. Dated another girl who was a ballet dancer. Quite stunning in all senses of the word.

Had a couple friends that did too. It's not as rare as you may think.
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Mashimaro



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 4:46 pm    Post subject: Re: how often have you seen.... Reply with quote

europe2seoul wrote:
I guess if you are in investment banking/lawyer and spend time in Apgujong/Gangnam or 5-star hotel bars, you can meet a hot woman (who is dating you for money though!) no matter if you are foreign or korean, since those people mingle there.

It's a fallacy that you need a lot of money to date hot women. If most foreigners can't pull hot women it is more likely that their game than anything else.
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Dev



Joined: 18 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 5:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's rare to see any women or men have both beauty and brains in one package. From this statement you can pretty much deduce that I think most of the beautiful K ladies are dumb golddiggers. Much easier to dig into a rich K man's pockets. K men are pretty pathetic people who generally shower K women with whatever they demand. They have no pride. They don't try at all to hide it either. Beautiful K women exploit them to hell.
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europe2seoul



Joined: 12 Sep 2005
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 6:03 pm    Post subject: Re: how often have you seen.... Reply with quote

Mashimaro wrote:
europe2seoul wrote:
I guess if you are in investment banking/lawyer and spend time in Apgujong/Gangnam or 5-star hotel bars, you can meet a hot woman (who is dating you for money though!) no matter if you are foreign or korean, since those people mingle there.

It's a fallacy that you need a lot of money to date hot women. If most foreigners can't pull hot women it is more likely that their game than anything else.


True, true. But if you go to S bar or W, it costs minimum 10,000 won for 1 beer. And on this board people are proud when they spend as little as possible. Nobody is saying about drinking 20,000 whiskey shot after shoping in Galeria for his new prada shoes and contemplating to buy Porsche or Mercedes Benz AMG. To even enter establishments and circles where there are many hot women who dress to impress, you gotta have the money, dress well and have some nice job. You can have the game and pull in chicks after you are in. Competition is high.

Working in hagwon and drinking in local hof however, will get you average Korean women and better looking ones will prefer Korean guy to seel themselves higher for possible marriage.
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rothkowitz



Joined: 27 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 6:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hot chicks with douchebags is always painful,doesn't matter what country it is.
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