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I'll be danged...I actually can't wait to come back

 
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jdog2050



Joined: 17 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 7:01 pm    Post subject: I'll be danged...I actually can't wait to come back Reply with quote

Shocked

Wow, well, I'm currently in Chicago, and it's snowy, the sun is like an unrelenting nuclear fire in the sky, and it's been about -2 fahrenheit all week.

I'm ready to come back. Not only have I blown about $800 on...I don't know what (the only expense I can track is $300 for a ticket to Oregon, and $40 for VISA renewal), but it's so cold outside that when I finally think of something to do, I want to come back in as soon as the wind starts blowing right through my thick Mongolian hat.

I complain a lot about Korea, but I'm starting to face the fact that, for the most part, it's kind of where my life is now. My friends in the states are scattered all over the country, and prospects for being an english major here are dismal at best. I also have an apartment in Itaewon that I just paid for, and it' s kind of rotting away this February.

So, I never thought I'd do this, but I'm cutting my time back home about 1.5 weeks early so I can recoup some of the money I've lost, and get back into the swing of things before my full contract starts.

Is this how it begins? Is this how you become a lifer? When you come back and realize that for all the gripes, life in Korea is just your life now?[/list]
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endofthewor1d



Joined: 01 Apr 2003
Location: the end of the wor1d.

PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 7:06 pm    Post subject: Re: I'll be danged...I actually can't wait to come back Reply with quote

jdog2050 wrote:
:Is this how it begins? Is this how you become a lifer? When you come back and realize that for all the gripes, life in Korea is just your life now?


yeah, that's about the size of it.
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Gamecock



Joined: 26 Nov 2003

PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 7:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yep. Same thing happened to me. I came to Korea to do a one-year stint and left after that year pissed at Korea and SOOOO ready to start a life at home. I didn't want to go back to the public school in the States, and you're right, an English major doesn't mean a whole lot elsewhere. The job scene was bleak, the winter weather crappy, insane politics really getting under my skin, my family more annoying than I remembered, and my friends all newly married with a completely different life and values than mine...and a funny thing happened. I started missing Korea.

I've been back in Korea 2 years and have been really happy compared to my first year. When I came to the realization that the grass wasn't as green back home as I remembered, it gave me a tolerance for the Korean insanity around me.
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jdog2050



Joined: 17 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 7:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gamecock wrote:
Yep. Same thing happened to me. I came to Korea to do a one-year stint and left after that year pissed at Korea and SOOOO ready to start a life at home. I didn't want to go back to the public school in the States, and you're right, an English major doesn't mean a whole lot elsewhere. The job scene was bleak, the winter weather crappy, insane politics really getting under my skin, my family more annoying than I remembered, and my friends all newly married with a completely different life and values than mine...and a funny thing happened. I started missing Korea.

I've been back in Korea 2 years and have been really happy compared to my first year. When I came to the realization that the grass wasn't as green back home as I remembered, it gave me a tolerance for the Korean insanity around me.


It's funny because I don't know if these are my true feelings, or if the weather here is just making me really miserable.

When I came back during the summer I had a ball. Went to chicago every other day, tooled around with my 5 remaining illinois friends as much as we all could, etc.

Now, like I said, the cold really keeps me from exploring and simply getting out of the house. I went to chinatown today, and couldn't even think about the surroundings because my hands were freezing. Also, this is the point at which living in the South Suburbs goes from being inconvenient, to a flat out drag. No where to just up and go drink (without having to drive, and without having to get into a mexican stare-down), hell, nothing to do at night in general if you don't have a car.

God I hate american car culture. This country is DONE if oil goes caput.
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Mashimaro



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: location, location

PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 11:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The grass is always greener and all that
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MissSeoul



Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Somewhere in America

PostPosted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 12:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gamecock wrote:
I started missing Korea.



Korea is weird place Laughing
If you are in Korea, you want to be somewhere, but if you leave Korea, then you start missing Korea.
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jlb



Joined: 18 Sep 2003

PostPosted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 12:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I left Korea at the end of 2003 and thought I'd never be back. It was weird though, I started missing it a lot and eventually ended up back here, in the same town (been 6 months). Life is pretty easy here compared to back home and that had a lot of appeal to me.
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