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seoulunitarian



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:19 am    Post subject: Biblical Family Values Reply with quote

Judges 19:22-30

"While they were enjoying themselves, a crowd of troublemakers from the town surrounded the house. They began beating at the door and shouting, 'Bring out the man who is staying with you so we can have sex with him.' The old man stepped outside to talk to them. 'No, my brothers, don�t do such an evil thing. This man is a guest in my house, and such a thing would bring dishonor to me. Here, take my virgin daughter and this man�s concubine. I will bring them out to you and you can abuse them and do whatever you like. But don�t do such a shameful thing to this man.' But they would not listen to him.

So the Levite took his concubine and pushed her out the door. The men of the town abused her all night taking turns raping her until morning. At dawn they finally let her go. At daybreak, the woman returned to the house where her husband was staying. She collapsed at the door and lay there until it was full daylight. When her husband opened the door to leave, he found his concubine on the ground. He said, 'Get up. Let�s go!' But there was no answer. So he put her body on a donkey and took her home. When he arrived home, he cut up her body into twelve pieces and sent one piece to each tribe."

Where to start? The first thing that caught my attention was not the actual violence of the account, but what is called evil and what is called good. This goes directly to my point of relative sexual/familial ethics. The owner of the house calls it evil to request sex with a stranger (it has nothing to do with man on man sex), but considers it good (or at least better) for the men of the village to rape and possibly kill his own daughters. And the reason he considers such things evil and good is not because of the sexual acts involved, but because of his reputation within the community.

It is just a matter of fact that women were considered property during the historical period in which this story was written, and I am not judging the scenario morally one way or the other in that regard. It is what it is. But fundamentalists should not be able to bypass this story when it comes to developing a set of biblical sexual or family values. So the men abuse the concubine (lucky virgin daughters escaped this one) until morning. The husband finds his dead or near dead concubine on the doorstep (after his morning coffee?) and simply tells her it�s time to go home. There is no attempt at care or resuscitation, just a bit of butchering practice when they arrive home.

Inevitably, my reason for posting this will come into question, and my answer is that I am sick of Christian fundamentalist ignorance equaling bliss.

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Demophobe



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You're trying too hard. Get some rest.
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seoulunitarian



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:29 am    Post subject: re: Reply with quote

Demophobe wrote:
You're trying too hard. Get some rest.


How did I know you'd be the first to reply without actually replying Wink

It's a part of a book I am writing, so I just copied and pasted.

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Qinella



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:35 am    Post subject: Re: Biblical Family Values Reply with quote

seoulunitarian wrote:
I am not judging the scenario morally one way or the other


Well come on now, are you really being honest when you say this? I do not think so.

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Inevitably, my reason for posting this will come into question, and my answer is that I am sick of Christian fundamentalist ignorance equaling bliss.


Christians are aware of the fact that their spiritual ancestors in the ANE had different social values than we do today. I'm not sure why it matters, really, unless someone is going to actually make a case that the Bible (and by extension all religions it spawned) were constructed upon an immoral foundation and therefore more deserving of deconstruction rather than obedience. But if you are going to simply say that.. well.. what exactly are you saying? Do you actually believe Christians are not aware of this immensely well-known story? It's not like it's an obscure passage or anything.

You're trying to dodge criticism by not making a point, I think.
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seoulunitarian



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:41 am    Post subject: Re: Biblical Family Values Reply with quote

Qinella wrote:
seoulunitarian wrote:
I am not judging the scenario morally one way or the other


Well come on now, are you really being honest when you say this? I do not think so.

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Inevitably, my reason for posting this will come into question, and my answer is that I am sick of Christian fundamentalist ignorance equaling bliss.


Christians are aware of the fact that their spiritual ancestors in the ANE had different social values than we do today. I'm not sure why it matters, really, unless someone is going to actually make a case that the Bible (and by extension all religions it spawned) were constructed upon an immoral foundation and therefore more deserving of deconstruction rather than obedience. But if you are going to simply say that.. well.. what exactly are you saying? Do you actually believe Christians are not aware of this immensely well-known story? It's not like it's an obscure passage or anything.

You're trying to dodge criticism by not making a point, I think.


I am being totally honest, and my point is that there is no such thing as a sexual/family ethic that remains static across cultures and time. This is the problem Christian fundamentalists have in their movement for traditional family values, whatever a traditional value is. The point I'm making, and I thought it was clear, is that a value cannot (by definition) be traditional. They always change. The values of the ANE are, of necessity, different than our values, and the Bible should not be used as a roadmap for traditional family values.

The question I want to force an answer to is this: What are traditional family values based on if not the Bible? And, if they are based on the Bible, then why are the family values of the OT left out?

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I replied perfectly the first time, but I'm not sure you can read.

Once more, and in a word....

context.


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seoulunitarian



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:44 am    Post subject: re: Reply with quote

Demophobe wrote:
I replied perfectly the first time, but I'm not sure you can read.

Once more, and in a word....

context.


I love it when Christians use context as an out for passages they are uncomfortable with, but hate it when non-Christians use the same out. Anyway, context is my point, and when you agree with it as an out for biblical morality, you also agree that the Bible cannot be made to defend any morality.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Bible supports slavery, murder of your own children, and genocide. Christians really just pick and choose the sections that suit their needs. To any sane person it pokes holes in the idea that the Bible is some holy text that was perfect when it was written and will stay perfect forever, but any Christian who wants to defend that ground has to get through a lot of that stuff.

We all have a slightly different interpretation of the Bible. I read the part about Sodom and Gomorrah and I see it as God's condemnation of rape, not homosexuality. I read the bit about Onan and I see it not as a condemnation of masturbation, but of the rhythm method of birth control on a woman. It's impossible to pin anything on the Bible, because it's just so damn vague, and you can find all sorts of contradicting statements to support anything you want to say.
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seoulunitarian



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:47 am    Post subject: re: Reply with quote

Demophobe wrote:
You're trying too hard. Get some rest.


And in what parallel universe am I supposed to discover context as your main point in this post? Pardon my vitriol.

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seoulunitarian



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:48 am    Post subject: re: Reply with quote

RACETRAITOR wrote:
The Bible supports slavery, murder of your own children, and genocide. Christians really just pick and choose the sections that suit their needs. To any sane person it pokes holes in the idea that the Bible is some holy text that was perfect when it was written and will stay perfect forever, but any Christian who wants to defend that ground has to get through a lot of that stuff.

We all have a slightly different interpretation of the Bible. I read the part about Sodom and Gomorrah and I see it as God's condemnation of rape, not homosexuality. I read the bit about Onan and I see it not as a condemnation of *beep*, but of the rhythm method of birth control on a woman. It's impossible to pin anything on the Bible, because it's just so damn vague, and you can find all sorts of contradicting statements to support anything you want to say.


Exactly.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's always the same clowns in every thread about Christianity...even when a complete loony starts it, someone they probably have zero in common with, they still feel the need to chime in with their homegrown philosophy for the hundredth time.

You are the zealots, and boring ones at that.

I am totally and completely comfortable with the OT. It's you that seem to have the problem with it.

You think 'context' is an "out"?

Perhaps it's your continued blindness to the big picture that has Christians repeating the word ad nauseum.

Where would you people be without the internet? Talking to the TV, invariably.
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:52 am    Post subject: Re: re: Reply with quote

seoulunitarian wrote:
RACETRAITOR wrote:
The Bible supports slavery, murder of your own children, and genocide. Christians really just pick and choose the sections that suit their needs. To any sane person it pokes holes in the idea that the Bible is some holy text that was perfect when it was written and will stay perfect forever, but any Christian who wants to defend that ground has to get through a lot of that stuff.

We all have a slightly different interpretation of the Bible. I read the part about Sodom and Gomorrah and I see it as God's condemnation of rape, not homosexuality. I read the bit about Onan and I see it not as a condemnation of *beep*, but of the rhythm method of birth control on a woman. It's impossible to pin anything on the Bible, because it's just so damn vague, and you can find all sorts of contradicting statements to support anything you want to say.


Exactly.

Peace



Seems you have your answer. Call space and tell it the good news.
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You are so lost, Daniel...searching for justification, even from nameless strangers.
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seoulunitarian



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:54 am    Post subject: re: Reply with quote

Demophobe wrote:
It's always the same clowns in every thread about Christianity...even when a complete loony starts it, someone they probably have zero in common with, they still feel the need to chime in with their homegrown philosophy for the hundredth time.

You are the zealots, and boring ones at that.

I am totally and completely comfortable with the OT. It's you that seem to have the problem with it.

You think 'context' is an "out"?

Perhaps it's your continued blindness to the big picture that has Christians repeating the word ad nauseum.

Where would you people be without the internet? Talking to the TV, invariably.


Since you continue to miss the point of my posts, I am going to ask you point blank: what is your definition of a traditional family and why?

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:55 am    Post subject: Re: re: Reply with quote

Demophobe wrote:
seoulunitarian wrote:
RACETRAITOR wrote:
The Bible supports slavery, murder of your own children, and genocide. Christians really just pick and choose the sections that suit their needs. To any sane person it pokes holes in the idea that the Bible is some holy text that was perfect when it was written and will stay perfect forever, but any Christian who wants to defend that ground has to get through a lot of that stuff.

We all have a slightly different interpretation of the Bible. I read the part about Sodom and Gomorrah and I see it as God's condemnation of rape, not homosexuality. I read the bit about Onan and I see it not as a condemnation of *beep*, but of the rhythm method of birth control on a woman. It's impossible to pin anything on the Bible, because it's just so damn vague, and you can find all sorts of contradicting statements to support anything you want to say.


Exactly.

Peace



Seems you have your answer. Call space and tell it the good news.


What is God's phone number? I'd rather call him.

Peace
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