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ilovebdt

Joined: 03 Jun 2005 Location: Nr Seoul
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 10:59 pm Post subject: Tact needed with co-teachers |
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There are three things that are really beginning to piss me off about three of my co-teachers.
They do one or a combination of the following:
Arrive late for class - I always say to my students they should be on time, so what does it look like if the Korean teacher isn't?
Bring their own work to class and don't help the students understand their work.
Just sit there and say nothing the whole time.
Talk to one of the students while I am talking, so when I am waiting for them to explain something they have no clue what we are doing.
Can some suggest a tactful way for me to address these things with them, because at the moment I am about to slap them up side the head and shout at them to get their arses in gear!
It's not as if they don't have a clue about what they do in my class. There are five other co-teachers they could ask and I have given them enough hints.
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ttompatz

Joined: 05 Sep 2005 Location: Kwangju, South Korea
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 11:04 pm Post subject: Re: Tact needed with co-teachers |
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ilovebdt wrote: |
There are three things that are really beginning to piss me off about three of my co-teachers.
They do one or a combination of the following:
Arrive late for class - I always say to my students they should be on time, so what does it look like if the Korean teacher isn't?
Bring their own work to class and don't help the students understand their work.
Just sit there and say nothing the whole time.
Talk to one of the students while I am talking, so when I am waiting for them to explain something they have no clue what we are doing.
Can some suggest a tactful way for me to address these things with them, because at the moment I am about to slap them up side the head and shout at them to get their arses in gear!
It's not as if they don't have a clue about what they do in my class. There are five other co-teachers they could ask and I have given them enough hints.
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Public school? teacher late - leave the class.
Public school teacher talking and disturbing class - leave the class.
Public school teacher doing nothing - pretty normal. Just teach and be thankful they are not a bother. |
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Bibbitybop

Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 11:06 pm Post subject: Re: Tact needed with co-teachers |
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ilovebdt wrote: |
There are three things that are really beginning to piss me off about three of my co-teachers.
They do one or a combination of the following:
Arrive late for class - I always say to my students they should be on time, so what does it look like if the Korean teacher isn't?
Bring their own work to class and don't help the students understand their work.
Just sit there and say nothing the whole time.
Talk to one of the students while I am talking, so when I am waiting for them to explain something they have no clue what we are doing.
Can some suggest a tactful way for me to address these things with them, because at the moment I am about to slap them up side the head and shout at them to get their arses in gear!
It's not as if they don't have a clue about what they do in my class. There are five other co-teachers they could ask and I have given them enough hints.
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About approaching them: Just tell them how you feel. Be sincere, not angry, and tell them it will help the students learn.
As for not being late, I personally don't mind it. I don't stress on getting every single thing covered and if I have to joke around with the students for an extra 5 minutes, cool. They are also MUCH busier than native speaking teachers as they have to plan more lessons, go to more meetings, deal with homeroom, and be a personal "mentor" or "advisor" to their students (this includes buttloads of paperwork). My teachers stay after I leave because they aren't finished. When they tell me they won't be in class at all, I don't mind. I know how to keep the students in line. |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 11:23 pm Post subject: Re: Tact needed with co-teachers |
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It's interesting what pisses off some teachers and not others, isn't it? I don't have my own classroom so perhaps its a bit different with me.
ilovebdt wrote: |
There are three things that are really beginning to piss me off about three of my co-teachers.
They do one or a combination of the following:
Arrive late for class - I always say to my students they should be on time, so what does it look like if the Korean teacher isn't? |
Most teachers at my school aren't in class when the bell goes. So what? I usually arrive a bit early to set up the computer if I'm using it, and write my phonics or dialogue words on the board. When the bell rings we start. With the classes for which I have a co-teacher I've usually had the prefect call everyone to attention and bow before he or she arrives, and if they don't come at all I'm prepared to carry on business as usual.
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Bring their own work to class and don't help the students understand their work.
Just sit there and say nothing the whole time. |
Same as if they don't come. What's more annoying is a co-teacher who seems helpless to do anything about a problem going on right in front of him or her. Last term on a number of occasions I had to march up and confiscate things from students who were sitting right under a certain newbie co-teacher's nose, and if she told them to stop doing something they'd just nod and then carry right on doing it until I came over.
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Talk to one of the students while I am talking, so when I am waiting for them to explain something they have no clue what we are doing. |
Now that pisses me off. Royally. I had another newbie who did that last year and at the beginning of one lesson I shat all over him and the student, basically treating them both like disruptive students, in front of the whole class. The problem pretty much stopped after that. He was younger, and had less experience and status than me at our school - thankfully.
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Can some suggest a tactful way for me to address these things with them, because at the moment I am about to slap them up side the head and shout at them to get their arses in gear!
It's not as if they don't have a clue about what they do in my class. There are five other co-teachers they could ask and I have given them enough hints.
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Well Koreans and taking hints are two things that often don't go together that well. As long as they aren't doing anything that's distracting the class I'd suggest you just pretend you're teaching solo. This year I have to work with two rookies. One of them seems to carry no authority whatsoever and the other one is already yelling at and hitting the kids too much for my liking (and the law of diminishing returns is already setting in). Both are OK at translating. So I'll play bad cop with some classes, good cop with others, and on the whole enjoy the classes that I teach solo far more. Another thing that works well is to find as much material as you can that already has Hanguel translations or picture guides and just cut the co-teacher out of the picture altogether. |
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poet13
Joined: 22 Jan 2006 Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 11:24 pm Post subject: |
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"Arrive late for class" - I told my co-teachers at the beginning of the semester that I would ask them to come to clas when I needed them. It's rare that I need them.
"Bring their own work to class and don't help the students understand their work." That's fine by me as long as they're quiet. It's my class, their understanding is my responsibility.
"Just sit there and say nothing the whole time." That's fine too. I'm a teacher, and a big boy now, so I can handle a classroom full of kids. If I say something they don't understand, I find another way to say it so they do understand.
"Talk to one of the students while I am talking..." Now THAT would puss me off, and I would say something to them; not in class, and politely, but I would definitely speak to them about it. |
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ilovebdt

Joined: 03 Jun 2005 Location: Nr Seoul
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 11:31 pm Post subject: |
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poet13 wrote: |
"Arrive late for class" - I told my co-teachers at the beginning of the semester that I would ask them to come to clas when I needed them. It's rare that I need them.
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Not an option at my school. I have to have a co-teacher in all my classes.
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poet13
Joined: 22 Jan 2006 Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 11:50 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah, it's required in my contract too, but I changed the rules for a couple of reasons.
-My co-teachers already have a full work load, and they appreciate it that they have that time to do other things.
-Even when they were there, I rarely needed them. I certainly don't need them for discipline.
-I believe my students have more respect for me as a teacher. I don't need someone to hold my hand in class. On campus I receive the same defference that any other teacher receives. |
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ddeubel

Joined: 20 Jul 2005
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 11:51 pm Post subject: |
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In my opinion, you should have had a meeting at the begining of the year where you all discussed roles and responsibilities. If it is then agreed they sit and watch or what not, okay. But not like this.
I suggest you use the questionnaire I developed to bring up the subject. Say to them you were told by head office or something like that. Have a meeting and go through the questionnaire together. Might help your relationship (s).
A lot of the problems in co-teaching relationships are set in motion because this simple step is just "assumed" and never gets done.
DD
http://www.esnips.com/doc/bb289c2e-c267-42c9-9168-c7106c1b4eba/coteacher-questionnaire |
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poet13
Joined: 22 Jan 2006 Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 11:58 pm Post subject: |
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dduebel is far to grown up.
Yes, have the meeting. Grab one by the ears and yank their head down onto your fast rising knee. Do it over and over again until his or her brain is a slushy pile of puss on the floor. Make the others help you hide the body. Now that you're all in it, you can blackmail/intimidate them into doing their job better.
Don't thank me. Just knowing you will sleep better at night not having to worry about your co-teachers performance the next day is thanks enough. |
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ilovebdt

Joined: 03 Jun 2005 Location: Nr Seoul
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Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 12:02 am Post subject: |
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ddeubel wrote: |
In my opinion, you should have had a meeting at the begining of the year where you all discussed roles and responsibilities. If it is then agreed they sit and watch or what not, okay. But not like this.
I suggest you use the questionnaire I developed to bring up the subject. Say to them you were told by head office or something like that. Have a meeting and go through the questionnaire together. Might help your relationship (s).
A lot of the problems in co-teaching relationships are set in motion because this simple step is just "assumed" and never gets done.
DD
http://www.esnips.com/doc/bb289c2e-c267-42c9-9168-c7106c1b4eba/coteacher-questionnaire |
It's a great suggestion, but I am in my second year at the same school and I would have thought that in one of their many departmental meetings what to do in my class would have been addresed with those new to co-teaching
However, I am not quite sure where they are going to fit in a session to discuss team teaching when they can't even come to class on time if they come at all.
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ilovebdt

Joined: 03 Jun 2005 Location: Nr Seoul
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Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 12:05 am Post subject: |
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poet13 wrote: |
Yeah, it's required in my contract too, but I changed the rules for a couple of reasons.
-My co-teachers already have a full work load, and they appreciate it that they have that time to do other things.
-Even when they were there, I rarely needed them. I certainly don't need them for discipline.
-I believe my students have more respect for me as a teacher. I don't need someone to hold my hand in class. On campus I receive the same defference that any other teacher receives. |
I don't as you say "need someone to hold my hand in class", but I do like all the students to have an equal chance to participate and understand what is happening in my class, which is where I think a Korean teacher's input is very valuable in class.
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poet13
Joined: 22 Jan 2006 Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.
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Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 12:56 am Post subject: |
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"I don't as you say "need someone to hold my hand in class", but I do like all the students to have an equal chance to participate and understand what is happening in my class, which is where I think a Korean teacher's input is very valuable in class. "
Yes, I agree. Please don't interpret that comment as a poke at you. it wasn't intended that way, even if in retrospect, it appears so.
My counter to not having the co-teacher is either making it simpler and get the students to help translate. When we have a new word that is hard for them, I will assign two or three boys to look it up in their dictionary and tell the class the meaning. I konw they understand when they can explain it back to me a different way. The level I teach at makes that easier than higher levels I think. I know a lot of teachers say, NO Korean in the English classroom! I think it's essential, and to my shame, I do not speak korean. It hinders me a great deal.
I think ddeubel was right though about having a meeting at the beginning of the year. Well, even though that horse has bolted, it's not too late. You can broach the topic at a meeting with, "I'd like to be a more effective teacher, but I need your help.", or, "I think we could help our students learn more if we could work out a more effective co-teaching strategy." They will likely feel needed and valued. I would not point out that they miss class, do their own work in class, etc... Often people don't recognize a problem until someone with a different perspective points it out. Sounds counterintuitive, but it's really not. I think the wrong way to approach it would be to say, "You're not doing your job.", or, "You should do your job better." That might be obvious, but a bent nose here often stays bent. (No, not assuming that's how you would address it, but others read this too.)
Anyways, those are just my thoughts.
Hope they help a little. |
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nautilus

Joined: 26 Nov 2005 Location: Je jump, Tu jump, oui jump!
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Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 2:04 am Post subject: Re: Tact needed with co-teachers |
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ilovebdt wrote: |
Can some suggest a tactful way for me to address these things with them, because at the moment I am about to slap them up side the head and shout at them to get their arses in gear!
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Koreans are very sensitive. Probably too sensitive. If you make them lose face, then they become a thorn in your side forever after.Most korean communication is unspoken. if you blatantly tell them off they will make it their mission to pi*s you off. And its easy for them to do because they speak and function fully in korean, you don't. And the next one you get will be the same.
If they are late i just sit and do nothing until they arrive. It registers with them. or, i'll leave the class early.
If you try to have an adult conversation about it as I have tried, then they really get pis*ed. If you actually get mad with them, then the working relationship is forever ruined.Its a tough one.  |
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bosintang

Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Location: In the pot with the rest of the mutts
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Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:38 pm Post subject: |
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DD, you should be running this program! You are singlehandedly more useful in your brief posts here, than any co-teacher, official, or weekend training seminar combined has ever been!
The form above should not only be filled out by teachers at the start of the school semester, it should also be filled out when teachers apply for jobs, and what schools should be filling out when they request foreign teachers.
If they made potential job candidates do a sample lesson plan and fill out a forum like this when applying for a job, even if they didn't plan on using it as a way of weeding out candidates, it might snap some sense into people what they are actually getting themselves into. |
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Bukowski
Joined: 29 Nov 2006
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Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 5:12 pm Post subject: |
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Make the time.
Are you trying to say that before, during, and after school that you can't arrange a time to speak with the Korean teachers?
I don't buy it.
As for your situation, if you can establish some dialogue with them, your life will be much better.
Unfortunately for me, I have one class each week with a tyrant. I share the class with her to teach 3rd grade elementary students. I think she hates children and her job. I have no problem with her trying to boss me around, as I just smile at her. However, she yells at the students to the point of making them terrified. Just yesterday she threw one of the student's books from his desk, because he wasn't responding fast enough for her liking. I stepped between her and him, and she walked away.
Bottom line, she is a loose cannon, and it is not like I can have a talk with her. My spoken Korean ability/vocabulary is too limited, and her English is nil.
I worry for those kids.
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