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new challenga
Joined: 22 Jul 2006
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 Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 6:16 am Post subject: i'm meeting a girl tomorrow. |
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what is there to do around 4pm - 10pm? any place where we can go ice skating? or bowling? ideas needed!  btw i'm in the gwangmyung area. |
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uberscheisse
Joined: 02 Dec 2003
Location: japan is better than korea.
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| Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 7:20 am Post subject: |
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| just get coffee and talk. big outings like skating are for date #2. |
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wylies99
Joined: 13 May 2006
Location: I'm one cool cat!
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| Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 7:29 am Post subject: |
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Go out to eat.
Let her pick the place and smile- no matter what.
Let her talk. Appear to be interested in what she's saying, even if you're not. |
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The Hammer
Joined: 18 Jan 2003
Location: Ullungdo 37.5 N, 130.9 E, altitude : 223 m
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My best advice...
Take a shower and brush your teeth. A lot of dirt bags blow it because of personal hygiene. |
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wylies99
Joined: 13 May 2006
Location: I'm one cool cat!
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| Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 9:06 am Post subject: |
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Good advice- plus, bring some breath mints for after eating.
Try to avoid jokes until you know more about her sense of humor- if she even has one. And, no sarcasm. Many don't "get it." |
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Bibbitybop
Joined: 22 Feb 2006
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 9:54 am Post subject: |
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You are in the middle of Seoul and don't know where to take a girl???
Supposing this isn't a joke, let me help:
Hongik University station: Tons of bars, restaurants, clubs
Myongdong: Tons of shopping, restaurants, bars
Gwanghwamun: Cheongycheong!! Romantic date walking on the river. Stop by area establishments for drinks.
Your house: Provide alcohol, movie and massage oil
Location shouldn't matter if you are into the girl. You could go to one hof and let everything take care of itself. |
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wylies99
Joined: 13 May 2006
Location: I'm one cool cat!
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| Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 3:46 pm Post subject: |
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| Location shouldn't matter if you are into the girl. You could go to one hof and let everything take care of itself. |
He needs advice, so he isn't exactly a casanova. He doesn't know how to "let everything take care of itself"  |
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Leslie Cheswyck
Joined: 31 May 2003
Location: University of Western Chile
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| Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 4:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Make it a 2 hr date. 3 max. Leave her wanting more. |
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Natalie
Joined: 16 Apr 2007
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| Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 7:20 pm Post subject: |
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| wylies99 wrote: |
Good advice- plus, bring some breath mints for after eating.
Try to avoid jokes until you know more about her sense of humor- if she even has one. And, no sarcasm. Many don't "get it." |
????
Just be YOURSELF! Jokes are all-good on the first date. If she doesn't appreciate them perhaps she's not worth it anyway!! |
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Natalie
Joined: 16 Apr 2007
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| Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 7:22 pm Post subject: |
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| Leslie Cheswyck wrote: |
| Make it a 2 hr date. 3 max. Leave her wanting more. |
hahaha, You guys are hilarious. Us women are simpler than u think.
She likes you = good date. Don't over analyze  |
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SeoulFinn
Joined: 27 Feb 2006
Location: 1h from Seoul
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Huh? You just found the opposite sex and don't know what to do with them? In Japan they have "Dating Guide Books" to help noobs like you with the same problem. Maybe they have those books here as well? 
Nah, I'm just yanking your chain, sonny. Good luck on your first date! Reel her in nice and easy. |
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Bibbitybop
Joined: 22 Feb 2006
Location: Seoul
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| Leslie Cheswyck wrote: |
| Make it a 2 hr date. 3 max. Leave her wanting more. |
That is rediculous. A full day together will leave her wanting more. A good date cut short will send her the wrong signals. |
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Mashimaro
Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: location, location
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| Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 10:14 pm Post subject: |
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| Bibbitybop wrote: |
| Leslie Cheswyck wrote: |
| Make it a 2 hr date. 3 max. Leave her wanting more. |
That is rediculous. A full day together will leave her wanting more. A good date cut short will send her the wrong signals. |
Which do people want more of?
a) something very abundant i.e. dirt
b) something in short supply i.e. gold |
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pkang0202
Joined: 09 Mar 2007
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Sorry to hijack this thread, but I have a question of my own.
So I went out on a date with a couple different Korean girls 2 weeks ago. One date was on a Wednesday, and the other on a Saturday. Anyways, the dates really well. After the dates, I haven't made any attempt to contact them. I figured if they wanted to see me again that they'd send me a text or call me. Anyways, I haven't heard anything yet.
The question is, after a date is the guy suppose to be the one calling the Korean girls and setting up the next date? Or was I right in just sitting tight and waiting for the girls to make the next move?
Not sure how its suppose to work here in Korea. Are girls suppose to wait for a guy to call first here? |
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Natalie
Joined: 16 Apr 2007
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| pkang0202 wrote: |
Sorry to hijack this thread, but I have a question of my own.
So I went out on a date with a couple different Korean girls 2 weeks ago. One date was on a Wednesday, and the other on a Saturday. Anyways, the dates really well. After the dates, I haven't made any attempt to contact them. I figured if they wanted to see me again that they'd send me a text or call me. Anyways, I haven't heard anything yet.
The question is, after a date is the guy suppose to be the one calling the Korean girls and setting up the next date? Or was I right in just sitting tight and waiting for the girls to make the next move?
Not sure how its suppose to work here in Korea. Are girls suppose to wait for a guy to call first here? |
I don't believe it!!!> Guys really are more complicated that women...or at least me. I would never think about it this much! Just call if you like them, whenever. I mean, surely they wouldnt not-see you just because you called too early? would they? |
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