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Qinella · Joined: 25 Feb 2005 Location: the crib

Yeah.. I've got a question about something here that I've been wondering about for like 6 years. You know how women tend to moan and grunt a lot during certain activities? I've never really felt that compulsion. Maybe sometimes, eeevery now and then, but in general I find women to make a lot more noise during passion than I ever do. Like, when kissing. Well, there's not much to moan about.

However, I often feel like I need to reciprocate. She's making all this effort to enhance the aural environment.. least I could do is contribute an "uuuhhhh" here and there, right?

And during s-e-x, I'm gonna be honest with you here: most of what's going on through my mind is like, "damn look at those t*tties bouncing!" or "Hank Aaron, Dale Murphy, Pete Rose, a hairy ass, Patrick Ewing's forehead sweat.." You know? So she's yelping and howling, and my mind's off in Jupiter. But do I need to throw in a few grunts just to let her know my blood's still warm?

And, ladies: Are these howls artificial? Are they for our benefit? Every women I've been with in any physical way has been far more vocal than I, so I assume it's a natural trait. Hard for me to believe there's a feminine amorous acoustic faction operating in stealth worldwide.

And, guys: What should we do? Just roll with it? Do we need to match? Or at least make an effort?

Q.

peemil · Joined: 09 Feb 2003 Location: Koowoompa

I always find that during the act, anything goes really. As long as you don't get up and do a dance during it, or discuss tomorrow's itinery, or cry out "Oh FDR!" women are generally ok with whatever you do.

Roch · Joined: 24 Apr 2003 Location: Seoul

Ya-ta Boy · Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994

According to one of my Korean friends, Korean women didn't moan and carry on aurally until porn became generally available. Now, he says, 'all' Korean women moan and groan because that's what is expected.

Judy and Elizabeth once discussed this within my hearing eons ago when we all lived in Taejon. Judy said she never made any noise. Elizabeth said she's a noisy lay on the principal that it seems to encourage the lazier ones to try harder.

My conclusion: It's an individual choice.

My question: When you are laying there all tied up and with the sock in your mouth, how does she know if the noises you make are from pleasure or gagging on the sock?

jinks · Joined: 27 Oct 2004 Location: Formerly: Lower North Island

I am a noisy male bang
...more info than most of you require, but the older I get, the the more I grunt and growl.
True about the porn, it sets up a lot of expectations of what s3x should be like, and now life in the bedroom - or where ever - is imitating 'art'.
Just do what you like to do, and if your partner likes it too, do more of it.

pegpig · Joined: 10 May 2005

Leslie Cheswyck · Joined: 31 May 2003 Location: University of Western Chile

I think what Qinella is talking about is ah "delaying" tactics.

SuperHero · Joined: 10 Dec 2003 Location: Superhero Hideout

Grotto · Joined: 21 Mar 2004

apparently not! As the guy in the suit in your avatar plainly shows Laughing

OiGirl · Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Location: Hoke-y-gun

Is this related to the "what to cook" thread??

OiGirl · Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Location: Hoke-y-gun

Qinella · Joined: 25 Feb 2005 Location: the crib

Qinella · Joined: 25 Feb 2005 Location: the crib

tiger fancini · Joined: 21 Mar 2006 Location: Testicles for Eyes

kermo · Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 6:03 pm Post subject:

I'm naturally expressive, and had my own repetoire of grateful noises well before I saw my first bit of porn. As for reciprocity, I like to be able to hear *something* and get a bit of feedback, but quiet is acceptable. I can't believe I just answered this incredibly indelicate question, and I'm not even drunk.