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robyn1882



Joined: 19 May 2006

PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2007 6:55 am    Post subject: Is this normal?? Reply with quote

So I left Korea last summer, vowing to never EVER return. I didnt hate Korea, but hated my school, and hated the rich kids I taught. I picked a Kids College(Apgujeong), if that helps you undersatnd at all. Loved Seoul, loved the food, culture, ppl I met. Anyhow, for some reason, I cant get the thought of coming back out of my head. I still remember how excited I was to get back to Canada, but now that I have been here for year, and havent found a decent job, and everything is so normal, I keep thinking I should go back to Korea for a year of fun and travel? Has anyone else ever vowed they would never go back, and returned? If so, did you enjoy it more your second time around?
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seoulman1



Joined: 02 Feb 2007
Location: Jamsil

PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2007 7:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

give me time to ponder this.

Yet answers will come my friend. Whether in the form of a written responce or a mighty knock in the head, answers will come...
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butlerian



Joined: 04 Sep 2006
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2007 7:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korea is a good place to be. Just remember you're a teacher now, not a University student. Some work/dedication is necessary...
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merkurix



Joined: 21 Dec 2006
Location: Not far from the deep end.

PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2007 7:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Been there, done that. My first year here in Korea, I was a teacher at the one of the famous Wonderland franchises. Needless to say, I told myself I will never, EVER, come back. I finished my contract. But I had this feeling I missed something; I couldn't get it out of my system that perhaps I have forgotten to do something, or had a feeling of "unfinished business" to accomplish. I looked for jobs and I have accepted another contract at a public high school. My friends and family were dissapointed at my decision, and off I went.
My former wonjangnim was planning on keeping all monies due to me, as I would be in the U.S. and in no position to get fight for it, until months later make the decision to come back. I emailed him saying, "I'm baaaack!!" that I would personally go into his office and "negotiate" the release of my money. Money was in the next day of the e-mail. No incident occured. Then I just decided to stay here, and will continue to do so. I now have a pretty kewl job, and I met my significant other that year as well. Life is nice.
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formerflautist



Joined: 30 May 2006

PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2007 4:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was the same way. My school closed two months before the end of my contract. I left Korea the next week. I ended up working in a couple of factory jobs, which I hated, while trying to figure out the next step. I ended up being a restaurant manager. I felt like my life was going nowhere so I decided to come back to Korea. It was the right decision. My student loans are paid off and I'll be starting grad school in the Fall. And I'm just enjoying myself a lot more. I know the ropes, I'm at a good school, and there's a good expat community out here. But the best thing I did for myself while I was in Korea this time was prepare for my life after Korea.
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venus



Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Near Seoul

PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2007 4:30 pm    Post subject: Re: Is this normal?? Reply with quote

robyn1882 wrote:
So I left Korea last summer, vowing to never EVER return. I didnt hate Korea, but hated my school, and hated the rich kids I taught. I picked a Kids College(Apgujeong), if that helps you undersatnd at all. Loved Seoul, loved the food, culture, ppl I met. Anyhow, for some reason, I cant get the thought of coming back out of my head. I still remember how excited I was to get back to Canada, but now that I have been here for year, and havent found a decent job, and everything is so normal, I keep thinking I should go back to Korea for a year of fun and travel? Has anyone else ever vowed they would never go back, and returned? If so, did you enjoy it more your second time around?


Yes, it's very normal.

Like Vietnam Veterans returning form the horrors of war only to find they are unsatisfied with their sanitised lives back home and miss the war, teaching in Korea is also a huge emotional rollercoaster of emotional ups and downs and despite the huge downs (the kids, the schools, the absurdity) it, like war, is an intense emotional experience which will always stay in your memory. Even concentration camp vets look back on those days with a little nastalgia amongst the nightmares and the dread.... Prisoners often find they miss the intimacy of their little cells for a week or two when released from prison

Living intensely, living on the edge becomes addictive, we all think back to those times that made us feel most alive and intense and we miss them thoroughly.


It is the relationships with other humans that were the more intense for better or for worse that we remember most strongly...


That's why personally, even after a hellish first 15 month long ride in Korea and having landed a great, well paid career tracked job with the govt back home, I felt stagnant and bored and yup, decided to come back to the land of the morning arse...
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BuHaoChi



Joined: 30 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2007 4:45 pm    Post subject: Re: Is this normal?? Reply with quote

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twg



Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...

PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2007 5:08 pm    Post subject: Re: Is this normal?? Reply with quote

robyn1882 wrote:
So I left Korea last summer, vowing to never EVER return. I didnt hate Korea, but hated my school, and hated the rich kids I taught. I picked a Kids College(Apgujeong), if that helps you undersatnd at all. Loved Seoul, loved the food, culture, ppl I met. Anyhow, for some reason, I cant get the thought of coming back out of my head. I still remember how excited I was to get back to Canada, but now that I have been here for year, and havent found a decent job, and everything is so normal, I keep thinking I should go back to Korea for a year of fun and travel? Has anyone else ever vowed they would never go back, and returned? If so, did you enjoy it more your second time around?

Sure.

But in Korea, the living is easy and the rent is free. And almost all of your money goes into your pockets and not into the government's coffers.

Thing is, you're gonna get boned at some point when you come back. It doesn't matter if you're at a kiddy hagwon like Wonderland, an adult hagwon like Pagoda, or Yonsei University. You just have to figure out which boning you're willing to tolerate for the greater good of a pretty enjoyable lifestyle.
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whatever



Joined: 11 Jun 2006
Location: Korea: More fun than jail.

PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2007 5:13 pm    Post subject: Re: Is this normal?? Reply with quote

twg wrote:
But in Korea ... the rent is free.


Why do people keep saying this? Last time I checked, we worked for our rent.
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